How do you do this?? :( ....

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Hey me and my gf of 2 years just broke up... how did you experienced elders get over it? please i dont know what to do to take her out of my mind.....

she hates me she changed its not my fault by the way i guess she decieded she was ytoo young and just threw me away....

Am I suprised???



How about a complete attitude overhaul, only then could I imagine anybody actually liking you.


That is of course if you reflect your postings in real life.

Am I suprised???



How about a complete attitude overhaul, only then could I imagine anybody actually liking you.


That is of course if you reflect your postings in real life.
yeah sure im a complete retard in real life also

Get depressed, get angry, cry lots then pick up the pieces and move on. Hang out with your friends, get your mind off her, and learn to type.

In addition to what Dave said, I would go and get really drunk, go have freakiest sex I can muster with the skankiest hoe that I could scrape off the bar floor that peticular night.

After that's over, make anecdotal refrences to my previous relationship to my one-night fling and compare the aftermath to the hangover that I was experiencing. Then realize that I'm better than this, go have fun with my friends and just enjoy being me until my ego is fully recovered.

NOT UNTIL THEN would I even CONSIDER another relationship (notice I didn't say sex... I said RELATIONSHIP!!! there IS a difference here people)

When are you young people going to learn to stay out of committed relationships anyway. Get laid, have fun, be yourself, do what you want with whomever you want, when you want it. When you learn to be happy by yourself, being yourself. You'll have a MUCH better relationship... seriously.

Hope you feel better dude! Chin up!

Quality chems.

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Hey me and my gf of 2 years just broke up... how did you experienced elders get over it? please i dont know what to do to take her out of my mind.....

she hates me she changed its not my fault by the way i guess she decieded she was ytoo young and just threw me away....



yeah tell me about it

http://www.automotiveforums.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=207184

Happened to me about 3-4 weeks ago now. I'm still getting over it.
I got absolutly shit faced maggoted on saturday night to the point i can't remember anything, and throwing up 5 times. The only thing i remember that night was falling into a deep depression sometime through the movie 'dumb and dumber' and starting thinking about her...

It's hard.

fucknig hll, you gor dumpted 0wn3d!!!!!!!!!!!




0wn3d!!!

Many nights of self pleasure for yee then!11

That's a errmmm.... Nice way of putting it :uhoh:




Damn, my own half-brother piss-posting.......I'm so proud :D

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Hey me and my gf of 2 years just broke up... how did you experienced elders get over it? please i dont know what to do to take her out of my mind.....

she hates me she changed its not my fault by the way i guess she decieded she was ytoo young and just threw me away....




I just thought of something else....Threw everything away (that reminded me of the person)

its best to hang out with your friends man, i use to date this girl many years ago, and we broke up and I was heartbroken, but I hung out with my buddies, and eventually got over it, you will too, its tough be strong,

Sorry to hear that man. You'll get over it, believe me. You just need some "me" time now...watch movies that make you laugh, get really stoned or drunk, and yes, try to score.

Yeah...I went out and had freaky post-breakup sex with some random restaurant hostess (like someone above mentioned). I ended up with a searing case of the clap. Basically added humiliation and more anger to an already f*cked up situation. BTW, all the friends and liquor in the world won't make you feel better when a big, hairy male nurse is sticking a cotton swab up the in-hole of your wang. Then try bringing said swab next door to the lab and having a lab tech (in front of crowded waiting room) yell something to guy in back about "Chlamydia test!". Oh yes, then there's the medication that gives you severe diarrhea for a week. Soooo-feeling better about your horrible breakup, yet? Yeah...try something healthier. Time heals all wounds...(except my intense psychological trauma!) :iceslolan Good luck, buddy. Like Buddha said:

"Life is suffering".

Like I say:

"The cause of suffering is women". :banghead:

Like integraboy2003 said just hang out with your friends. They'll help you out so much. My friends really helped me out when I broke up with my gf about 2 months ago. Now I'm pretty much over her. Good luck dude. Hang in there it will get better.

I disagree. Time heals nothing but itself.

I disagree. Time heals nothing but itself.

I disagree. Time heals chlamydia...

I disagree. Time heals chlamydia...
No.. loads of antibiotics heals chlamydia

Just don't poke at it. the fact that the relationship is over i mean. that was my mistake.

Thanks for everything guys

Well, im a full time student and i have taken a bit too many classes this quarter so im kinna out of time for some stuff i dont really go to bars or anything i just turned 18 about 4 weeks ago but i realized today friends are everything...

im starting to hate girls, is this natural?

