How often....

How often do you just wanna "off" yourself? I'm sick of my life. I hate people. I hate money. I HATE MY FUCKING LIFE!

at least living u could hate! do u really want to be erased off this planet forever?is there not the slightest chance of u ever being happy again?sorry, i just think its rediculous. my old roomate wanted to off himself all the time. i even though he did it a few times after he'd fall into a drunk slumber for a few days! now a year later and a little rehab from prescription pills, hes happy. hang in there(if ur reffering to urself)

How often do you just wanna "off" yourself? I'm sick of my life. I hate people. I hate money. I HATE MY FUCKING LIFE!
I'm saying this as seriously as I possibly can. It is not meant as a jab, it is meant as serious suggestion: If you feel you want to kill yourself, seek some help for yourself. I've had friends tell me they wanted to kill themselves and it scared the shit out of me. In as much seriousness as I can muster through the internet, find yourself some professional help.

Having had two of my friends friends from school commit suicide this year alone, I agree with Jon. Seek some help. There is nothing in the world that could be so bad that killing yourself is the only option. Besides, if you are a religious person, think of it this way: No matter how bad it is here, you will go to Hell if you kill yourself, and Hell will be a billion times worse.

I hope you feel better soon.

I've been there. Some days were shitty, some days were shittier. But you have to tell yourself (and know) that you don't have to be miserable. You don't have to go through life being miserable and pissed off at everything. You can be happy and smile and make every day a good day to be alive. You just have to want it.

Hey, if you want to kill yourself, go ahead. If you really want to spend eternity burning in Hell, go ahead. We all have bad days, dude. Shit happens, and you just gotta roll with it and see what tomorrow brings. It might be better.

Hey, if you want to kill yourself, go ahead.

I don't think you're helping things.

This is an oldy but a goody. It makes you crack a smile everytime you read it and should cheer you up.

"The next time you're having a bad day, imagine you're a Siamese twin.
Your brother, attached at your shoulder, is gay and you're not.
But you only have one ass" by Jack Handy

Hey, if you want to kill yourself, go ahead. If you really want to spend eternity burning in Hell, go ahead.

How many people do you know spending eternity in hell?

How often do you just wanna "off" yourself?
All the time dude. Things would be so much easier if you just didnt have to pay bills, go to work, answer to people... but I could never imagine actually pulling the trigger (literally and hypothetically). Life is full of ups and downs. The only time I would kill myself is if my dong got chopped off and I could never have sex again. So unless your dong got chopped off, I say keep your head up and hang with the punches there homeslice. Things are gonna get easier.

Drew- Seriously....grow up. He dated your sister....LA DE DA. Why be pissed off about it? She has her life you have yours. Let her make her own mistakes. I think thats a pretty fucked up reason to be that pissed at someone.

JetLee....find some help. Killing yourself is only going to put your loved ones in pain.

anyone remember back in the day when you could joke about or even openly contemplate suicide without being pelted by a massive intervention???

but seriously man... don't do it

and what are you gonna do when your sister gets another boyfriend drew? not be friends with him because he "doesnt respect you"? Either way, this thread isnt about your sisters dumb ex boyfriend. I don't know why you brought that 5 page novel into this topic.

Jet Lee, you're obviously going through some shit. There are people who understand what you're feeling, and they can help you get past it. Everybody dwells on suicide every once in a while, but if you are seriously considering it, then why not try some professional help first. If you really are going to do it, then wheres the harm in some help? Are you afraid of being happy again? I know some people actually get so content with hate that they dont want to be happy, so that isnt a smart ass question, I want you to ask yourself that. If theres a chance someone can set you back on the right track, why would you give up hope?

I'm sure we all would like to hear how you are feeling, or at least hear something from you. Let us know if you are going to consider it (prof. help) or not. I for one would like to see you cheer up.

It is an easy way out.

I just had a buddy of mine kill himself, even went as far as to put plastic all around so he wouldn't "make a mess" and then ate his gun.
Then his mom found him.

We all cried and shit, but mostly we're pissed off at him.
Funny thing is most of us hardly think of him anymore at all. It's just too hard. He's gone, forgotten. What did he lose out on by killing himself?
What great thing could he have done with his life?
Fuck him, fucking prick! Is that how you'd like to be remembered?
How about this then, " Why couldn't I have seen it coming"? Why didn't I do more for him? It's my fault! Nice thing to leave your friends.

Suicide is selfish.

Personally I have no worries about "going to hell".

Every time I hear about somone wanting to kill themselves I get pissed off.
You must have friends and family who you are going to hurt because of this.

