Friends.

Is it better to hang out with friends that have hurt you in the past and be with them. Or don't hang out with them and be completly alone.

Just a philosophical question.

Interesting predicament. I guess it would all boil down to what they did to hurt you, and if you had or had not forgiven them.

I for one would much rather be with people than alone. Besides, the past is the past.

nothin wrong with being a loner.

if presented with those two choices, and those two alone, id probably rather hang out with them and be more guarded

in real life, id find different friends

I would hang out with friends, just so that you're not lonely, even though you may not trust them and stuff. Also make sure that you don't put yourself in the position to get hurt again

Hang out with them. Then when they least expect it get your revenge.


Another random thought.

No, don't do that. Revenge is never the answer. Then they'll get revenge on you, and you back at them again. It's an endless cycle. Try to work out your differences

2 of my best friends both stabbed me in the back a couple summer ago. I kept hanging out with them for a while, until I realized I had no respect for them at all, and didn't really want to hang out with them anymore. If you can't reconcile your differences on what happened, I would say don't bother, it's a waste of time.

If they're good friends, they'll know the fucked up and won't mess you around any more. It's in the past, and good friends are hard to come by.



but if they fuck you around again, light them on fire....... *blink*

Be alone. Its a matter if integrity.

You don't need alot of friends, just one or two good ones. The rest are aquaintances, and would screw your mother if they could get away with it.

I don't know what to do. It involves an ex girlfriend who lies and all my friends have taken her side. Would it be worth hanging out with them if I exposed my ex and she changed? I was friends with them for three years and now that i'm not I have a huge "hole" where they used to be.It's not easy for me to make friends.

If your friends believe a lying ex-girlfriend then that's their problem. I suspect they weren't your friends to begin with, and now you're better off. I was falsely accused of theft once, by a girl I really liked. All my "friends" took her side. Two weeks later she found out who stole her money and apologized to me. I told her and the whole lot of them to fuck off and never looked back. Do the same, the grief will pass quickly.

if your friends are siding with your ex-girl, then they simply want to get in her pants....get them away from her and see what they really think. then make your choice.

No, don't do that. Revenge is never the answer. Then they'll get revenge on you, and you back at them again. It's an endless cycle. Try to work out your differences

Don't listen to him.

Start your own gang to go against their gang. In the end you may control the whole neighborhood. Then you can shake them down for cash.

First you have to think of a cool gang name.:smokin:

I had a "friend" that stabbed me in the back over the summer...we were had a nice big fight at a graduation party and his car got fucked up right proper...that will really make you feel better about the situation, trust me.

Don't listen to him.

Start your own gang to go against their gang. In the end you may control the whole neighborhood. Then you can shake them down for cash.

First you have to think of a cool gang name.:smokin:

Speaking of gang names I need a gang name for my "gang". Our enemies are called the "white T's" My friends and I were thinking of being called the Black T's and showing them what's what, but I want a gang name that's a little more creative. Can anyone help...I'm like the most uncreative person here I think.

I basically take things as they go. If you and your friend(s) have done something to hurt the other(s) it's better to leave well enough alone if you dont get your payback in right away. I try not to hold grudges. I mean there are people out there that I do hate but most of those are people I never really considered friends and when they broke the trust barrier I was done with em. Theres a guy from high school that we have a strange friendship. We both kinda dislike each other but have enough respect for each other that when we see each other every once in a while we shoot the shit and whatnot.

I dont care what anyone says, EVERYONE needs a friend. If you're meant to be friends with someone or a group of people then somehow they will return and you will b/c better friends b/c of whatever drama went down.

Case and point my old roomate. Our issue involved a girl and we really didnt have much respect for each other. But then after living together for a semester the respect built. We are now very good friends and if it werent for the drama, even though we lived together, i dont believe we would be a close as we are now.