ok need some suggestions here...

heres the situation, i just recently got together with this girl, met her at school and we hit it off. we've been together three weeks since wendsday and tonite we went out cuz shes goin to her dads this weekend and i wont see her so we went and got some icecream and all that and on the way home she was tellin me about her day and she told me this guy Zack who i dont have any problems with, yet, was talkin to her today and she was joking around and pretended to hit im the junk but didnt and then he came back and grabbed her boob(by the way i wasnt there for any of this) and then grabbed her crotch(BIG F****N NO NO im my book) not hard or anything but he put his hand down there. and she was like whoa buddy not cool, i dont knwo why she didnt tell me, i guess she thought i'd get mad and she was right, anyhow this is all in second period. then in 6th period he did it again TWICE and she slapped the shit out of him for it( agian i wasnt there) so now my dilema is should i just let it go(like she said i should) or should i confront this dude about it, cuz that is total bullshit... u just dont put your hands in that place on someone elses girlfriend, and then try to be buddy buddy with him, which is what he does. it usually takes alot to get me really mad but when she told me i got so mad i just wanted to hit something. my biggest problem with all of this is she didnt tell me and this dude tries to be my friend or whatever. we're on the football team togehter and hes always like "o whats up gearhart" blah blah blah shootin the shit or whatever. but now im through with it, becuase ever since i got with her all the guys on the team all try to flirt with her when im not around and then try to be buddy buddy when im there and dont even talk to her... and im just fuckin sick of it. i dont really know what their deal is. but back tot he problem at hand. im really really thinkin about just striaght up bitchin this dude out and if we fight, we fight. but i dont want to just let it go cuz thats a big deal. so what should i do?

Heres what you do. You corner this guy when you both are alone. Meaning no one else is around. This way, neither of you (mostly him) feel they have put up an act because people are watching. Now that you have him alone, you fucking let him know that grabbing your girls tits, ass, crotch, hair, etc. is not welcome! Now how you make this clear to him is entirely up to you but I suggest if you do rough him up don't leave any noticable marks on him. Why? Because the last thing you want is your girlfriend to feel sorry for him.

what i suggest you do is touch him in the crotch with your foot :grinno: and then sock him in the tits and if hes to tough for you then tell your girl to do what he did to her untill he understands :biggrin:

Heres what you do. You corner this guy when you both are alone. Meaning no one else is around. This way, neither of you (mostly him) feel they have put up an act because people are watching. Now that you have him alone, you fucking let him know that grabbing your girls tits, ass, crotch, hair, etc. is not welcome! Now how you make this clear to him is entirely up to you but I suggest if you do rough him up don't leave any noticable marks on him. Why? Because the last thing you want is your girlfriend to feel sorry for him.

Very good suggestion!!! But if he does it again after that clock him in the jaw a couple times in front of people.

I would say he isnt much of a friend if he knows that she is your girl, and he is doing it anyway. I think it might be time to introduce him to a wonderful thing called pain compliance.

the thing is a fight is probably the worst thing i could do, im gonna handle this they way it should be... just man to man and if shit starts then thats fine but it doesnt really need to come to that. im just gonna tell him straight forward that, that kinda shit isnt right (and even if she wasnt my girlfriend that stuff isnt cool its just somethin you dont do)

take it out on him on the football field.. just smack that bitch

Well to begin with that is unacceptable behavior whether she is your girlfriend or not. Either way I'd give the dude the beating of his lifetime. Usually people do not mess with me or my friends. My friends are mostly girls since getting a long with guys usually is an issue with me.

This is in NO WAY knocking anyone, but first thing I would do is find out for sure its happening. Is she the only one telling you its happening or have you heard it from other witnesses. I mean don't take this the wrong way, but unless the guy isn't all there mentally, the average guy Isn't going to put his hands ANYWHERE on a girl unless the girl is leading him to believe that he can. Once you definitely got your facts straight I'd go from there. If the guy is just being a perverted prick corner him, confront him, and don't take any shit because YOU ARE RIGHT. If he so much as tries to interrupt ONE of your words, SLAP A BITCH then proceed to whoop his ass to the point where he and everyone else will never mess with your girl again. :2cents:.

Rob

fck him up thats the only way he will understand not to touch your girl again

There are two solutions to this problem, maybe a thrid. Mind you what I am about to say may be a bit drastic, but considering the problem that he touch your girl and the others in the team are trying to play you, my comments seem appropiate.

1- Somehow, somewhere get the biggest strongest drag queen you can find and have him/her attend the game (in drag) and in front of everyone have her/him slap the shit out of him at the same time saying "you cheated on me you f**king bastard, you mean what we did the other night meant nothing, screw you, oh wait I did that already, its over."

or

2- Get the biggest bat and corner him where there won't be any witnesses and break his freaking legs. This will kill two birds with one stone as they say. He'll get the message and he'll won't be playing for quite a while.

Of course doing any of the two above might get you in trouble if it points that you did it, so a third possible solution is to give him a wooping in the locker room with the teammates there to see you mean business.

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TS out

if your still lingering on it, its obvious nothing will come of it.
Stuff like that needs to confronted right away, with a cool head. You'd be surprised how a stern warning will get to some people. Just tell him straight out that shit like that is disrespecting YOU.

Otherwise, not much to tell ya man, this isnt Truman show I aint going to tell you how to live your life. If you really want to bash him up I suggest you atleast clown on him at trainings, and diss on him for not getting a girl of his own,

Dr Phil out