I have something to say everyone...

Well. As you can see I liked a girl but now my heart has been broken. I saw her today at school and the guy she hangs out with the most gave her a gift for her "half" birthday. I saw them hanging around and being with each other and I sad hi to her today when she was walking by herself, and she didnt even say hi to me and she just walked passed by me and hugged the guy who gave her the gift right behind me. I felt so sad, lonely and ignored. But I tried at least. I guess I'm just not good with girls at all. I guess my time will come much later than I expect it to be. Her dad is getting better by the way and he will live. Oh well, this is the third time its happend to me. I guess its time for me to just lay off for a while and take my time now with life and move on. I hope that girl is happy the guy she is with now. I hope we can still be friends. But I want to say something for all you AF members and friends. Thanks for helping me as much you can. I learned something from each and every one of you guys. Even though we may not agree with things on topics and etc but, YOU ALL are something to me. I feel that AF is a second family to me. I want to thank each and everyone of you for helping. I tried my best and I will help anyone who feels the same way when they fall in love. Peace out everyone, Justin is out now to find his true inner self.

Oh man, I'm sorry to hear that, I've been in almost the exact situation.

It does hurt when the girl you've fallen far is in front of you in the arms of another, it sucks and doesn't seem fair.

It hurts more when you find out it's your best friend too, and he knew, and back stabs you. Get used to dissapointment. (I have no idea where I got that from, but it's a good line.)

man, honestly. i can relate. i had LOTS of turn-downs, rejections, and heart-breaks before i finally had my first girlfriend. it hurt, alot. but you just have to push through it and know that some-day you WILL meet that girl who will like you for who you are. and that's the main thing, BE YOURSELF! don't change yourself to be what that girl wants. if what that girl wants is not what you are, then that girl is not for you. i've learned that the hard way, and sadly so are you and many other people in life.

the key is to not try too hard. don't seem like you're desperate, even if you are. be yourself, play it cool, and it will come naturally.

best of luck to you Justin.

oh, and you're welcome for the advice ;) happy to help.

What your looking for will always find you when your not expecting it. Dont be out to find a girl. It will come. Thats how I have found all my gfs, my car, college, and a job.

Best of luck!

I feel that AF is a second family to me.

I know how this feels. However, I do have a second family now because I was an exhange student last year and a family hosted me for one year, where they were like mom and dad to me, along with brothers and sisters I never had.

I guess I'm just not good with girls at all.

This is exactly me. I guess I'm just shy and embarressed that I'll make a mistake. Today at lunchtime, a blonde girl sat opposed to me. I really like her, but I don't know how to react. We had a short conversation, and then later she sat next to her friends. Now, as of this moment, I feel that I lust after her. She is cute, friendly, and the thing that caught my attention was that she was HOT. http://www.automotiveforums.com/vbulletin/images/smilies/evil_lol.gif Real hot. I seem to have a thing for blondes. Especially when they are a year younger than I am. They're just so irresistable :grinno:...I have to get my hands on them.

Anyways, I just wanted to put in my input. Anyone got any comments or suggestions?

P.s. If you're just curious, this is from Prom 2004. I was 15, and my date was only 14! This was last year when I was an exchange student so the school let me go at such a young age so why not? :iceslolan

http://files.automotiveforums.com/gallery/watermark.php?file=/503/258981SUC30010.JPG

The one one the left = me; the one on the right = my date.

BTW, I need to find my inner-self too.

Ah well.

FIDO. Fuck It, Drive On.

You'll find another. Just go nuts and enjoy yourself.

Just wasn't your time, don't worry though because I'm sure that you'll find somebody better, I know what rejection feels like, don't let it knock your confidence in yourself because if you lose confidence in yourself then you will only make it worse.


Chin up man.

You know, although it can seem to be the end of the world, it isn't! Girls come and go. Don't worry. BTW, you don't have to have a girl! Sometimes boys feel they MUST have a girlfriend because all their friends have. That'll get on your nerves and you'll screw up every chance!
Loosing a girl is bad, but remember: there are lots of wonderful girls out there. Give them a chance to find you! Go easy. Have fun. Be yourself. You'll see it works. :thumbsup:

You got a nice ride, what more could you ask for...

Live and have fun, you're young!

