She's come back to haunt me!

Well, almost 2 whole months since this: http://www.automotiveforums.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=207184

I finally got over her dumping me, I drank my worries away (with Carlton Cold, and Pub VB mind you!) a few times, and I built a bridge and got over it.
Then I was sitting at the dining room table at 5:30 today studying my Geology, then I get a phone message (SMS) right, and It's from an unknown number (i.e. not in my phone - I deleted her) but I recongise it, and It reads "R u talking 2 me again yet"

I wrote a few message back, but I never sent them..I couldn't find what I wanted to say... 30 minutes later, i decide that this is the girl who cheated on me, and got pregnent, told me to fuck my self, and to forget we ever met, so I turn into instant asshole mode, and say "About what, exactly?" word for word

I haven't recieved a call, or msg back. And I don't think I will, that was nearly 6 hours ago now.

It's just that...for a bit over a month, I've gotten on with my life, met new people, and eyeing off other hot beauties, pigging out, and drinking a lot of beer, having a good time, I haven't thought of her once, even on my boring 2 hour train trips every day.
Now I'm faced with this, my emotions are going over-board here. I can't concentrate, and...well...so many side effects *insert emotion here*
Depression is setting in

Well, on a brighter scale, I am legal age to get pissed now, last time when she first dumped me, I couldn't.

I know just how you feel; broke up with my girl a while back, then, just as things are going good; she up and calls.

Then all the depressed feelings come back lol.

But hey, I just keep reminding myself that things are gonna happen how theyre gonna happen, and since theres not a whole lot I can do about it; why worry so much?

I try so hard not to make it get to me...Like I start listening to music, hop on the computer, watch TV, Study (tryed that, didn't work..couldn't concentrate) or pick up my guitar and start playing tunes....

When I play the guitar, there is a breif moment where I'm in my own little world, but shit comes back when I stop.

driving + loud music always helps too; the more agressive the driving, the better :thumbsup:

I know how you feel! My gf just told me she still has feelings for her ex. and she might get back together with him. I had been up for the past 36 hours straight then she tells me she needs some time to think. The worst part is, I still love her and I have to wait for her to reach a desion before i can decide what to do. I want to be with her so bad! I look so pissed right now everyones scared to be around me. I was up all night listening to every metal cd i could find Metallica, Disturbed, Pantera, Damage Plan, Drowning Pool, you name it. The louder I played the tunes the better i felt, btw I went deaf sometime around 5:30 this morning, as if that matters. Ahhhhhhh that mean tonight the only thing I will have is the thoughts in my head!!! AHHHH fuck i got to think oh fucking hell! FUCK I THINK IN GOING TO TAKE UP DRINKING!! Ive always been againt it but wtf my who lifes gone to shit anyways!

just don't drink too heavily, it can kill you...
I listen to a lot of heavy metal when I'm in a really, deep depression about this, or just pissed off...
I tryed classical music, that just makes me tired when I'm angry or depressed

hope everything works out for you dude.

It's 1am, im' tired, been up since 7am. Man, I'm sleeping in tomorrow!
nite everyone!.

I just want to get so drunk I pass out! i dought I will get any sleep for a few days. the sooner i pass out the better! Im already thinking to much!!! :banghead: right now I really couldnt give a shit if it gets me killed or not!

If you are looking for a bit of revenge, just remember one of the things women hate most is being ignored. Not only does it grind on them, its good for you too.













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Just when you totally stop caring, they seem to try and come back into your life. Damn them!

Theres a thread in here about defending your castle. It's by myself and is quite a work of fic...art.

Read it. Defend yourself!

Just when you totally stop caring, they seem to try and come back into your life. Damn them!
:werd:

I have been ignoring her since she dumped me miserably.

Ghost guy: I only drink to the point of "*urp* oh i don't feel too good"
But I haven't been that dunk for over a month.


*note, not 'burp'! Urp (sound just before you throw up [to save confusion])

Just ignore her dude.

Alternately, if she calls again, try slaves trick.

