A "Goodbye" present.(Very very long)

For a while i've been looking for a girl that i can have a relationship with. For some reason, out of all the girls i'm dating, none of them is great enough to be with for a while on a regular basis. Except one. This girl that i have been dating now for about 4-5 months has caught my attention from day one, she's great. We always had fun no matter what kinda stupid shit we were doing, and i kept up my "game", she liked me more than anything in the world.

Well we didnt really hang out over the summer that much, just talked on the phone. I dated other girls, she dated other guys, ect. But when school started again we got back together. Well to get to the point.

Three weekends ago we had planned to go to a party and i picked her up and we got to the party, now i was supposed to spin the night at that party (which meant i could get as drunk as i wanted). But a fight broke out and she told me i wouldnt be able to spin the night because of that, so that meant i couldnt drink, so i left. I went to a local hangout point and we all had a huge ass burnout contest (it got my spirits up). Then i went home and went to bed. I hear the phone ringing, then again, then again. So i finally answered it and it was her, she said that the girl that was having the party was now letting people spin the night because she had calmed down and that she wanted me to come back up there and spin the night. Well i went back up there with a buddy of mine and to the point we left 5 minutes later because she pissed me off. She begged me to stay but i was mad at that point and didnt feel like arguing, just going home to my bed and sleeping.

Then two weekends ago she asked me if i wanted to hang out with her on Friday. I didnt have anything planned yet so i said sure. Well that day she called me and said she had to go bowling with some friends, but as soon as she got back we were going to hang out. All my buddies were going racing, and if i waited around for her then i would miss my oppurtunity to go racing. So me and my buddy were passing her house on our way and i called her up and asked her if she was still at the house, i would stop by and see her for a minute. Well she was already bowling so i said "ok" and hung up. We were up at a mexican restruant eating when she called my friends cell phone and told me that she had came home early from bowling to see me. (Damn). I told her that i was almost there and that as soon as i got back i would hang out with her. She said that she would stay up as long as it took and to call her when i got done, because she wanted to see me. So i said ok.

Well the racing was bigger and longer than usuall and she had called my friends cell phone a couple of times to see if i was done yet. She called my house phone a couple times too and left messages. When i got home at 5:00AM i read them and the poor thing had stayed up til like 4:00AM (5 hours) just waiting for me to come over there and hang out with her.

Well Saturday comes, and i told her i would call her and we could hang out that day, but i stood her up again because i went racing....(I felt really bad believe me).


Well next weekend comes and she asked me if i wanted to hang out on Saturday, so i said yes. Well there was this party over some girls house and she wanted me to come. But i ended up going over to another party and getting drunk there so i couldnt drive.
Well she called me up and i told her that i couldnt make it too the party. She got really mad because she didnt believe i was drunk and said that i was probably up street racing again and that she's tired of me standing her up, so i kinda went off on her too, and hung up.

I come to school Monday and all the sudden i notice something diffrent, i didnt know what it was, but there was something diffrent. I talked to a couple of people and found out that she had made out with this guy in the back of a car going down the road after the party (and alcohol wasnt even involved). She had never even talked to the guy, she just decided to do it. Turns out the guy was wanting to get in her pants and thankfully she didnt let him do that, but her tongue was still down his throat. Ewwww.

Well i havnt said a word to her since, i sit next to her at lunch and she would try to slide her elbow over toward me and touch me and i would just pull my elbow away and slide over. She caught up with me after school and told me she was having a party next weekend and that she wanted me to go.

Now i'm great as far as getting girls, but not getting girls back......get my drift?

I need some creative suggestions from you guys to find out what i should do to make her sooooooo jelous its not even funny. Then i will simply quit, and never talk to her again. Its just to show her how it feels, kinda give her a "GOODBYE" present.

I was thinking about bringing a girl that she knows likes me alot, and is very hot. Because she always gets jelous when i'm around this girl, and if i come to the party with her and dissapear for a while (say 2 hours) then re-appear, oh yeah.....

So start writing, your most creative idea's. Hold nothing back. Whatever you can think off. And remember, i'm just going to do this one little thing and quit with this girl forever, so its only fair. Thanks guys, cant wait to see what you can come up with. :)

Just let it go man. Starting shit is going to be more trouble than it's worth. I would be pissed the fuck off myself, but it's better to just turn your back now and if she really wants to be with you she'll come back on her own more than likely.

Well your wanting to get back with her is immature. Perhaps you blew your chance by not chillin with her over the summer. I don't know if your going to do something just leave like a man.

what I dont get is you are I assume in high school, so I assume you still live with your parents....

Dont they care that someone is calling all night and you can leave wheneven you want in the middle of the night? Or did I just live a sheltered life?

what I dont get is you are I assume in high school, so I assume you still live with your parents....

Dont they care that someone is calling all night and you can leave wheneven you want in the middle of the night? Or did I just live a sheltered life?
Well i'm a very responsible kid in general. As far as breaking the rules goes i sometimes do but i dont do drugs, i dont drink and drive, ect. Yes i do race, but that's about it.
And my parents see it as long as i am responsible and dont get in any trouble i can do whatever i want, whenever i want. I just have to pay for my gas, my insurance, and car payment.

So if i wreck i will still be paying on the car and will have no ride, so i'm carefully most of the time.

So i guess, yeah................you were pretty sheltered. Oh well your free to do what you want now though.

And i guess that is pretty wrong to try and do someone like that even if they did it first. It is immature. I was just pissed last night thinking about, but i'm over it and dont care. There are WAY too many girls in this world too even remotely worry about one, thanks guys.

So are you saying that you're surprised that she did it? I'm not, hell, you blew her off countless times. Don't start shit with her, it sounds like shes gotten enough from you already, so grow your ass up. It would have been alright if I didn't have to read the first paragraph 3 times because you couldn't type "SPEND the night" instead of spin the night.

