I miss bein' whipped...

OK, so I wasn't quite like JC's friend...a litte much, but still, you know the "whipped" feeling. being only 18, I have a long life ahead of me esepcially bein, well, soon a sophomore in collge (wow that went by fast) but I WANT MY GIRLFRIEND BACK!!! :crying:

Sometimes you just miss the feeling, of having someone, but I swear, I just plain out miss her. It sucks so much and the thing is i know it was coming, both of us did. She was only coming for 6 months, we dated for 5 of those and she left on the exact dy of 5 months...I'll admit, I'm a man...I've never cried so much. I too depressed to write an english paper, and that's pretty bad fro me since I love writing...maybe it's cause im distract writing on here. O well. I have like a thousand and one pics of us and it's not like they're posted all over my room...im not obcessive, but still. I was just sittin on my bed looking down thinking about nothing and occasionally her. Everyhting is blank.

I've only been like this once before 4 years ago after leaving italy and it took a good while for me to adjust. given this is just a girl, and summer will soon come (so that might help goin back home driven my dad's A4...) but still! I can't stay like this for school. I only have like...4.5 weeks left! I need help...

I've never done so much and so little in those 5 months and why am I still venting here. We went everywhere in florida, did everything and spent, most of our time together. She actually lived with me for almost 2 months. Any suggestions?

Normally when I talk to someone about this, I just take them out a lot, have fun with the guys. But I got so much work sometimes i can not go anywhere. Help... :frown:

Hey man, i hear you bro. It's ok to be sad, if you weren't..you'd be nuts. The way i see it, woman will always be the soul purpose of man. They can make us so intrigued, and 1 with ourselves. The worst part is not having a chance to give your love. I had such a crush on this girl, and still do, but one day seen her frenchin this dude....man that was like a stake through my heart.

One day...one day, i'll have my moment.

The first ones bite the worst. Man dood I feel for you in a huge way. If you gotta talk about it, feel free to IM me or something. TRUST ME, man I feel your pain!! That stuff is so amazingly hard to get over... I can't say it's gonna get much better. Talk about it, get your mind off it!! I swear I bought a new car to try to forget, and it actually helped. But not much. I tried for a long time and different things to get over shit, and the only one that helped was throwing myself into something different. I mean I drumped EVERYONE but my best friend, every place i normally went to, my church, my old friends, everybody and started with everything different, clothes, car, attitude, everything.

I've had 4 g/fs including the current since my first real love. dated years, I mean REALLY in love. Everybody said "oh those 2 are gonna get married blablabla..." and we believed it; planned for it... We broke up then she did some REALLY REALLY REALLY UBER bad shit to me. That was over a year ago. The current one is absoultely great. makes me happy a lot and is just amazing. but even being in love again and feeling that great, it still hurts daily from that one over a year ago. man sometimes it hurts bad. I won't even say her name anymore and won't even let my friends. won't talk about anything having to do with it. i swear, even this upsets me a little. And the worst is remembering... Try not to be alone, try to get into something else. Have something to look foreward to? Say schedule a date to skydive or a trip and look forward to it or something... I'm telling ya, I wouldn't think about it much. Do anything not to. That's my advice...

I miss being whipped too...


that and the handcuffs, rope, blindfold, wax, ice etc. that me and my ex used to play with. Its getting harder and harder to find freaky girls :(

Yea man its ok to want a girl back a be a little whipped but my friend was outta control and is even worse now.

Ill post updates on that after this.

No man! don't be Whipped! Make them be whipped for you...
..the problem with most people is that they put all their time and effort into ONE relationship...imagine your life as a basket full of eggs...if you take all your eggs and put it into her basket then you leave yourself open with nothing...then all of a sudden she stops liking your eggs and cracks all of them....Do not give the female all the control!!..a relationship is a game...act like you don't like them and they love you...make sure you call 3 days after you get their number...don't act desperate..blah blah blah...we've all heard them before....so now you're in a situation where you're left alone and depressed and all the bull$hit.....the big question lies in yourself...don't let HER control your happiness...YOU must do it...if you cannot control your own happiness then i pity you cuz you will only be happy for brief periods of time...like, when you buy a new car, watch a comedy, yada yada yada....get that female out of your mind and focus on yourself...This will build your confidence and women can smell that shit...panties will be droppin.....but whatever....i'm a newbie...what do i know??

No man! don't be Whipped! Make them be whipped for you...
..the problem with most people is that they put all their time and effort into ONE female...imagine your life as a basket full of eggs...if you take all your eggs and put it into HER basket then you leave your basket open with nothing...then all of a sudden she stops liking your eggs and cracks all of them....Do not give the female ALL the control!!..a relationship is a game..."act like you don't like them and they love you...make sure you call 3 days after you get their number...don't act desperate..blah blah blah"...we've all heard them before....so now you're in a situation where you're left alone and depressed and all that bull$hit.....the big question lies in yourself....don't let HER control that happiness...YOU must do it...if you cannot control your own then i pity you cuz you will only be happy for brief periods of time...like, "when you buy a new car, watch a comedy, yada yada yada"....get that female out of your mind and focus on yourself...This will build your confidence and women can smell that shit...panties will be droppin....that's the main problem..you're not getting any new piece of ass..that will cure you.....but whatever....its your life...what do i care?

^ youre kinda right. But it doesnt work until you grow up and learn the game for yourself, and do it naturally. You cant think, okay Im not calling today because I want to make her wait... I wont do this because of this... it just has to be you. If youre all excited about her, just try to chill the fuck out. I've been seein this girl for a couple weeks now and shes all into me. I've been teasing her hardcore. But the crazy thing is, I wasnt doin it to drive her crazy, it just did. She told me straight up she wants my dong. I told her no. But I think shes too attached now. She acts like we've been together for years. Relationships are always different theres never any specific way to deal with things, just guidelines. Just dont get too excited, and dont serve yourself on a platter for them. Leave more for them to find out. If you spill your guts and profess your love to her then shes going to be bored. Women like pulling, so dont give too much. Why am I talkin about that? Thats not what this is about, so anyways...

I am coming to realize that I was whipped over my ex too. She cheated on me and there were numerous times she said she thinks we should break up, but I wasnt having it. I told her no. I said, no we arent breaking up because I still want to be with you. So she knew I was hers for the taking, and she stopped giving a shit about me but at least I was getting the punani. Thats really all I cared about I guess. It was nice having someone there to cuddle with, and be lovey with, but deep down inside, it was just that she was hot as fuck and I didnt want to stop hittin it. I eventually turned the tables though because I got a lot wiser real fast, and learned how to run game, and got her all whipped over me, and I told her I was leaving her and never coming back, and she still wanted the goods. But either way, she was hot and I still miss hittin it. Its almost been a year since I hit it, and if she wasnt such a hoe I would hit it again any day, but I'd be afraid of catching something I wasnt bargaining for. But yea dude, I know what you mean. I miss being whipped too. Because all it means is that you love what youre getting so bad that you would do anything for it. I was pussy whipped. And I loved it. But its time to move on and find a chick thats even hotter and make her whipped. That way I dont have to act whipped. Its all a game, but when the power is put into good hands, the game isnt bad. Its just bad when the hoes have all the power, and the good guys are whipped. anyways, Ive hit a dead end on the subject. Poon tang is great, get it whipped for you instead of getting whipped for it. It will be even better.