"I'm going to tell you to fuck off, slam the phone down, and you're going to go 'oh, shit'...FUCK OFF" *click*

I just want to get drunk to the point that I dont give a shit anymore! Right now ill do anything to pass the time its going to be awhile before I know if I stay with her or not. I love her to much to leave her, but this waiting is killing me!!!!! Ironic isnt it, Ive been against drinking my whole life now all I want is to get drunk as hell! ahhhhh wtf! hell im gonna try to get some sleep!!!! dought i will you all have fun here!

Perhaps you should have burned your bridge after you crossed it. Or got a Hikoi to collapse it by walking over it too many at one time, either would work.

Perhaps you should have burned your bridge after you crossed it. Or got a Hikoi to collapse it by walking over it too many at one time, either would work.

ROFL!

We should organise one for him! The Hikoi Of Whore!

haha

Toskin, she didn't call me up (in 2 years, she never called me) she sent me a message...
*IF* she messages me back, I'll say I burned my bridge when I crossed it, haha, that's a good call!

It's Dave, bro.

If she messages you again, just go "sorry, who is this? who are you?" etc. deny ever knowing her

It's Dave, bro.

If she messages you again, just go "sorry, who is this? who are you?" etc. deny ever knowing her
Trust me, it's easier getting 50,000 Unemployed Maori with nothing better to do than bitch and misread the Treaty of Waitangi to "march" (read: Drive) most of the North Island than it is to get a bitch to leave you alone.

The Hikoi of Whores meeting one is now in session!

Trust me, it's easier getting 50,000 Unemployed Maori with nothing better to do than bitch and misread the Treaty of Waitangi to "march" (read: Drive) most of the North Island than it is to get a bitch to leave you alone.

The Hikoi of Whores meeting one is now in session!
:headshake

Still bitching about that fucking Hikoi??? :rolleyes:


Davo- just hold up mate, stay strong and that bitch'll fall into the canyon on fire as you burn your bridge...

It's Dave, bro.

If she messages you again, just go "sorry, who is this? who are you?" etc. deny ever knowing her


Hm kay, Dave (my name too, so it's weird calling someone else my name)

Actually, funny you should mention that, about 3-4 weeks ago I said to my self "If she ever rings me, or sms's me, I will denie knowing who it was" because I have deleted her number from my phone, burnt (literally) her phone number she gave me over a year ago, and melted the band she gave me (I was pretty upset at the time).

I considered denying who it was...I don't know why I didn't do it, it's a good idea!



I have no idea what a 'hikoi' is...

This is a weird week
On wednesday, my drummer, Josh says, that his ex g/f started talking to him after over 9 months of not talking.
Thursday my ex g/f started to talk to me after 2 months of not talking
And just today (friday) a mate of mine says that this afternoon, his ex g/f started talking to him after 6 months!
Werid huh...

That is pretty weird.......

After school let out last term, all my buddies went back home, and, oddly enough, without talking about it at all, me in michigan, one guy in chicago, one guy in mennesota, and one guy from vancouver, we all broke up with our g/f's within 3 days.......kind of a smililar thing; its very weird

Bitch...when the phone's not ringing, that'll be me...

I just got an e-mail from my gf saying that she just wants to be friends for the time being,for the next week or two , to see if her feelings for her ex. disapear and so she can think things through. :eek: When women say this its basically a polite way of saying its over isnt? :banghead: Ive been up for the past 78 hours straight so I cant decide why she means by that right now so I need some help from you guys (and gals). Do you think there is a chance that she really will get back with me or is she just trying to tell me its over and Im just to lovesick to realize it??

When women say this its basically a polite way of saying its over isnt?

Yup. *shakes fist at the sky* KHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAN!

someone just fucking shoot me now!

I agree...

This is a weird week...
Anyway...I should be doing my study...3 hour geology test in 3 days *eep*


Well, I'm feeling a lot better now.
Oh lord I hope she doesn't want to 'be friends'.

