Dead inside

as I sit here typing this, my hands are shaking, my heart is broken...my soul is on fire.

The only girl I have ever loved has left.

Just when I thought I found something to hold, to treasure, to love, it's gone. I can't keep what I can't hold.

Even the tears running down my face mean more than everything I have.

I'm so depressed.

Just like that, it ended...The most depressing SMS message I ever got. Yes, a SMS...

Just as everything was going perfect, it's over.

Please excuse me while my russian friend calls me.

What was the message man??

I'm sorry to hear that, i can't imagine what you're probably going through, but alcohol isn't the answer. I hope you're ok man.

Been there, its a low point, now the only thing left is for things to get better,
It could be worse i've had a girl I really cared about start goin with my buddy behind my back, he stole the number out of my phone, some friend, I lost a friend and a girl,

With time you can beat this, dont let it beat you,

All I can say is I'm sorry and I hope things get better soon,

Sucks ass bro hope shit works out better, we all end up in that position at some point don't let it get you too down..which is impossible..

Been through. Time will heal it.

Same thing just happened to me yesterday...

I was feelin bad for myself over not being able to be there for her and she dumps me for feeling down too much... *shrugs*

Tryin to move on.

I'm sorry to hear that man. It is low of her to let you know like that.

You'll get over it.

an SMS message? man that is so lame... sorry to hear about that..

You will know when the time comes to get better. It all depends on how much $h1t you want to put up with. I had a similar situation a year ago go. I'm better now. Well about 85-95%.

It takes a minute. Find something that occupies your time. (you're probably thinking you can't. but YOU CAN!) Weither it be working or a hobby, do it. (NO SAD MUSIC!!)

The less you dwell the faster you'll be swell LOL!! I know its hard and you probably thinks theres no tomorrow, but there is. Everyday you fight the pain is another day you'll be stronger.
Or take oz's future advice. I'm still thinking about it.

You won't forget about her, but you will forget the pain you are going thru. And you will remember how you heart felt during that period of time.

hey guys, i'm at uni at the moment...


The message said something like "i've been thinking about us all day n i can't stand the distance, i'm sorry, but i just cant stand the distance i need some space, just give me till the end of the weeek, i'm sorry"

I didn't argue, I just broke down...

Turns out, she's scared of her step mum, and she doesn't like the distance (it's not that far, really, it's further to uni!! and I make that travel three times per week). She can't stand not seeing me all the time (I'm the same!)

I didn't get ANY sleep last night, literally. I went to bed around 12 midnight, found my self eating chicken at 3:30am, and listening to metallica till 4:30. I had to get up at 6am for uni.

I sent her some msg's through out the night that made her realise that we're luck, basically I told her that I have a friend of mine is getting married to a chick he met over the net in canada! Another friend of mine has never even met his g/f of a year, and another friend of mine that I work with's g/f lives 900km north (Queensland).

She said sorry and beged me to take her back, and of course I did.

I thought it was all over, she kept saying after I went to bed that we won't be getting back, I got her older sister (who is actually my age) to talk to her, and she was in tears, and now we're starting a new... Kinda didn't expect that, I really thought it was over, but it's given me a reason not to drink tonight, or any night...


Thanks guys for the help, I really needed to vent it...

Your welcome! And on the situation............:thumbsup:

Good shit, glad to hear all is going better now.

Any pictures of said sister?

oz always thinking with his dick.... :lol:


Glad to hear everything worked out man, women can be confusing sometimes, you just have to be patient and let them work things out, having the sister talk to her was a good idea, good luck in the future to davo..

I bet that if Oz stepped in the thread ealier with his awesome advice, and Davo followed it, he wouldnt be back with his girlfriend but with her sister or maybe he could get lucky and get a threesome.

I bet that if Oz stepped in the thread ealier with his awesome advice, and Davo followed it, he wouldnt be back with his girlfriend but with her sister or maybe he could get lucky and get a threesome.


hmm...

Funny story, actually...

