Now I Remember...

Why I never like relationships in the first place. Women whine too goddamn much, it's as if they can't let happiness exist for more then 2 days. I swear it's as if they will find any goddamn reason to bitch and complain. What the fuck is with you people?
If I'm busy doing homework, and she wants to talk...hold the fuck up. I'm not going to put my life on hold to hear about every little thing she hates with life. I have very little time in between shifts and classes to get shit done...just because she rambles on with her girlfriends about their fucking theory of saving the fucking universe does not mean I want to fucking hear it. I'll listen but I have more important things to do.
And she's fucking twisting shit around. Just because I said I have more important things to do does not apply to my view as she doesn't come first. There are things that need to be done first in order for me to have 5 fucking minutes to hear heru say jack shit that really matters. And she needs to stop complaining that I don't spend enough time with her...I work and go to schoo full-time which gives me barely any time to balance my relationship with her and my frienships.


FUCKING WOMEN SOMETIMES!!!!!

Your problem lies in the last line, you should be fucking women all the time, not sometimes.

I hear you. We all have the same relationship problems.

In the past, I have on occasion, met women who are wonderful; sensible, independent, intersting, intellegent and do NOT need all this social maintenance and attention............just the opposite of what you describe..............

Sounds good, right??

Not really, because they are lesbians!! and not the fun kind of lesbo, either.

There is no winning in relationships, it seems.

not for a man at least. You think you got control but turns out she get mad at you for getting mad at her. Weird. I know a girl like that. she tell me al her problems and wants me to agree with her on everything cause her boy-friend wont. Sometimes women can be dillusional. But in my case i don't like them all for right now. (OT: why do suck and blow mean the samething? Not trying to be funny)ON T I used to come here alot in early 2004. I try to get a least 2 post per day for myself to stay fresh. I have this huge gap in post because my girl friend at the time hated it when i came here because of the time i was not spending with her. Ok.......I can understand that but what the hell? If im at home on my computer she'll throw a fit because i wasn't paying attention to her. Ok again.......I mean we spent to much time together. Isnt 7 days a week and most of a day together alot of time? Oh well,.....women sometimes. Then you have the women who like to go places all the time cause its not their money spent. NO OFFENCE to those ladies but man give a guy a break sometimes.

Well, I will try to be neutral on this.

1. You might not have met the right girl yet, even though I do agree lots of the women are demanding for attention and care but not all. I too couldnt stand bitchy and talkative women, especially those are so obssess with you. Ditch them, go and look for those who are considerate and understanding.

2. If you are not happy with girls, try guys. :iceslolan

3. Dont get a relationship when you dont like relationship.

Boys complain about how girls being so demanding and bitchy.
Girls complain about how boys being so obssessive and blah blah blah.

Well guys, do you prefer a girl who is cold to you, let you do whatever you want and only talk to you when you have time to look for them, and doesnt care about shit of you? Sure, that time will come, when she doesnt love you anymore.

If you wanna understand how the other person feels, put yourself in their shoes. If you still couldnt understand them, get yourself a new pair.

heres a secret.

Do what you want, and treat her the way you feel about her. If thats not good enough, then let her break up with you. Don't stress because this girl who isnt the one for you is wanting you to change. Tell her, "I have things that have to be done, no matter what. My life won't stop and wait for me to talk to you. When I handle my biz we can talk. Until then, get over it or move on." Put your own spin on it, but for real Raz... Why worry about it? Is it because you don't want to stop getting poon tang for a while? Who cares. Just let her dump you, then find new girlfriend, and watch porn inbetween time.

LOL, ye definetly not trying the swith over to guys.
Well this girl is special to me cuz eveer since meeting her I changed my ways. It's just annoying sometimes that she can be like this, everyone has their flaws and this happens to be hers. Most of the time it's cool, but every now and again...the obesession takes over.
We're cool now, talked it out and whatnot. I don't blame her, I barely get to see her and it's only for a few brief hours.


Thanks for the advice guys

well big fat nevermind about my advice. Im glad talking it out worked.

Raz,

When I started dating my wife, we had a schedule of the times I would get together with her. I was working 2 jobs and we agreed to see each other a couple nights a weeks and 1 day on the weekend. That way, we each got to do what we wanted on the "off" times and the "on" times were strictly the two of us.

It worked out great ..... now I get to see her every, single day ... month in, month out .... year after year, after year, after year ... :crying:
Actually, we still have that agreement now.

lol my girlfriend bitched and bitched and bitched last night because I don't have a pillowcase on my pillow and the rest of my room was really dirty because ive been neglecting it since i been workin with my car recently. So she's bitching about my dirty room cuz shes a clean freak and she's like "EVEN A PILLOWCASE!!! THAT would even make me happy!!"
So I was going to wal-mart to get shit for an oil change and come back with a pillowcase (COST $7!!) and she's like "IT DOESNT EVEN MATCH YOUR SHEETS!!!" they didn't have onee that matched my sheets ANYWAYS!! needless to say I put her in the well and made her lotion up a few times. THAT tought her... especially when i threatened her with the hose again.

^tell her to clean it! its a womens job to take care of men in need of linens and bullshit like that. i cant even cook to save my life. anyway raz, i will never deal with a clingy girl. the last girl i dated text messaged me at work 10 times an hr! i told her she smothered me and i broke it off with her. just 2 nights ago she im'd me and asked if we could have friendly sex, and i said u comin over? not 10 minutes after she left my ex, ex left me a text message that she misses sex with me, and she wants to smoke and sleep over. sometimes the clingy ones are good f-buddies! but if u care 4 her, im glad it worked out. i just know i cant be annoyed like that without pulling away.
P.S. girls are just as horny as us men.and if they are already confortable with u during sex, ur THERE backup 2. or u could always take ricks advice and watch some porn in the dry period!