Whipped friends

ok so since last october my friend has been "dating" this girl in nov she went to a baseball game with her ex an dumped his ass (my friend for her ex) they got back together before christmas an he just took her back like nothing ever happened. See the thing is when your best tells you almost every day "BBH" (Bros b4 hoes) and then completely fucking leaves you in the dirt like your nothing I'd say you have a right to be mad. Now get this his words exactly the other day "I dont hang with her all the time just 7 days a week" WTF??? I am I missing something here???? Now the wopper of all he says he truly thinks shes the "one" lol omfg how many times have we all heard that... Be aware hes 17 too..... Now the funniest part is that I truly think hes whipped because of this not only does he go to school an hang with her for countless hours each an everyday but...... He works for her parents?????? omg he goes over her house everyday in the morning gets driven together by her rents hangs with her all day in school then goes to work for her parents and eats dinner there and takes a shower an sleep at home... I dunno Im not even pissed anymore everytime he tries to talk to me I just walk away now. Not mention everytime I try to talk to him his Gf starts making out with him to stop him from talking to any of his friends too...
So I tink Im fighting a losing war and giving up on this kid I got plenty of other friends who I can hang with...

Just venting thats all.....

Jc out

It's just part of growing up man. Guys are led around by their dicks for the better part of their lives. Give it time...
(here's where Oz comes in and tells you to do his sister or something)

It's just part of growing up man. Guys are led around by their dicks for the better part of their lives. Give it time...
(here's where Oz comes in and tells you to do his sister or something)

lol ur right but Ive had friends who date but arent pwned to the extreme like he is... well he isnt really a ladies man so I guess hes just overly gracious...

well, hopefully he will come around. and hopefully, you'll be a good enough friend to be their and rub his face in it and say "I told ya so" when he falls, but just be gentle about it :grinno:

O not in this case me an his other 2 really close friends (all in a group I guess) Were leaving him High an Dry.

Another thing not only when we tell him stuff about whats really going to happen and he just denies it and goes back to his GF.

Don't just give up on the guy... You might think he's a moron for being with this girl, and he probably is, but that's no reason to break off a friendship if that's the only problem you've got with him. Some guys are just stupid about this stuff, and this is a constant source of frustration for their slightly more clever friends who see through the smoke & mirrors. You just have to hope that he wises up to it eventually, as such lessons are sometimes only learned the hard way.

I actually just got off the phone with a good friend of mine who is in kind of a similar spot. I can't f#cking stand the girl he's engaged to marry, and we don't see each other very much anymore as a result. But I can't ignore the fact that he's still my friend regardless of who he choses to go to bed with. I still see him every once in a while, and when I do it's basically the same between us as it's ever been, but it couldn't be that way if I was around them both as much as I used to be.

If he's not going out of his way to hang out with you, then you get to do the same thing. But don't be a prick about it because that will just hurt your cause. Nothing brings people together like a common goal, which in this case would be proving you wrong. Make sure he knows how you feel and go ahead and keep your distance for a while, but trust me, you need all the friends you can get.

I dont mind being aqaintences....

It really is rediculious how bad it is and he gets mad at me for this reason I said "I needed MY locker" because I let him use it an I had mad stuff in it so not only does he throw his stuff in but his GF's coat an everything else along with it soo I took it an dumped it all in the lost in found.

In all Honesty I really could careless if I lose this friend. & trust me its not just one little incident like that. Its been adding up 4 a bit.

Another example most Random thing ever ~ Im talking to another good friend of mine when he walks up with his GF an is like "so I heard u were selling razors during that big fight" and tells his GF "see I told u he's such a nut sometimes" Im like """WTF!!""" I told him were do u get this stuff from an he said he heard it from this random nobody an assumes it happend and goes an tells people mean while during the fight I was sitting watching it with another one of my friends who I do car stuff with :D. I dont get it... So I bugd on him and told him just dont even talk to me anymore.

well, a battle not fought is a battle won. It sucks to see a friend go, and under trivial circumstances, but it seems that he really wanst that good of a friend anyways.

true friends never let women, money, politics, or anything come between them.

