I'd like to bitch about my horrible vacation...

Some of you may recall my thread a while ago that talked about that girl and how i got her number. It was about two and a half months or so...maybe three. So anyway, I've became super close with this girl, I've been hanging out with her a lot. Now, she doesn't date for the reason is she goes to parties and usually fucks around a lot. Recently i was talking about that with her and she told me not to worry about it. Well, I've been out with her, alone, several times and i havnt done anything with her. I could, but it never feels right for some reason, plus shes like pro and im so amateur. I think shes waiting for me anyway, shes been leading me on since i've met her. Just this tuesday i was out with her alone, in the woods, but once again i was a pussy and didnt touch her. She went home, and we got into this fight about how this is such bullshit and shes sick of it. So anyway I went a day without talking, then got into another fight with her about stupid bullshit once again. So we didnt talk for a few days again.

Come friday we hung out and were cool again, but shes still mad about how weve never done anything and have been this close for so long. So she claims nothings going to happen now. Today I hung out with her for most of the day. We were cool and shit and I asked her if she wanted to go to my friend who lives 2 houses down's party. She said she would and she came.

So were hangin out having a good time, but i had a 12 o'clock curfew, so i figured i'd sneak back out. So i climb out my window about an hour later and met them in my backyard. Shes there, wasted and hanging all over my best friend's nuts. So i'm like okay whatever, he knows what i've told him, he won't do anything with her. I've talked to him more than anyone about the situation between me and her, and we are really close. So times going by, he keeps giving me this stupid "im sorry" look. Fuck that, hes not even messed up...at all, and she is so gone. I talked to him, and told him that if he touches her our friendship is through. So a little more time goes by and they go to her car alone. At this point I really want to fight him, but i chill, and i have my friends walk me home and give me a boost into my window.

Now, I talked to her when i got home tonight, and she said they didnt do anything, not to be mad at her...all this bullshit. She was lying, thats what she does. Now im in this fucked up situation where the girl im "seeing" fucks around with my best friend, who i had done nothing to ever EVER piss this kid off. So here I am, 5:27 AM typing this bullshit out because i cant sleep. I dont know what to do. I think she was the wrong person to get attached to. Thanks for reading those of you who did...I know its long. I gotta go to bed now. Peace.

it sucks when you get attached to a girl that has no morals and does stuff with other guys dispite you. i had one and it took me about a month to get over her. i got over her by not talking to her and just ignoring her. cuz i thought, if she treats me like this, she doesn't deserve it.

Case and point to never get involved with a girl that is a known liar as well as quite "free" without consideration of other feelings.

Sorry to say, but you blew it. You could have had her but you didn't. Now she's done with YOU and she's on the prowl. Still, your friend is a scum bag knowing there was shit between you and the girl and he did it anyway. What you need to do now is find a new friend, and find a new girl.

thinking on it dude, be glad you didnt do anything with her. if she was that free and reckless, who knows what creepy crawly shit you might end up with. hopefully your friend (ex-friend?) will find that out just a little to late, and you can sit back and laugh that he got something, albight hopefully not to serious.

Hey man, Im glad you stoof up for yourself/to yourself and didnt do anything with this girl, trust me, I've been in your shoes, a few weeks ago actually. Its never good to fool around with the girls that have "been around the block...a few times" they generally are bitches you want nothing to do with because they go about thinking they can get whatever they want, whenver the want, and whoever they want, generally because thats how they got around in the first place, these are the girls you dont want to deal with..(for more than one night that is :naughty: ) and the thing about your friend, hes a tit, Bro's Before Hoes. thats the way it goes, You NEVER fuck around or try to pick up the girl your buddy is trying to get with. Thats just not how it goes, I dont blame you for wanting to beat his jaw into his forehead, I respect you for keeping cool though man, thats something I cant do (keep my cool in situations like that) Hes not much of a friend if he can fuck around with the girl your after, thats just not cool.

What I would do if I were you is forget about her, you were fighting with her and you werent even going out man...just think if you were going out with her what it would be like if you said something she didnt like.. :nono: And she fools around with your friend while she/you are interested, sorry man, but that just doesnt seem like someone you can trust, So my suggestion is forget her, There is always A better fish in the sea man, I have found that out for myself, shes not worth your time man.

I dont know you, and I dont know her, but I would say, wtf man? come on you can do better than her, she is not good enough for you.
Sorry for the length, but thats just my $0.02

Move on. Do what's best for you. No use getting hooked on shit in the past. Learn from it and just move on.

Well, I am a blunt person. That said, she was known to get around. Here's something to remember: "Son, it's okay to ride the train, as long as you're the engineer." Those are some words to remember. I went through the EXACT same thing (except the sneaking out part). Girl got around, we became very close, she led me on. She got different boyfriends and such, got humped and dumped, then would come to me crying. I wasted two years of H.S. on her, and yes, it is a waste. You live, you learn. Your friend is an ass. He knew damn well what was going on. Forget her.

I really appreciate this you guys, Its good to hear all the advice. I just really don't know what to do right now, I'm so frustrated and confused. This is by far the worst I've felt in a while. Thanks for the replies.

dont be frustrated/confused, u know exactly whats goin on, it was not a good person to get attatched to. but now u know and u have learned

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true that. never trust women. they are so unstable :screwy: