First marriage....now this?
Raz_Kaz
07-21-2004, 08:32 PM
twospirits
07-21-2004, 10:22 PM
I don't get it, not that I find anything wrong with them getting married in the first place, but if you really wanted to tie the knot as they say and get married, then why break up 5 days later. WTF, were they really in love to marry in the first place? Maybe they are doing it to set a precedent, who knows, but I find it weird that they split 5 days later.
chaser29
07-21-2004, 11:05 PM
Nothing weird about it. It happens everyday now. Golden years are over and the new hell raising no morals, dont give a shit generation is here.
hungloe
07-22-2004, 01:12 AM
Amen!
tenguzero
07-22-2004, 01:17 AM
You know, though I can't honestly say as that I understand the motives behind it, I'm nonetheless for same-sex marriage, as I feel the right to enter into a union of matrimony should be an equal system. Just because someone is gay, doesn't mean they should be denied the right to marry another. I don't feel it would lead to dumb things like marriage between a person and animal, or marriage between multiple people, (as the law states it is a union of TWO PEOPLE.) Assumptions like that are simply unfounded. This being said, I have one pet-peeve when it comes to the marriage issue between two people: divorce. Now, I'm NOT a religious person, but I DO feel that marriage is a very important thing -- and yet society seems to revel in shitting all over it. If one examines the statistics decade by decade, an alarming trend occurs in which the number of divorces begins to quichly multiply, generally beginning in the 1960's, increasing into the 70's, spiralling out of control into the 80's, and becoming a downright epidemic into the 90's through to today. There's a hundred things I could blame (increasing stress, more lifestyle options, greater focus on career, less time for children etc.) and yet I still don;t see an answer to it all. I hate divorce -- my parents are divorced, my cousin's parents (my mother's sister and my uncle) are divorced, my other uncle (mother's brother) divorced, nearly every one of my friends parents are divorced (I have to stop and think when it comes to pointing out one without divorced parents) and I'm sure it's the way with a lot of other people here. Chaser29 is right, Generation X really doesn't give a shit, and it seems like increasing numbers of their parents don't either (look at the numbers of divorced 50+ year old's.)
Anyways, this first divorce after 5 days makes me sick, especially since they were most likely setting a precedent. I have no problem with gay marriage, but what I DO have a problem with, is the activist gays trying to RAM their agenda down everyone else's throat. One look at these idiots like Rosie O'Donnell, or this newly divorced Canadian couple proves my point.
But what the hell, why should society care about things like skyrocketing divorce rates, the plague that is obesity (don't even get me started on fat people,) an anemic rate in respect to people who still read books, lazy TV raised children, and all sorts of other nasties that have crept up on us. Why should society care, I mean, after all, these things all make for great entertainment, don't they? :disappoin
I blame the media, a lazy, dumb, woefully uninformed society, SUV's, diet fads, a paltry showing of commitment on the behalf of both parties in a marriage, and anything else that can be thrown out on the table. But there's nothing I can do about it. :banghead:
Anyways, this first divorce after 5 days makes me sick, especially since they were most likely setting a precedent. I have no problem with gay marriage, but what I DO have a problem with, is the activist gays trying to RAM their agenda down everyone else's throat. One look at these idiots like Rosie O'Donnell, or this newly divorced Canadian couple proves my point.
But what the hell, why should society care about things like skyrocketing divorce rates, the plague that is obesity (don't even get me started on fat people,) an anemic rate in respect to people who still read books, lazy TV raised children, and all sorts of other nasties that have crept up on us. Why should society care, I mean, after all, these things all make for great entertainment, don't they? :disappoin
I blame the media, a lazy, dumb, woefully uninformed society, SUV's, diet fads, a paltry showing of commitment on the behalf of both parties in a marriage, and anything else that can be thrown out on the table. But there's nothing I can do about it. :banghead:
CougKid3030
07-22-2004, 02:52 AM
They probably just got married just to say "Ha ha, we can sucka!" and then they realized they would've been perfectly fine with a civil union, because one wouldnt clean up his socks.
Tsk tsk. Think it out next time before getting married.
Tsk tsk. Think it out next time before getting married.
twospirits
07-22-2004, 03:03 PM
Its not his socks its her socks, (its two women that the article mentions)
Anyway, like I said, I agree if you were together for 5 years and everything was okay then decide to get married, thats fine and dandy, but why turn around in 5 days later get divorced on the grounds of seperation?
Remember: Marriage is the number one cause of divorce. Statistically, 100% of all divorces started with marriage :naughty:
Anyway, like I said, I agree if you were together for 5 years and everything was okay then decide to get married, thats fine and dandy, but why turn around in 5 days later get divorced on the grounds of seperation?
Remember: Marriage is the number one cause of divorce. Statistically, 100% of all divorces started with marriage :naughty:
lamehonda
07-22-2004, 03:28 PM
If the women usually take all of the mans money, who is going to walk away with the money in this kind of case (had they been married longer)
driftu
07-22-2004, 03:49 PM
i call it progress. if strait people can get married a divorced on a whim. then so should gays.
YogsVR4
07-22-2004, 04:14 PM
I say let the poligamists get the right first. If they can figure out that kind of divorce proceeding then all bets are off.
Raz_Kaz
07-22-2004, 06:05 PM
What if the gay couple would have adopted?....this bring another issue with custody of the child.
2strokebloke
07-22-2004, 07:24 PM
What if the gay couple would have adopted?....this bring another issue with custody of the child.
If you're married for less than a week - it's not going to be an issue....
But you're acting as though a straight couple could never adopt a child and then get a divorce. Which is rather silly. :)
If you're married for less than a week - it's not going to be an issue....
But you're acting as though a straight couple could never adopt a child and then get a divorce. Which is rather silly. :)
Raz_Kaz
07-22-2004, 07:28 PM
What I'm saying is that gay couples that are unionfied will have difficulties adopting a child because of the "status" between them. Now when it comes to divorce, usually the mother gets custody of the child and the husband gets visitation rights, since this would be a different "relationship". What happens with that child?
2strokebloke
07-22-2004, 07:50 PM
Obviously the child will be cloned, with each parent getting a copy. The original will be filed away. :icon16:
RSX-S777
07-22-2004, 07:59 PM
The less butch lesbian gets the child, naturally...
CougKid3030
07-22-2004, 10:00 PM
And the alamony, naturally...
twospirits
07-22-2004, 10:03 PM
I do believe its in the eyes of the law that determines the best for the child, whichever one of the two 9parents) that the child would best benefit from would get the child. But then again I am no lawyer, so i could be wrong.
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