Need help with Nokia 3650

Hey all, I was just curious to see if anyone else had this phone and can help me out. My mom just gave me it since she a new one. I read that you can connect it to you computer some way to update it like a Palm Pilot and stuff. Does anyone know what this connector looks like? Because I was searching all over my house for it and couldn't find it. Help = really appreciated.

Thanks,
Chris.

they do NOT come with a phone they are about 30 dollars US and hook up to usb or serial port and have software that is similar in use to a palm pilot sync software, we have the one for the nokia 3586i (i have one at home too which i use to program) its much faster than typing them in on the phone! you can keep multiple profiles and then transfer them depending on who youre signing the phone out too...not too useful for one person to use but good if you have many phones of the same type

Maybe using a bluetooth PAN.

THe Bluetooth PAN looks pretty cool, the thing is I dunno where to buy 'em. THe Bluetooth site said iogear.com but they didnt have any prices or check-out buttons lol. So, I checked and found a few other sites. However, parents are not big on online purchasing. So a store suggestions would be appreciated.

Also, which would be better to buy and would be more efficient since both the Bluetooth and the direct wire connection are around $30?