In all Honesty I really could careless if I lose this friend.

Then get busy doing it and stop worrying about him. If he's that big a dick, then you should be happy that he's with a woman that will probably stab him in the back some day.

Then get busy doing it and stop worrying about him. If he's that big a dick, then you should be happy that he's with a woman that will probably stab him in the back some day.

Yea I guess ur right but he wasnt a dick just very niave....

well, think of this JC.... you triend to be a good friend, and warn him, and attempted to turn his head to what was going on, but he refused to listen. this is all on him. let him suffer his fate, and just wash your hands of the whole thing.

I think im going to now the challenge is avoiding him.

well, from the sounds of it, with him not coming around much anymore anyways, it shouldnt be that hard of a problem to advoid him.

ya hopfully unless he tries to show his "friends off to his gf again"

Btw ~ shes a Freshman hes a junior.

O not in this case me an his other 2 really close friends (all in a group I guess) Were leaving him High an Dry.

Do it... I've lost a couple friends cause of shit like that. They deserve it, just to show them that their bitch doesnt mean shit. When she leaves him, he'll be left with NOBODY and he'll realize that Bros Over Hoes has alot more meaning than he thinks.

He's 17, and he's whipped by this dumb bitch. Number 1 that means he doesnt know how to be a man, cause a real man can control his women and make them do what HE wants, not have her run his life. Number 2 he doesnt respect his friends, which are way more important than some dumb hoe he thinks is the one :rolleyes: He's 17, 99.9% of the time she aint the one. And you guys aready know she isnt

Leave his ass... when she leaves him, he'll realize he's an idiot

Thats why I never chill with my girl more than i chill with my friends, my friends will be there no matter what happens, but hoes come and go.

Leave his ass... when she leaves him, he'll realize he's an idiot

Thats why I never chill with my girl more than i chill with my friends, my friends will be there no matter what happens, but hoes come and go.

Im definetly stop talking to him. Said like a true man.

He's 17, and he's whipped by this dumb bitch. Number 1 that means he doesnt know how to be a man, cause a real man can control his women and make them do what HE wants, not have her run his life. Number 2 he doesnt respect his friends, which are way more important than some dumb hoe he thinks is the one :rolleyes: He's 17, 99.9% of the time she aint the one. And you guys aready know she isnt





no offence but, I am a woman and I agree with # 2 totaly. I dont think any one should keep you from your friends.

as far as #1, is that the way you treat your women? If so I dont think that you are a real man. That statment makes you sound like a real ass. A real man does not control their women. I aint sayin a woman should ruin your life and have it all her way, but you shouldent have it all your way either. It goes both ways. There is such a thing as compermise.

as far as #1, is that the way you treat your women? If so I dont think that you are a real man. That statment makes you sound like a real ass. A real man does not control their women. I aint sayin a woman should ruin your life and have it all her way, but you shouldent have it all your way either. It goes both ways. There is such a thing as compermise.

lol

I didnt say ruin his life, i said run his life. Have you ever seen girls running guys? Telling them what to do, telling them what to eat, its PATHETIC.

No offense to women, but even you have to agree, the man is the one that sets the rules and decides what the couple does in a relationship, thats why we pick up the check

We're the more powerful side of the relationship, we're the protector, the provider and the enforcer. Thats why we're supposed to have more control, when i see a girl running a guy i just laugh and think that guy is such a clown.

I agree a woman should not run a mans life and be totaly in control, at the same time a man shouldent run his womans life. Yes 90% of the men do play the role of provider ect. I would say my man does his job real well as do I. I cook the meals, make sure the house is kept up, take care of our kids, and I mow the lawn, split the fire wood, ect. ect...I make 50% of the decions and he makes the other 50%. If he wants visit his friends he does, I have no problem with that. And he has no problem with me going out. He does not tell me what to do nore do I tell him what to do. But all i am trying to say is that it is a muteul thing.

im disappointed. I read through this whole thing just waiting for OZ's funny remark. Its nowhere to be found.