Fuck man, I don't know you and I'd be upset!

Look at this time in your life as a chance to start a new. Go out and try something you never did before.
Don't go out and get drunk and wrecked, it just makes it worse.
Please, please tell me that this isn't over a woman.

You will look back at this time in your life and say to yourself " Oh yeah, I remember that, funny, it doesn't seem all that important now".

Whatever it is, it WILL get better. Shit has a way of working itself out.

Ask for help. It doesn't make you weak! Weak is killing yourself..

I moved here to Arkansas with my fiancee, cause employment opportunities are soo much greater than Cali, which is 100% true. No one told me what I would have to sacrifice. The people here are nothing but a bunch of asses, all they do is bitch and talk shit but dont back anything up, it's annoying as all fuck. I got into an accident (August 04), the car wasn't in my name (yet), and the owner kept the insurance money. My car is still fucked up. I was supposed to be able to get the money this Friday, but not no more. My credit cards are past due, credit's shot, my car is fucked up, my account is overdrawn, and it doesn't get any better! I haen't bought shit for myself in the past ?? months! Everything I have goes to bills and maintainence. I wanna start over so fucking bad.

/\ I was in the same boat as you 2 yrs ago. I had no job, bills out to wazoo, a wife that was going to leave .... then I get a notice from the federal tax dept. - I owe them $16,000 in taxes. I was $32,000 in the hole with bills and shit. And everyone was calling looking for their share of money I didn't have.

I went to file for bankrupcy and the day I went to talk to the bankruptcy guy, I got a call for a good paying job. A week later, I had a good job and a plan to clear up my bills. Now I am actually saving money, looking at buying the house I rent, rebuilt a truck for a daily driver and started a new hotrod. And everything is going great in my life .. what a difference a plan and a couple of years makes.

Jet< as others have said, go seek help!! Check out a credit advisor to get options on what you can do about your money situation. No amount of debt is worth killing yourself for. There is always options; you just need to ask!!!!

BTW, during all that time I had my truck to beat on. Get a stress reliever somewhere!!! When I was in trouble, I literally beat the shit out of it, windows, fenders, etc. with a sludge hammer. I had a lot of anger and took it out on the truck ... now I had to replace everything I broke ... but it was worth it. Get a punching bag or something like that and take out your anger to the point of exhaustion, then you might feel better.

Good luck!!!

Sometimes things turnout the wrong way
you gotta stay strong, you gotta move on
the hardest lessons are the ones that keep you stunned and speechless

I feel the pain
I feel the hurt
I feel depression
I live in my strength

Remember that your best friend is the strength in your heart
the fire in your soul
and the love in your eyes

though its been said many times before
by smarter people with larger minds than mine
love in your heart
love in your heart will conquer all

(I didn't write that, it's from a song)

post deleted because of alot of opinions that were different....oh i thought this was a thread about suicide....so i guess the comment about the friend that thinks it ok to kill himself so he can get to heaven faster is wrong to bring up also hmmmmmmmmmmm.....

I moved here to Arkansas with my fiancee, cause employment opportunities are soo much greater than Cali, which is 100% true. No one told me what I would have to sacrifice. The people here are nothing but a bunch of asses, all they do is bitch and talk shit but dont back anything up, it's annoying as all fuck. I got into an accident (August 04), the car wasn't in my name (yet), and the owner kept the insurance money. My car is still fucked up. I was supposed to be able to get the money this Friday, but not no more. My credit cards are past due, credit's shot, my car is fucked up, my account is overdrawn, and it doesn't get any better! I haen't bought shit for myself in the past ?? months! Everything I have goes to bills and maintainence. I wanna start over so fucking bad.


I was in the same. My husband lost his job, I was 4 months pregnet with my daughter, car got repossed. credit went to hell. We lived 10 miles in the country. I walked my ass to town got a job, busted my ass, barely paid the bills at min. wage. The hole time my husband went into a depression, he was angry alot. I delt with it and did what I had to do. I stood by his side. This went on for about 5 months or so. He couldent find a job, he did look. In time every thing got better. Now I look back and I see that thoes hard times only made me stronger. I learned a lot about life, the ups and downs. I was 18 years old at that time. The whole time I heald my head high and it pulled me through. I know where you are comming from, but it aint worth killin your self over

Hmmm...for me I have to say just about every single day. Bad things happen to me all the time, I'm not talking big things but a hell of a lot of little things...plus nother ever really goes right for me. I make a descision and it's always wrong or the absolute hardest (which isn't ALWAYS bad).

The way I've been looking at it is I have 100 or so happyness points to begin with. Everytime something bad happens points are taken off depending on how bad it is. Also points get added for when something good happens. Lately for me the only thing good is making it to the next day...

