Being used...Warning

Ah, what a life, being used...its great. So heres the story- its rather complicated- but i would love to hear some peoples opinions.

Well I met someone a while back, and we kind of fell for eachother, but i found out later that she was involved in a relationship with another guy...regardless we continued to talk, we both knew that we really liked eachother and we really fit together good. Well things fell apart for her and this guy, but before that happend she kind of tore my heart in two by telling me that things could never be, she could never be with me etc etc etc....so i tried to move on with my life, things got pretty damn good actually for awhile, i met a beautiful girl named Courtney, and we really hit it off, although we did have a few problems, things were really awesome...(i like to fight sometimes, its just me). But then this is where it gets sticky. She comes back to me, and tells me that she still wants me still. Here i dont know where to do. We start talking on the phone again, and things start getting complicated..i didnt know what to do, i wanted both you know? I know it sounds shovanistic, but yes i did want both....but now, now this is where i get pissed off. I find out that she has not only been talking to other guys, but more than just one. This saddens my heart beyond anything you could imagine..because i have told her about all these times i have been fucked over by girls and yet she was just another to do so, and that kills me..is that not the sickest most ironic thing ever?----thanks everyone for letting me tell my story....and if you like you can post your opinions.

Check your PM.

Stay with Courtney man. This other girl doesnt seem to care, or she has to get her priorities straight. She had her chance, and she didn't take it. And think of it this way, If she was going to you admitting she likes you and this and that while she had a boyfreind, what makes you think she won't do that to you? Just food for thought.

Thanks man i appreciate it Steel...I think the scales are starting to tip.............................

One word here sticks out like dogs balls here.....REBOUND ...she is testing the waters for the best deal. Dont be taken for a fool. You have found someone you say you care about so be honest with her and yourself.

Thanks Pm, i appreciate it, not many people would give two flips about my situation, but perfect strangers would put their time into talking to me about stuff, thanks. Oh and for those of you who would like to know what my sweet sweet courtney looks like, here you go! shes such an awesome girl!


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Theres my Court!

Well thats a fine looking girl.....I CANT BELEIVE YOUR HAVING SECOND THOUGHTS DUDE !!!

I know what i'd be doing

She IS beautiful isnt she PM....:) hmmmmmmmmm, :D :D :D :D

Well, you could always nail the rebound chick and dump her off in the middle of the countryside with only half her clothes. But keep the chick you posted a picture of, it sounds like you've got something going.

Stay far away from the first girl. If she is a in a relationship with another guy, yet "really" likes you, but then comes back and tells you things that can never be....BUT THEN calls you later and wants you back.....I would have to question the motives of someone like this. It's no wonder girls/women get a bad name, and ruin it for the good ones. I personally could not ever play around with someone like that. If she is already in a relationship but likes other people, then something is obviously lacking and she either a.) needs to figure out the problem and resolve it...or b.) if the problem can't be resolved end the relationship in a civil manner, THEN move on. My $0.02.

Dont get caught up in an old flame. PM has it right, she's just touching base with all the other guys who've shown interest in her. Dont kill that good thing you have going on with Courtney for a "Maybe" with this other woman.

Yeah. Definately Courtney. The 1st girl probably looks better, but she is a flake. Go with whats solid.

And women say guys suck? :rolleyes: You know my take on this, I told you what I thought. :)

cough cough cough cough STAY WITH COUTNEY!! cough cough cough cough...damn i need a cough drop or somethin........

courtney that is i hate typos...:o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o

dude stay with courtney. no offence but if you left her, I would seriously smack some sense into you.

You've got something thats working and that you're very happy with obviously. nuff said.

first of all don't drop a good relationship for something from the past that has no guarantees. Secondly, how can you be mad at a girl for talking to other guys? It's what girls do, and you can never remove all the men from someone's life..People gotta have friends. I know, I've been the friend the boyfriend has been mad at many times before.

:( :( Dude im not proud to say but im in the exact situation as u my friend... and well its does kinda suck huh. exept for me there is no one new and the ex was a +3year old relationship. put me through abunch of caca!!! seeing someone new and now want to keep me around again... confusing huh :confused: :confused: :bloated:

anyways what im saying is even though u dont know which path to choose, what u do know is more important... u know courtny is there now and there could be something, u also know bout the other girl and what she is all about... pritty much abunch of caca am i right.

now the chose is yours, hope u make the right one ;)

My last girl (we're off and on) name is Courtney. I say stick with Courtney and blow the bitch way the f**k out of the picture. If you let her hang around things will never get better!

I'm about at the point to forget about my Courtney and move on.....