I know what thats like though. Just wait it out and he will come to his senses.

Ya its very true honestly to all you guys & gals out there how many times have u heard I think she/he is the one from somebody....

well to stay on the subject i know the feeling since my old roommate asked his girl to marry him after knowing her for three months(i think it was his first girl) and wow she sucked. But i told him what i thought, he told her what i thought, and i told her i dont give a shit what you think when she got all pissy with me. But it ended well since after about 6 more months she started getting really controlling , like worse than you situation i think and then blamed our neighbor of molesting her(then taking it back when we about put him in the hospital). But my point is he will see her true colors one day and if he didnt really screw you on other things serious i would'nt take it to heart, and let him call you when he wants to hang out. I wouldnt bother while he is hypnotized.

Pfft, easily solved. Invite them to a movie night at your place. Make out that there are HEAPS of people going and it's going to be the absolute shit.

Then, when they get there, make sure there are place cards for all three of you on the couch (you in the middle. Stuck the oversized popcorn tub on your lap, wrap your arms around them both and grin through the whole movie like you know something they don't.

As soon as it's over and you can get them alone (hopefully one of them is in the bathroom), tell them that you've talked about the threesome with the other partner and wanted to run the idea by the one your talking to. And you think tonight would be a great night. And you'd be a willing participant.

Then when the other one gets back, stand back and watch the fireworks. Make sure you keep swearing black and blue that you have discussed this topic at length and they agreed and are now lieing.

All will be sorted.

Pfft, easily solved. Invite them to a movie night at your place. Make out that there are HEAPS of people going and it's going to be the absolute shit.

Then, when they get there, make sure there are place cards for all three of you on the couch (you in the middle. Stuck the oversized popcorn tub on your lap, wrap your arms around them both and grin through the whole movie like you know something they don't.

As soon as it's over and you can get them alone (hopefully one of them is in the bathroom), tell them that you've talked about the threesome with the other partner and wanted to run the idea by the one your talking to. And you think tonight would be a great night. And you'd be a willing participant.

Then when the other one gets back, stand back and watch the fireworks. Make sure you keep swearing black and blue that you have discussed this topic at length and they agreed and are now lieing.

All will be sorted.


Then do HER sister :evillol:

Jonno's on the ball :thumbsup:

Might take a while for the rest of them to learn.

I dont think she has a sister an if she does shes probably more busted then the glass I broke last weekend.

Oz, that is awsome advice...that made me laugh....:biggrin:

Pfft, easily solved. Invite them to a movie night at your place. Make out that there are HEAPS of people going and it's going to be the absolute shit.

Then, when they get there, make sure there are place cards for all three of you on the couch (you in the middle. Stuck the oversized popcorn tub on your lap, wrap your arms around them both and grin through the whole movie like you know something they don't.

As soon as it's over and you can get them alone (hopefully one of them is in the bathroom), tell them that you've talked about the threesome with the other partner and wanted to run the idea by the one your talking to. And you think tonight would be a great night. And you'd be a willing participant.

Then when the other one gets back, stand back and watch the fireworks. Make sure you keep swearing black and blue that you have discussed this topic at length and they agreed and are now lieing.

All will be sorted.
Where were you 10 years ago when I needed such advice? :p




Oh, you were probably singing the ABC song at school I suppose, carry on. :p

I dont think she has a sister an if she does shes probably more busted then the glass I broke last weekend.

No sister? Then do her mom.

Where were you 10 years ago when I needed such advice? :p




Oh, you were probably singing the ABC song at school I suppose, carry on. :p
Get with the program. I was making pipe bombs and playing kiss 'n' catch.

Oz is that Pablo Escobar in your Avatar?

Yep.

Yep.

He's my idol :lol:

:evillol:

Why topics really do change with other people than noobs... :p