where's the fuel pump relay

I have A 95 thunderbird.The fuel pump won't kick on .I've changed it. still doesn't come on.Went to change the relay its not in the power box under the hood. I read in the service manual that the relay on 94 and earlier is a separate relay under the hood in the power distribution box.On 95 And on it says the relay is incorporated in a relay module under the dash.I went to ford to get this relay module "aka" ccrm.The parts guy says he can't find it and asked me for a PN off my ccrm.And he told me that he shows a part number for a pump relay for 89-97 thunderbird.But the ford repair manual says its not a seperate relay after95. Ive seen where the relay goes on earlier tbirds in the junkyards.I'm getting frustrated.I think what I need is a can of gas, a match and a car loan.

May be a stupid question, but did you check the inertia switch in the trunk?