I had so many things planned this year for us. Well I guess I saved 1000's of bucks! muahaha, that's beer money now (and petrol, of coarse)

ive been up for 84 hours straight (no shit) thinking and im still kinda deaf. So if you know anyone who will shoot me and put me out of my missery tell them to come find me! im going to bed!

fuck those bitches man. ull get over them eventually. and if she calls or any of that just be like wut do u want we havent talked in so many months wut do u want that pisses them off cuz then they feel like u dont need them anymore good luck guys ull move on eventually just give it time

:iagree:
dude, follow what he said, fuck those bitches!!! there are millions out there...in fact there are more women than men in this world you are bound to find someone better. it's the law of relationships, whenever you get dumped you will find someone better.
well i could be full of shit but so far that theory has worked for me.

i dont want a million other women i want just one the one i fell in love with, the one who showed me it was possible to love again, the one who saved me

Well, I don't know what love is. I thought I did, but that was a lie.

Well I woke up at about 11am today, I'm feelin' mighty fine.
Although my week is about to get worse :(
Come tuesday night! WOO! Pub crawl!

This is the convo between me and my drummer josh:

I'm "Looks like beer. Smells like beer. Even tastes like beer. I Can't believe it's Vodka!" He's 'dreadie dude'


Looks like beer. Smells like beer. Even tastes like beer. I Can't believe it's Vodka! says:
dude, weirdest thing, i was talking to mat on friday evnin' and he said his ex g/f started talking tohim after 6months

Ðrèãdîë Ðüdé - I have the worlds largest seashell collection. You may have seen it, I spread it out on beaches across the Earth says:
yeh he told me

Ðrèãdîë Ðüdé - I have the worlds largest seashell collection. You may have seen it, I spread it out on beaches across the Earth says:
wat the fuck is going on?

Looks like beer. Smells like beer. Even tastes like beer. I Can't believe it's Vodka! says:
NO idea

Looks like beer. Smells like beer. Even tastes like beer. I Can't believe it's Vodka! says:
but i don't like it

Looks like beer. Smells like beer. Even tastes like beer. I Can't believe it's Vodka! says:
maybe it's a sign

Ðrèãdîë Ðüdé - I have the worlds largest seashell collection. You may have seen it, I spread it out on beaches across the Earth says:
all 3 of us in a week

Ðrèãdîë Ðüdé - I have the worlds largest seashell collection. You may have seen it, I spread it out on beaches across the Earth says:
a sign for wat?

Looks like beer. Smells like beer. Even tastes like beer. I Can't believe it's Vodka! says:
....good question


I posted this, because I said earlyer about all 3 of us's ex's called us in 1 week (they don't know each other), werid.

Well, I don't know what love is. I thought I did, but that was a lie.
I thought I knew what it was too. Ihad forgoten but she reminded me, now she reminded me why I forgot in the first place.
You know it wouldnt be so bad if she told me it was over at least then I could move on, its the waiting thats driving me insane

why don't you tell her it's over?

Why is your name 'ghostguy'? I've been going ghost hunting later on, it's awesome, you do that?

If i were you, I would tell her it's over. It's just not right what she's doing.

If you have forgotten what love is, you have to remember it yourself. She is just icing to what's hurting deep inside you. Only when you can appreciate yourself, then she'll appreciate you. I know it's very hard to do, but you must do it. What don't kill you will only make you stronger. If you can't handle that, why should she choose you?

I love her too much to move on!
My name is ghostguy because quite franky no one knows me I dissapear at will. No one remembers me! receantly I joined a paintball team and Im good at disappearing on the field! One day the ref called me a ghost, seemed fitting so i stuck with it

(This is -Davo...I got banned)

I might be going paintballing in a few weeks! WOO!
I want to be a sniper, that would rock. I've been playing too many sniper games over the years that I think I'm a really good sniper :D I know I'm not. But still, I'll get paintballed trying!

This thread is moving off topic a little.

Back to reality:
I've never felt like I love someone so much I can't move on. I might one day, just not yet.