Life goes on; I didn't find my wife, she found me!!:eek: I "stalked" her for 2 years on campus then I just said forget it because I was unsure of myself. She saw me, called me over to her and the rest is history!! Keep your head up, your time is coming. Enjoy life in the meantime!!:sunglasse

Not to sound harsh, but you are going through something every man has done for countless generations. It doesn't make it easier, but you might just take heart from the fact we make it through and something better inveriably comes along :thumbsup:

Welcome to the club! But always remember: No matter how good she looks, somebody somewhere is tired of putting up with her shit.

Hang in there, we've all been through it. Girls can smell desperation I think....

Get used to disappointment. (I have no idea where I got that from, but it's a good line.)


"Who are you?"

"No one of consequence."

"I must know."

"Get used to disappointment."


--Exchange between Inigo Montoya and the Man in Black, aka Wesley, from "The Princess Bride"

well i consider myself lucky, ive found someone who means more to me than anything else, and she feels the same way about me. Ive never had a really hard fall like the one your having right now. All i can say is to move on. Be yourself again and find a new girl.

:thumbsup: Good. Welcome to life. Now expect to go through the same bullshit week in and week out until you can't afford Viagra any more.

Even worse when you get kicked out of bed :(

So you didn't get the girl you wanted, not a big deal. That's happened to probably EVERY guy more times than anyone can count. If you dont get over this in one hour(i sure hope you did)seek psychological help, because you have emotional issues. Seriously man, there's gonna be a girl someday who's gonna meet you and your gonna marry her and do whatever it is you feel you gotta do and you're gonna completely forget about this one. So buck up and do what you said you were gonna do and move on with your life.

Sorry to hear it bro. Don't change who you are. Just move on because you will find someone eventually. A tip is that when your not looking for her she will come along.

There is a saying that I heard on the T.V. show BECKER once.

"No expectations, no dissapointments"

These are the words of life.

Hey man, Im sorry to hear it. I once had a crush on this girl for like a year and a half, then somehow became friends, then somehow we began to flirt with each other and sit next to each other in class, and be partners on assignments, then somehow I asked her out 1 day after some other dude asked her out and they went out for the next million years, and life goes on. 6 months later a girl waved to me at a football game, and bada bing bada boom 3 months after that we're in love. Then 2 1/2 years later I find out my girl was a lying cheating slut. bada bing bada boom, im a drug user. This chick didnt mean shit to you man. She was a crush. Your heart aint broken, your wee wee is sad because you wanted a hot girlfriend. If she was nice at all she would still talk to you and shit. This girl aint cool man, I knew it from your first thread. Keep your head up, and pimp the other chicks at your school dude, YOU HAVE A BEAMER!! I swear to god, thats all you need in high school. The girls that you kick it with are hoping you will put the moves on them and if you dont, its cianara to you, and aloha to the next dude with a playboy attitude. If you want a wifey prospect, dont get your hopes up in high school. Look for a nice little girl that dont want you to buy her stuff, and isnt a drug addict, and likes seeing movies with you and eating at arbys for a good time. If thats not enough to get her to stay with you then all she wants is money or sex. Make your decision man. My friend in high school had a lexus is300. Brand new off the show room floor with a "daddy installed" system, and I tell you what man, the girls couldnt stay away from his ugly ass. He had sex with 6 girls in senior year. I didnt even whack off to that many girls (maybe I did but who cares)... the point is, if you want a good girl, youre not gonna find her fast, that shit takes time. If you wanna get laid, then drop the moves on every girl that wants to ride in your beamer, because hoes like that just want some lovin. Keep a box of lifestyles in your glove box for the subtle hint. Never answer if asked about them, just shrug your shoulders and make an innocent face. But think about it though, because if you are the emotional type, then you may regret having sex with a girl that doesnt mean anything to you. Ive grown up and realized Im not a casual sex type of guy, I like to find a good girl. Keep your head up, and dont build up hopes without realizing they may just fall right down. It is what it is, and thats it. Remember that, and be real with yourself, and you will be all good. Good luck with the ladies, we all know how hard they are to deal with sometimes. (always)


The Professional Advice of
Rick Murta "love doctor"

:cwm27:

Just remember, like everyone else has touched on:

There's BILLIONS out there for the taking.

Move on. NOW. Thinking about how you messed up and sulking will not make it any better. It will not bring her back. It will just depress you more. The best thing you can do in this situation is to say it's her problem, not yours, and move on. You must stay proactive and on the attack. You can't let yourself get down on shit that's out of your hands. Get out there and play the field. Learn from your mistakes, and you'll get better - everytime you mess up, just move on. Move on and good luck man.