Life is full of obsticles. You have got to learn to deal with them. Suicide should never be thought of as a option to deal with stress. I had three friends in school that killled themselves two of them hung themselves and the other shot himself in the head, he was a really good friend of mine. it hurts the people that care about you. You will find another job and you will strighten your life back out. You just have to give it a little time.

you are staying in the wrong part of arkansas man. goto little rock. And i was in that same situation last year at the same time so similar i thought you were describing me. That is how i got me second eclipse from a wreck that i was in and through patience, i my debt is back under a 50/50 ratio. except i live in little rock and I would say that was a low point of my life. I wanted to take the easy way out but i knew it was going to be over. It just takes time. YOu could do some real crazy stuff man. don't flip out and turn into an ass like umm..nevermind..

HELL NO YOU BETTER NOT kill yourself, that shit is for pussies, one of my motorcycle riding buddies went through a divorce, went fucking homeless, and damn near everything he had got reposessed, so when they came to repo his bike he was drunk and fucked up on pills and took off on the bike, the repo men called the police and when he noticed that he had 8 cops behind him he got on the wrong side of the interstate and went HEAD ON with a fucking tanker truck. I later saw his parents and I told them that I had a lot of respect for brad but not anymore, when I heard about that shit I didn't even go to his funeral.
It's not a nice way to be remembered!

as simple as i can put it. once u feel that you are at the bottom and life sucks. take a step back and look at it like this . things can only get better from the bottom. dont look at all the bad in your life concentrate on the things that are good in your life. go someplace nice and just sit there ands realize what all is good in the world.

Sometimes things turnout the wrong way
you gotta stay strong, you gotta move on
the hardest lessons are the ones that keep you stunned and speechless

I feel the pain
I feel the hurt
I feel depression
I live in my strength

Remember that your best friend is the strength in your heart
the fire in your soul
and the love in your eyes

though its been said many times before
by smarter people with larger minds than mine
love in your heart
love in your heart will conquer all

(I didn't write that, it's from a song)
That's cool, what song is that from?

Jet, I've been in your position of wanting 'out' probably since high school. One time I was driving my moms blazer (when she had it) and was crusing at like 110mph and I almost decided to cut the wheel and flip it and hoped I would die. I just kept driving though. Last semester I thought about it plenty of times. Probably almost on a daily basis. I did a lot of praying and eventually got through it.

Don't let your mind get the best of you, you know deep down you don't want to do it. It's not worth it and won't solve any problems, only add problems to those who truely care. If you're really down, talk to your fiance or even go to a church (whether your religious or not). A church welcomes all and I'm sure they would be more than thrilled you wanted to talk things out instead of ending it all.

Then do it... file Chapter 10 from the moment you file you wont have to pay any bills till its compleate. Shure it sucks but in 10 years It wont be on your credit report

Theres alotta times i HATED life... but killing myself is not an option, thats a cowards way out of life. I guarentee you there are millions of people with WAY worse lives than you

Dont be stupid... your family would have no respect for you if you ended it that way

Yea, everyone has their down times. Think about it like this. When you think you hit rock bottom, theres nowhere to go but up.
Man I've been bustin my ass since 12 working and going to school both full-time. There were days were i would want to say fuck it to everything and become a bum. But when times got hard, you look to the ones closest to you for help.

you gotta keep your head up (2pac), thats true, once u hit rock bottom, u cant go anywhere but up, ive tried to kill myself a couple of times, but i couldnt do it, there will always be better days

How often do you just wanna "off" yourself? I'm sick of my life. I hate people. I hate money. I HATE MY FUCKING LIFE!



Every...fucking...minute. Times when I'm driving it's so tempting just to jerk the damn wheel into something but after three half assed attempts I've learned I just can't do it. If it really comes down to thinkin about it all the time, just do the things you want to do, do it for yourself. Just be like the guy in Office Space, I wish I could just live like that. Find the simple things in life, or things you did as a kid that make you happy. For me that's sitting by a camp fire drinkin beer, or w/e. You have to do something to get rid of frustration, get a punching bag if need be. For me that really helps but you've got to do something for yourself. People around me don't help, if anything they just make it worse. Find something man, there is no reason you should leave this world just because of other people or things not going right. Like Gotti said, there is always someone that has it worse than you. My life isn't that bad, I dont know if it's just cuz I make it out to be or what, but I'm constantly depressed and it causes other people to not want to be around me, which makes it even worse for me. Just find something to make you happy, there's gotta be somethin man. Until then, hang in there.