Their mum tried to hook me up with the older sister, but I wasn't interested in her, I was interested in Bron (2 years younger), her older sister liked me, I had no idea, and I had no idea she was trying to hook me up with her oldest daughter... I thought we were just playing pool...

..........Or take oz's future advice. I'm still...... :dogpile: so it would have worked? Do it!

:thumbsup: There's hope for some of you yet.

In traffic behind me this morning, some absolute stunner about 18yo changes her top and gets nekkid from the waist up in my rear view mirror. Then she notices I'm watching and blows a kiss at me. Seriously.

Does it work? You be the judge.

:bs:

:thumbsup: There's hope for some of you yet.

In traffic behind me this morning, some absolute stunner about 18yo changes her top and gets nekkid from the waist up in my rear view mirror. Then she notices I'm watching and blows a kiss at me. Seriously.

Does it work? You be the judge.


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You're shitting...

If it was me driving in front of her, she'd see my commie and get out of her can and come in mine, hehe...maybe not....

Should've taken a picture, Oz, I know I would've :D

what a dirty whore...not to say i haven't ever done that either tho...hehe

most girls now a days dont care about feelings and shit like that, there a bunch of heartless wenches that only think of themselves. play the single life and hurt play everygirl that comes ur way, and treat them like shit....cause they seem to like azzholes more that niceguys.

wow that was harsh...most girls aren't like that, tho some girls are really really mean. that doesn't mean u have to get revenge! everyone gets hurt, u don't have to be all bitter about it. i've made two guys cry *on accident* but i haven't met a guy yet that hasn't done something to make me cry. granted, i'm fairly emotional, but just cuz he made me cry i'm not now out to get him and all the rest of you. think before u generalize like that...

well when u date girls that would not think twice about ruining a relationship over kissing some guy, u tend to generalize, and i stick by the fact that girls like the bad guy image, the i dont give a fuk attitude, and the challenge of getting a guy that doesnt care bout them.
p.s. guys are just as bad!

back to the topic, find another girl, or wallow in ur misery, its ur choice.

if us girls are as bad as u say we are, why not go gay then? oooo whatchya gonna do now?! lol sorry i'm such a dork sometimes

im gonna keep playing there silly little game and treat them like shit, i would love to meet someone that isnt like that, but they seem to be non-existent. shell find me someday when i least expect it.

i'm a nice girl, i have feelings and am aware that guys have feelings and mean stuff makes them cry too. there's so many guys out there, it's surprisingly hard to find a good one. there has to be sexy, sweet, caring guys out there somewhere

true, but im not looking anymore like before. i take everything as it comes to me.

yeah, i'm finally pretty much over the breakup wiht my last bf and miss having someone so i'm actively looking for someone else...just having issues. i can't find any nice guy that lives close. i thought i had but he then proceeded to sexually assault me, and i do'nt think that's the kind of guy i want to date. some guys are so mean tho. this one guy that i talk to that seems really nice that told me he really likes me and would lvoe to date me told me i was too desperate after i asked him if he wanted to come over and then i suggested something we could do when he asked me what i wanted to do...u think girls are confusing, try figuring out guys

glad it worked out for you.

Why the hell are you so desperate to be in a relationship?

yeah, i'm finally pretty much over the breakup wiht my last bf and miss having someone so i'm actively looking for someone else...just having issues. i can't find any nice guy that lives close. i thought i had but he then proceeded to sexually assault me, and i do'nt think that's the kind of guy i want to date. some guys are so mean tho. this one guy that i talk to that seems really nice that told me he really likes me and would lvoe to date me told me i was too desperate after i asked him if he wanted to come over and then i suggested something we could do when he asked me what i wanted to do...u think girls are confusing, try figuring out guys

So...what happened?

I'm curious to..

I'm still scared she's going to end it, but I've talked to her sister, and she said she's "too in love with me to lose me", I dunno, we'll see.

I'm curious to..

I'm still scared she's going to end it, but I've talked to her sister, and she said she's "too in love with me to lose me", I dunno, we'll see.

Is her sister hot? If so you could just bang her sister, thatll teach her to fuck with you!

Just an idea.