Girls!!

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ok sry i had to do that, ok me and my girl freind, linda, have been going out for a little over 2 months now and durring our relationship we've gone through a lot, (pregnacy scare, parents haten me, motorcycle accident, loss of grand parents, ect) and we;ve had a strong relationship untill she met this other guy at her school (we go to differents schools) and his name is mike. they really like each other he asked her out yesterday and she said yes. i was told this yesterday and she wants to continue seeing me and him but he is un aware of this and well i don;t want this ya know? well i gess i;m woundering what i should do?
thanx- alan

p.s. sry about the typing (my hand is still broken from the bike accident, and it might not be writen well due to me being upset.) and i'm 16 shes 15
any advice is really appricative
sorry if its in the wron section i dunno what section it goes to, and aaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh i just want to beat this guys ass. sorry

if she's your girlfriend then why is she going out with someone else? or are you two just dating?

i would definitely try to speak to the other guy about this.
if you do beat the guy up make sure you post about that at the very least.-i would prefer a vid.

man, we are boyfreind and girlfreind and i wish i could take him buy my hands broken and my legs really badly bruised and well i wish i could. and i wish i knew why she is going out with him but i just dont :-(

Not to piss on your universe, but honestly... At 15 and 16, don't sweat it too much. There is plenty of relationship angst in the future for you. Be young have fun, and don't sweat the girls. The bad news is that sometimes they don't ever change.

To pretty much agree with ledhed and not beat around the bush, my thoughts are as follows:

1. You'll most likely not be dating much longer.

2. Her hanging out with this other guy should be giving you hints. She doesn't like you anymore or she wouldn't have even had an issue with this Mike guy and would have stayed true to the relationship you two had. I think she's just bored with you and moving on to another guy, with whom she'll probably do the same thing she did with you: Get what she can from the relationship, enjoy herself, and ditch him. I've seen it happen all too often. Move on, you can do better than a parasite.

3. Don't beat his ass, feel sorry for him, because she's goind to do to him what she did to you. Play the field, and for God's sake, keep your snake in his cage and YOU WON'T HAVE PREGNANCY SCARES. I know, I know, I sound like I'm preaching, but I get sick and tired of kids having sex and then getting the shit scared out of them when the girl might be pregnant. What the hell do you think happens when you screw? Anyway, that's not the issue, just a little side rant of mine.

Summerization: Ditch the bitch, enjoy freedom, keep your pecker in your pants, choose your women wisely in the future.

AAhhh to be young again. Have you heard the term"There are other fish in the sea"?? Look you are 16..you have the rest of your life ahead of you. Don't go getting involved in a relationship at such a young age. Let her her go....The world is yours for the taking!!!!

Drop that bitch like a bad habit. So basically she wants to fuck you and she wants to fuck him, who knows who else she's fucking.

now i heard that she dumped him and wants me, should i go with her?
and yea j-swigs when we did it wore protection and she was on the pill (told me that at least) then i found out she was lien! and i head the 4 f's from a freind who is a little older than i (21)
Find 'em
Feel 'em
Fuck 'em
Forget about them.
well thanks guys and anyone agree with the 4 f's?

Do NOT go with her. She basically just proved her loyalty to you or anyone with the stunt she pulled with him. Not only that, but lying about something like birth control is really shitty. Move on man.

dont go out with her. thats pretty low life what she did. i especially would go with her, because she tried going out with the other dude.

forget about her, the worst thing to do is be involved in this kind of relationship, (whats hurting you?: her; how to fix it?:getting rid of the problem, letting go of her.)

yup...tell her to piss off. just be polite about it

I hate to say this but Im with the rest of AF, if theres another guy leave her, Trust me if you both arent totally in love with each other it wont work. If you have to ask what to do, then I highly dought you totally love her

i know i should dump her but i really like her you know, but say worst comes to worst ok how would i dump her? any ideas, again i'm sorry to bother you guys on my pathetic problems,
Al

Well Al, there really is no right way to do it. What I would do were I in your position, is get her by herself and, even though she may have broken up with fuckhead, be like "Look, I figured you and I had a good thing, but apparently you didn't, and I don't think I want to be with someone who is going to go out with other guys while she's supposed to be with me. So, you go ahead and be with Mike or whoever you want, and I'll just be on my way."

And don't give her a second look. You may like her, but remember, she's the one who wants to be with other guys.

Thank MBTN for this. I believe it's time again for:


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I would just go no contact, eventually she will get the hint. Women hate it when you don't pay attention to them, or play their mind games.

Best of luck bro.

Well Al, there really is no right way to do it. What I would do were I in your position, is get her by herself and, even though she may have broken up with fuckhead, be like "Look, I figured you and I had a good thing, but apparently you didn't, and I don't think I want to be with someone who is going to go out with other guys while she's supposed to be with me. So, you go ahead and be with Mike or whoever you want, and I'll just be on my way."