She blatantly let you know that she wanted you, and apparently you wanted her.

And you do dumbshit like stand her up and go out with your buddies. Man, you don't have good priorities. Girls always come first, son. You have a lot to learn.

So are you saying that you're surprised that she did it? I'm not, hell, you blew her off countless times. Don't start shit with her, it sounds like shes gotten enough from you already, so grow your ass up. It would have been alright if I didn't have to read the first paragraph 3 times because you couldn't type "SPEND the night" instead of spin the night.
Ouch....sorry bud. Your just a little late on that smart ass speach your trying to pull off. Go make yourself look like a tough guy somewhere else. Your a little late over here. Oh yeah and the reason i spelled "spin the night" wrong is probably because it was 11 o' clock at night, and i was a little tired, incase you didnt notice that.

But like i said before you posted that dumb little speech, i was simply mad last night because i was thinking about it, but i'm over it now. It doesnt matter anymore.

Oh yeah, and instead of trying to be a dick and sound all bad and whatnot, why dont you just try and be a little helpful like TexasF355F1 or WickedNYCowboy?

She blatantly let you know that she wanted you, and apparently you wanted her.

And you do dumbshit like stand her up and go out with your buddies. Man, you don't have good priorities. Girls always come first, son. You have a lot to learn.
Thanks for your post Mediocrity, your right. But girls dont come before family or close friends. Closer friends are soo much harder to come by.

And yeah i know it was wrong to stand her up, it felt bad about it, believe me. But i dont think that i have a LOT to learn, there is a good bit i want to learn, but one of my big hobbies is studying how to attract women, and i'm pretty good at it, i was just wrong by standing her up so many times. But life moves on, thanks for your post.

The fish has left the bucket... go catch another fish.

I dont even want to tell you how badly you blew it by not going to that party with her. I think if you actually knew what would have happened, you would be sitting there crying over your keyboard.

i dont think that i have a LOT to learn, there is a good bit

Trust me young sir, if you're still doing the highschool thing, you have much to learn about women, not just a good bit. Based on your replys you've come away having learned something from this, which is important for the next time.

The fish has left the bucket... go catch another fish.

I dont even want to tell you how badly you blew it by not going to that party with her. I think if you actually knew what would have happened, you would be sitting there crying over your keyboard.
If your talking about what i think your talking about, then no. That's already happend a couple of times with her, even with her parents in the next room.. If your NOT talking about that, excuse me for being perverted. :uhoh:

And landyacht, yeah i have learned a good bit from this. Dont stand girls up 4 times. Or at all for that matter. I wouldnt want someone doing that to me, so dont do it to someone else. And if i was her i probably would have done the same thing.

I think he's talking about the saying "There's plenty more fish in the sea"

I think he's talking about the saying "There's plenty more fish in the sea"
Ahh..good to hear.

Oh yeah, great saying by the way.

damn man...that's rough, see unlike you in high school, i wasn't a master pimp. therefore, if i were you, i would have been there at those parties, instead of standing her up. man that wasn't cool at all. i mean yeah racing is cool and all, but damn if you were that interested in her, then you wouldn't have done all that dumb shit. but then again maybe she'll come back i don't know....hell i don't know what to tell ya cuz you fucked up man. the only thing that came out of this was a good lesson learned....although you could still try to get her back, i don't know how that would work:2cents:

He just needs to find a girl who wants to go racing.

News Update: She still wants me, its obvious.
She will NOT stop looking at me first off.

Second: I was talking to this girl in the hall and when i got done talking to her, i was walking down the hall and she jumped out beside me and started walking with me, but i stopped, when she walked a few feet in front of me i started walking again. And she got pissed and just started walking real fast to class.

Third: The guy that she made out with is in my 3rd period weight lifting class with her and I. When we started jogging, he was in front of her and i was behind her. He was looking back to wait up on her, but she looked back to wait up on me, i just kept on going and left her back in the back.

Now, i know what some of you are thinking. "Man, that guys a dick, she wants him back and he's being an ass to her". But truth be told I DONT WANT HER BACK. Or anything to do with her at all for that matter. I just wish she would stop trying to talk to me/ flirt/ ect. and just leave me alone.

I wish to go about my own buisiness as i have found someone else, and as hot as she is, she should defiently be able to find someone else.

Please, dont feel sorry for her, and dont think i'm a dick. She has like 100 guys trying to talk to her ALL the time, i'm sure she can fit on of them in somewhere. I just wanna go on with my buisiness and her go on with her's.

Plus if you think of it this way. If i talked to her, then that would just be leading her on that i liked her. Which i dont anymore, so by me not talking to her i am saving her alot of grief and rejection. Which i think she at least deserves that much.

One quick question. Do you think i should hook her up with somebody then that way it would get the attention off me? Any opinions are appreciated.

Just tell her that you are not interested in her anymore. Tell her that she makes you feel uncomfortable. There is no sense in hiding the truth, or even avoiding it for that matter. Getting with some other girl, just to get her off your back is not the answer. Just kindly and nicely inform her that you heard about her making out with some other guy, and you dont appreciate that.

Honesty is the best key.

^^^

You dont want a god damn 8-mile style story on your hands, tell her you are not interested anymore and that you have found someone else, she will understand.

you tell people not to think you are a dick but you are. Your mad that she made out with some guy. You stood her up many times leading up to that. Anyone who would still be by your side after that deserves a medal. You were a total dick standing her up and then expect her to be there whenever you want.....grow up

i mean, no wonder she did stuff with another guy. You clearly didnt want to be around. Blame yourself.

Just tell her that you dont like her like that anymore and explain why, she should understand.