Perfectly natural. They fuck with you, so fuck with them back. I've been messed with too much. Now it's time to get even! :)

2 whole years with this girl

this quarter im taking alot of classses so i dont have that much time to chill , so all of a sudden this new guy??

what is the explanation? what did i do?

when that happens in life, what are you supposed to do? are there any legit girls out there?

i know its not me if yall knew me in real life i am super nice :(

2 whole years with this girl

this quarter im taking alot of classses so i dont have that much time to chill , so all of a sudden this new guy??

what is the explanation? what did i do?

when that happens in life, what are you supposed to do? are there any legit girls out there?

i know its not me if yall knew me in real life i am super nice :(
If there are any legit girls out there I haven't found them. Thought my ex gf was a good one but I was wrong. It seems like all the nice guys get screwed in relationships. How does the saying go "nice guys finish last" well its true. I'm tired of seeing these hot girls going for these a-holes, drugies, and alcoholics. Sorry I had to vent, been holding that in for awhile.

If there are any legit girls out there I haven't found them. Thought my ex gf was a good one but I was wrong. It seems like all the nice guys get screwed in relationships. How does the saying go "nice guys finish last" well its true. I'm tired of seeing these hot girls going for these a-holes, drugies, and alcoholics. Sorry I had to vent, been holding that in for awhile.


So true :(

Thanks for everything guys

im starting to hate girls, is this natural?

Yes, it's called homosexuality, and it's OK-unless you're Catholic. Seriously, you can't judge [I] women by the actions of a few. To be fair, I have dated some girls who were absolute saints. Unfortunately, those seem to be the girls you end up dumping. Later on you realize what you gave up- usually after some bitch smokes you. If you start to think all girls are scumbags, you'll end up with a complex/ not capable of having a normal relationship.

Yes, it's called homosexuality, and it's OK-unless you're Catholic. Seriously, you can't judge [I] women by the actions of a few. To be fair, I have dated some girls who were absolute saints. Unfortunately, those seem to be the girls you end up dumping. Later on you realize what you gave up- usually after some bitch smokes you. If you start to think all girls are scumbags, you'll end up with a complex/ not capable of having a normal relationship.
how many weeks does it take to get my mental state back to normal

Depends on how good she was in bed...

Depends on how good she was in bed...
oh it was real good.....

Then we better not dwell on it- you'll feel even worse... :lol: But whatever...it hurts like hell every single time and you never really forget, but you get over it eventually. You'll meet some chick who's hot and really into you and you get it all back- everything you feel like you lost. The first girlfriend that ever left me ditched me at the fucking senior prom in high school. We went to the same college. She ended up with some lame-ass tool and I met/dated a gorgeous girl from Long Island. I remember seeing her on campus all the time when I was with my new girlfriend. Felt great. Things work themselves out. Look at it this way...they are all just practice to prepare you for the one you eventually marry.

im siting in front of my computer right now, doing some online math quizzes, and i just cant stop thinking about her :(:(:(

its so bad i swear it hurts my heart so much :(

but i guess what u say is true. but its gonna take a while i guess.... i just hope the time where i forget her comes SOONER :(

Pam dumped me on March 30th, 3 weeks ago (i think, maybe 4) I'm just starting to forget the entire relationship.



"All the lies in me
All that dies in me
How can I live without you?"
-Ill Nino

i just broke down into tears today in front of my mom....

OK i didn't get that bad, i cryed for sure, but not infront of anyone

I know how you feel.
The only thing i can say, that helped me, was listen to nothing but non-stop pantera.

dude, your only 18!!! its not the end of the world. you have a long life ahead of you. pick yourself up off the floor, dust yourself off, raise your head, look around, and move on. I understand being in a long time relationship and then suddenly losing it wrenches the heart. But, At least your not like me, who got divorced to some and then has to see them be totally happy with there new husband everytime you go to pick up your child. But, in all, you will find that one person you were meant to be with when you arent looking. I am happily engaged and I still sit back and wonder where the hell did she come from. enjoy life and this time to yourself. catch up on your hobbies, and enjoy the extra pocket money too!

The only thing you can do is wait. There really isnt a quick fix for something like that. I finally got over my ex by fooling around with another girl...a couple actually. Beating the shit out of one of the guys she messed around with didnt hurt either...

Just live your life man. All these posts above have good advice, too. Try to keep your mind off of her. Avoid spending time alone by yourself as best you can. Chill with friends. And if you have to think about her, think about the negative things about your relationship. There's always a silver lining!

Hang in there!