Yeah goodluck with the sniper thing! lol its not as easy as you think it is, most people get to trigger happy and miss the shot. Doing the sniper thing takes alot of practice. If you cant hide your dead! plus paintball guns arent very accurate. Ive got 6 years of "tactical training" and one hell of a paintball gun and still get hit everyonce in awhile.on average once every 4 or 5 games, but hey a hits a hit, I guess a kill ratio of 47 to 1 is pretty good!

Anyways I talked to my gf yesterday and even if she does want to be friends I think thats going to work out :) I know she still loves me so maybe we will still remain bf + gf

Look at your age.. If you truly feel something with this woman, then you need to to talk with her and let her know your thoughts.
Keep in mind: she cheated on you, got pregnant, and told you to F off, so you need to understand why you are still pondering thoughts over this person???
Is it lust or do you truly feel something??

Personally, I would talk with her and tell her how you feel. How wrong she was. She messed up and "" DISRESPECTED "" you. This would be so you can have closure and move on.. This will also be so you can have the last word and know "where she stands truthfully!"

The pain will remain, but chalk it up to experience. It is easier said then done, but you will meet someone who will show you respect.

Also, is she only contacting you because the guy she messed with left her?
If she is pregnant and is going to have the baby with noone to help? You might be her fall back.
It may be a test as well?? SHE may be testing the waters, so to speak, inorder to see where she has to gain your trust again. You dont know what her motives are, that is why you dont give in to the point she knows she has you..

"" I dont know the whole story, so I am only giving suggestions""

Dont sweat it. Keep busy. Keep your mind busy.

"If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were."
(Richard Bach) And If they come back all bangged up and pregnant, set them loose!

A reality check here. You said you love her too much to move on. She is pregnant so I assume she is planning on keeping this baby. Down the road, would you want to be this child's surrogate father? This baby will always remind you of your gf's infidelity. Why latch onto this?

You said she was the one who reminded you of what love is, yet she does this to you and she still loves you. If this is what you call love, then I don't think many of us can help you. Hmm...if I can remember correctly 1800-askjerry? (jerry springer show) I don't mean to insult you but you obviously don't know what love is.

I agree with MiS0 (<-- That's is a 'zero'?).

I don't care how much Pam 'really' does 'like' me. If she remotley gave a darn about my feelings, she wouldn't of done this to me. That's why I turned into asshole-mode.

I'm pushing her away, I can talk to her, no problem, if she calls, I can listen, but I can't have feelings for her again.

You need to see what the truth is to move on.

ALittle note: You do not need extra weight on your shoulders. It seems you already have enough on your mind, so you really dont need someone elses baggage as well. Down the road you will look back at this and give a big wooof across the forehead.

Keep in mind when a child gets involved with the situation, the responsibilities take another whole direction. The point is you have a "WHOLE" life ahead of you and their are plenty of others out there.

The notion of this girl is swirling your head, but the child is not yours and the aftermath down the road will triple 10 fold. The legal ramifications are just 1 part to think about???????????

keep Your Santity and when the time comes, The right one will appear. The old saying, if your looking, nothing, when your not, something...
Keep strong. Stand your grounds. Take a step back from the situation and take a look from an OUTSIDE PERESPECTIVE..

Good luck

I need to tell her that I don't want to talk to her.

I'm sending her a message back (nearly a weeks since she sent it to me). It says


You said "forget u ever knew me". Careful what you wish, you may regret it. Careful what you wish you just might get it.


See Sig for more details.
It's true, she did tell me so "forget u ever knew me". I have the sms she sent on the computer (she sent it to my icq account which i never use).

as long as you don't care about closing that door and really forgetting you ever knew her; thats a great response.

Well. That's debatable. I can't forget her. I read this quote somewhere: "It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone but it takes a lifetime to forget someone."

Still. I'm somewhat 'happy' to be closing this metaphorical door. :)

thats your call; i was just saying that you should be sure you no longer want to have anything to do with her. If you think that there might be something in the future you may wanna go about it a little easier

eh i dunno, just my opinion

yeah, I know what you're saying, and the answer is "nuh!". There is little chance of us getting back.
1) we live too far apart

Even when I do see here on holidays, I'll just ignore her.

haha, ok then