And don't give her a second look. You may like her, but remember, she's the one who wants to be with other guys.

couldn't have said it better myself

j swig sounds like you have a lot of experance in this thank you

I hate to be blunt, but you don't love her, you're just looking for an easy fuck. She doesn't love you if she's already cheating on you after only 2 months. Plus, you're 16, you don't know what love is yet. Forget about her and find someone else.

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ok sry i had to do that, ok me and my girl freind, linda, have been going out for a little over 2 months now and durring our relationship we've gone through a lot, (pregnacy scare, parents haten me, motorcycle accident, loss of grand parents, ect) and we;ve had a strong relationship untill she met this other guy at her school (we go to differents schools) and his name is mike. they really like each other he asked her out yesterday and she said yes. i was told this yesterday and she wants to continue seeing me and him but he is un aware of this and well i don;t want this ya know? well i gess i;m woundering what i should do?
thanx- alan

p.s. sry about the typing (my hand is still broken from the bike accident, and it might not be writen well due to me being upset.) and i'm 16 shes 15
any advice is really appricative
sorry if its in the wron section i dunno what section it goes to, and aaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh i just want to beat this guys ass. sorry



dump the slut.

guys, i know it sounds stupid but i still really like her even after what she has done. but i know you guys are right so i gess i will do that sadly :-( and well this is a stupid question but dose anyone know how to like forget about a girl? i would say i'd go out with her and date ppl on the side but i don;t want to stup to her level. so yea sry to take up your time guys and really appriceat it bye bye

Best way to get over a girl is to find another one that appreciates and respects you.

Best way to get over a girl is to find another one that appreciates and respects you.
Right on d00d.

ok i went their and i saw them to making out and i couldn't do it i have to dump her now man god i saw them maken out and she told me they where through god!!!!!!

Well Al, there really is no right way to do it. What I would do were I in your position, is get her by herself and, even though she may have broken up with fuckhead, be like "Look, I figured you and I had a good thing, but apparently you didn't, and I don't think I want to be with someone who is going to go out with other guys while she's supposed to be with me. So, you go ahead and be with Mike or whoever you want, and I'll just be on my way."

And don't give her a second look. You may like her, but remember, she's the one who wants to be with other guys.
Couldn't have said better myself. J: your a wise man.

My friend, all women are insane... The good news is that there are women (insane they may be) who put up with our bullshit, and whose insanity is something that you can deal with. It's not all roses and cute nicknames, but the work put into a real relationship pays off in the end.

The moral of this story? There are some rotten mean nasty women out there in this world, and you have to sort through them until you find the nuggets you want to hold on to..... Besides, sometimes it just doesn't work.

Yeah, girls are like cars, if you end up not liking the one you have right now, you can always trade it in for a better model. Pregancy scare at 16? keep it in your pants and watch the fucking disney channel.

thanx guys, i want my nugget now! anyone know where to find one?

A girl who is 15 is a girl who probably has no idea what she wants. She could wanna be with you for a while but odds are with the influence of her friends and wanting to try other things she'll dump you...And yes all girls are freakin crazy, different levels of crazy though.

By the way, it's a little personal, but by any chance did you lose your virginity to this girl? Cause i could see how that could make it a little harder to get over her.

yea, i did loose it to her :-( why dose it make it harder?

Well when you lose your virinity to a girl/guy, you tend to grow more emotionally attached to them than you normally would. Guy's and girls are the same no matter what most men say; you have sex, think you've fallen in love and the other person could be thinking something completely different, that's why you hear a lot of people say they're not going to have sex unless it's with someone that they love. I feel sorry for you that you've had to experience this, but you really shouldn't feel attached to this girl.

i havn't talked to her in 1day 1day the hardest day of my life (it seems) man she called me up yesterday and explained how her and her new boyfreind are doing (great if you care) and she continued to explain how he's the best kisser shes ever met god i hate this, i can't get over her. do you know how to get over a girl instantly? is their like a trick to it? cuz i can't find one.
thank's guy's

beat your meat till you're sore :grinyes:

lol sounds good :-), i still miss her a lot tho :-(

Damn man that blows big time. I would have told her she's a stupid slutty ass bitch and hung up on her. I would delete her number from your phone for starters. Then just go drive around for a while and be around as many friends and have as much fun as you possibly can over the next several days.

Drop that bitch like a bad habit. So basically she wants to fuck you and she wants to fuck him, who knows who else she's fucking.

word, i follw this guy!

oh oh oh, wait i agree with this one too!
"Find 'em
Feel 'em
Fuck 'em
Forget about them."

I'm sensing a little bitterness towards women from you pass

golly! what's up with all this abhorrence towards the fairer sex?

F@#* being nice tell that B!*&# to sucka dick ( not yours anymore ) And get on you definately dont need that s*&# at that age....Peace

Ok... Maybe (Probably... Definately) I'm a bad influence. I'd whip his ass. Wait till you're healed up. I'd do it just because. But definately dump her too. She's no good. I've had a few psychos a couple years ago. Not good. So whether mess him up or not get out NOW.