I lost a friend last night.....

Last night I get a call a little before 11 that there had been a car accident. Tina goes on to explain to me that 2 of my friends were fuckin' around and somehow the wheel on craigs car came lose and he lost control of his '02 Mustang. Craig knicked Nicks car and then Craigs car flew into a tree. I don't know how fast he was going but from what everybody said, it was 100+...Nick's car ended up flipping before landing in a field. They were both rushed to the trauma center but the effort to save Craig's life went in vain. He died at 4:15am. :crying: Nick on the other hand, is in intensive care and they arent sure how well he'll come out of it. he had head and chest trauma but now all we have to do is wait. I have lost so many friends to car accidents. I've watched 2 of my friends die and this morning, I lost another. I have felt like this before, but this time, it's different. its like, it hurts so much more this time. I just don't know what to do/say anything.



I just.... :disappoin I don't know anymore.

I'm sorry for your loss. I hope your other friend comes out of this alright.

So sorry about the loss man that sux. If you need some1 to talk to u have my sn.That happend to a friend of mine but he lived miraculiously.

Thats horrible. Sorry about that, I couldnt imagine losing some of my friends like that. Almost lost one...

Ive been there before, to many times. Im sorry you had to deal with that, thats something no one should ever have to go through. Its not easy when something like this happens to someone you care about. Im here if you want to talk about it. Dont be afraid to PM, IM or call me if you want to.

I know what it feels like to lose a friend to a car accident, several years ago a friend of mine died when the driver(a good friend) flipped it on a country road, his passenger Jake died on his way to the hospital because of massive head trauma. And the driver Jason was in critical for a few weeks, i know what it's like to wait for the call that something bad has happened. If you need to talk i'm on AOL JJJ1985. I'm sorry

I'm sorry to hear that. I've been there too. If you need someone to talk to you can pm me.

i'm deeply sorry for your loss. i know that your friends will be missed greatly, and i'm sorry for that....i do hope that in time you will feel better, and that their tragic deaths will somehow inspire you to live and cherish life to it's fullest, because that imo would honor their spirits. again my sincere condolences.

I'm also deeply sorry for your loss. I have not lost a friend like that and I hope I dont have to encounter it. I hope you you feel better later on and hope your friend will do okay.

I've never lost a friend to a car accident, but I wouldn't be suprised if I got the news.
I'm sorry to hear that, I guess the only thing is to never forget who they were.
Don't take this the wrong way: "Don't cry because it's over, smile because it's happened".

"Don't cry because it's over, smile because it's happened".

I think thats the best statement I have ever heard on A.F ever! :1:

Im very sorry to hear that. If you need to talk, im on AIM.

I'm sorry it's tough losing a friend. Hopefully your other friend will pull through. God bless.

Thank you for the sympathy...unfortunately, I woke up a few hours ago to find a voice mail that Nick had passed around 8 this morning. It just keeps getting harder.

Im so sorry, If there is anything I can do for you dont be afraid to ask.

I'm sorry Kate...I really, truly am. :(

You and your friend in trauma will be in my prayers. My sympathies to you, God Bless in your time of mourning.

Kate I am really sorry to hear of your loss. I have had to deal with several losses of friends whether it be from car accident(2), being shot down(1), Suicide (1), Fire Dept calls(6). I can go on and on. But if you would like to talk to me I am on aol/aim with this same name wickednycowboy(aol usually) and appaloosaboy(aim).

I think thats the best statement I have ever heard on A.F ever! :1:


I can't remember where I heard it from, but when I did, I started feeling good about my self.

Even with my spiff with Blake, my bass player, I still look back and feel good about all the awesome stuff we wrote.
And when I found out my chikkie of 2 years was cheating on me, and is pregnent and dumped me, I still think back and think "ha, she was hot, and I boned her :D"



...Makes you feel better when shit happens :(

I still think back and think "ha, she was hot, and I boned her :D"


Hahaha:rofl:... :thumbsup: AWSOME!!

I think thats the best statement I have ever heard on A.F ever! :1:
I have to agree. But I think it is one of the best statements I have ever heard.

I'm sorry to hear about that. I wish I could say I know how you feel, but I can't. I can only relate by way of past experiences. The only thing that disappoints me further about your loss is the way it happened. To know that it happened out of recklessness gets at me because it's a waste of lives. Again, I am sorry for your loss.

Hey Kate. So sorry for your loss. If you wanna chat, im LLFRI4 on AOL. I know how you feel, my cousin laid in a field till 9am cause his g/f couldn't drive her bug straight, rolled it 11 times at 11pm the night before. He died and she (mayors daughter) lived. I also had friends run head on into a telephone pole at 80mph airborne in a Denali, the driver went through the windshield and into the pole, the only sober one in the group, she died.

So, my sincerest (sp?) apologies, IM me if you want.

Well...I said goodbye this morning. It was hard to do. Last night was rough for me. I just cried all night. I have never been this emotional over one of my friends dying. I mean, its not that i haven tbeen emotional, its just, I have never just balled my eyes out for like 3 hours. I just couldnt stop. I'd stop and then I'd just start again. Tomorrow is gonna be rough too...I have to say goodbye to Nick. :crying:

I am so sorry kate. I know exactly how you feel. You know how to reach 24/7. Don't be affraid to get a hold of me if you need to. Its rough but somethings you just need to do. Things will get better with time.

Your welcome to talk to me anytime as well call, Im me anytime you want

Sorry to hear about your loss, its always hard losing someone close to you. Hope you feel better and god bless

Sorry for the news, I have experienced this before

its tough, But reality is like that, and the its a part of growing up I suppose

“Let us reflect in this way, too, that there is good hope that death is a blessing, for it is one of two things: either the dead are nothing and have no perception of anything, or it is, as we are told, a change and a relocation for the soul from here to another place.” (Socrates)

I've lost an aunt and three friends to car accidents. In fact when I wrecked my car I came inches from killing myself and three friends. Loss is a hard thing to deal with. If it gets too hard, RobBraczyk on aim and [email protected]. I can tell you all the crap i've been through. Life is tough, but once you get through these tough times, everything else just doesn't hurt as much. Good luck.