What to do...

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yea...okay. Maybe you've read some of older threads. If you have, it might give you some background information. I've really liked this girl for awhile, but never got the courage up to ask her out. (I've been put down so many times, my self confidence has gone down the shitter :disappoin ). I read on other various threads that getting the girl to laugh is one of the hardest/best things to accomplish. I've pretty much got that covered. (Almost every girl I've come in contact gets a laugh out of my humor and wit)..now.. onto my solution. This girl I like, likes one of my other friends. I found out through the grape vine, and plus, its quite obvious (The way she talks/reacts/actions she does around him) He's kinda nerdy, but hes "built." Hes really dumb though. He still doesnt know, or is too afraid to ask her out too. Now, I'm wondering, is it even worth it to make a move? Am I just setting myself up for a big letdown, or shoud I say "FUGGIT" and just do it..

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I would make a move before the other guy does. Just be yourself and be cool, dont try to showoff or anything around her b/c girls hate that. Making her laugh is a plus, have a good conversation and talk alot. Thats really all I can think of, good luck!

Make a move, then you'll know for sure. Wait a week or two though to let her cool down from this other guy.

Either way you win - you go out with her, or you know for sure and can get back out there.

I say go for it. What is the worst that could happen.

the worst thing to do is keep ur feelings to urself. let her know, then she will either say yes or no. and u dont have to keep wondering what would of happened.

Werd, except one problem. If you go for it now when she's got this passing crush on this guy, odds are worse that she'll turn you down. I'd wait at least a little bit like Oz said. The only downside to that is that if you wait and she goes out with him well then you may be fucked for a little while. If other dood doesn't even know and if he's stupid, if she does turn you down then realizes otherdood is a deuschbag then you may have more of a chance. (lol could I hop around any more??) So go for it.

Best mate's ex on the rebound = best weekend of sex evar. :evillol:

Ask her out, but keep it light. Being too intense at first weirds chicks out.

Best mate's ex on the rebound = best weekend of sex evar. :evillol:

ROFLMAO!!! GO OZ!!!

You've inspired a new Thread off-topic!

lift weights and get built. apparently thats all she cares about. Then you'll be in there. Sounds great. girls are hoes. If you like her and she likes someone else more who is dumb and has nothing to offer, then I don't see why you like her. Shes obviously more into muscular guys and you arent fitting her cookie cutter image of perfection which is why you arent getting her attention.

If a simple, "will you go out with me" wont do it, then shes not worth the trouble....

update please.