my age differences topic
spectreofsorrow
03-19-2004, 11:18 AM
well thanks guys for giving me the same hurtful comments i always get.
in response to many of your retorts...
no, i hasten to add,i,m not bullshiting. this was a genuine question and i was genunily interested what the general consensus was. evidently, u have clarifyed the bias and very subjective disiluusionment(sp) of everybody.
i DID think of her feelings,despite the fact she broke my heart. thats the problem. if i didnt care i would be confident.sometimes i wonder why i dont become an asshole.
no i dont want a slut, i want a girlfriend.toeventually marry etc
i wouldnt fuck her life up. like i said, she would run the relationship. she is independent,goes out to pubs HERSELF. she tarted going out when she was 12, i started when i was 18.
she is a goth, cares about ,more then nail polish.not to sound arogant or insolent, but there is difference in girls maturity, and she is very untypical of 13 (i think).
she is a virgin and doesnt intend to make love till 16.
i DONT want sex. i want someone i can love and who loves me.
i,m not doing any crap "mascaline" jobs. i,ll stick with my english degree, do a masters,write poetry and dream of having it printed and starting up a metal/classical fusion band.
i,m not a scumbag or a "future rapist".i would never defile a girl in the worst possible way. my self-esteem maybe in minus firgues but i have enough pride to counter such absurdity.
i have almost ZERO experience with girls. as far as i can my philosophically,intellectual,literature and spirtual maturity is skyrocketing high, while my "real world" and social maturity is like 10. i missed out on dating in my early teens because i,m a nerd and i want that life.
i dont hang around with 13 year old ppl. its a mix from 13-80 the pubs, clubs i go to. and no, NOONE likes me cause i,m older. i look about 16 anyway.
i HATE beer.i like vodka and jack daniels.
i,m one of the nicest ppl in the world. which is the problem too. girls want exciting ppl.which is why its so easy easy for assholes and other nice confident outgoing ppl to pull.
now i,m sorry if my ramblings have offended any. but i was very hurt by these responses. i tried to showmy character to u and u ignored it and jumped on her age. its notlike i have a chance with her or i only want young girls. ANY girl will do. and we lost our virginitys together with this 14 year old and we still good friends. she asked us 2 make love and SHE controlled me.how the hell is it about the "easier to control" dynamic? thats just as crap as sigmund freuds oedipus and its oppisite numbers dynamic.
anyway, once more my incoherent monologue may offend. i now take my leave.
in response to many of your retorts...
no, i hasten to add,i,m not bullshiting. this was a genuine question and i was genunily interested what the general consensus was. evidently, u have clarifyed the bias and very subjective disiluusionment(sp) of everybody.
i DID think of her feelings,despite the fact she broke my heart. thats the problem. if i didnt care i would be confident.sometimes i wonder why i dont become an asshole.
no i dont want a slut, i want a girlfriend.toeventually marry etc
i wouldnt fuck her life up. like i said, she would run the relationship. she is independent,goes out to pubs HERSELF. she tarted going out when she was 12, i started when i was 18.
she is a goth, cares about ,more then nail polish.not to sound arogant or insolent, but there is difference in girls maturity, and she is very untypical of 13 (i think).
she is a virgin and doesnt intend to make love till 16.
i DONT want sex. i want someone i can love and who loves me.
i,m not doing any crap "mascaline" jobs. i,ll stick with my english degree, do a masters,write poetry and dream of having it printed and starting up a metal/classical fusion band.
i,m not a scumbag or a "future rapist".i would never defile a girl in the worst possible way. my self-esteem maybe in minus firgues but i have enough pride to counter such absurdity.
i have almost ZERO experience with girls. as far as i can my philosophically,intellectual,literature and spirtual maturity is skyrocketing high, while my "real world" and social maturity is like 10. i missed out on dating in my early teens because i,m a nerd and i want that life.
i dont hang around with 13 year old ppl. its a mix from 13-80 the pubs, clubs i go to. and no, NOONE likes me cause i,m older. i look about 16 anyway.
i HATE beer.i like vodka and jack daniels.
i,m one of the nicest ppl in the world. which is the problem too. girls want exciting ppl.which is why its so easy easy for assholes and other nice confident outgoing ppl to pull.
now i,m sorry if my ramblings have offended any. but i was very hurt by these responses. i tried to showmy character to u and u ignored it and jumped on her age. its notlike i have a chance with her or i only want young girls. ANY girl will do. and we lost our virginitys together with this 14 year old and we still good friends. she asked us 2 make love and SHE controlled me.how the hell is it about the "easier to control" dynamic? thats just as crap as sigmund freuds oedipus and its oppisite numbers dynamic.
anyway, once more my incoherent monologue may offend. i now take my leave.
Oz
03-19-2004, 11:25 AM
OK dickhead. Let us explain it SLOWER and LOUDER for you.
Despite the fact that you think SHE is controlling the sex/relationship, the law has said in no uncertain terms that she has not reached sufficient maturity to make those decisions. So unless you had her parental consent, that counts as statuatory rape of a minor.
I don't give a flying fuck how much of a loser you are. Do something about it - other than pulling underage chicks.
Stop being such a sad sack of crap, pull yourself together, work out to look good and get into a good social scene.
Despite the fact that you think SHE is controlling the sex/relationship, the law has said in no uncertain terms that she has not reached sufficient maturity to make those decisions. So unless you had her parental consent, that counts as statuatory rape of a minor.
I don't give a flying fuck how much of a loser you are. Do something about it - other than pulling underage chicks.
Stop being such a sad sack of crap, pull yourself together, work out to look good and get into a good social scene.
jon@af
03-19-2004, 11:34 AM
As I already said, whether you think she is right for you or not, in this case age DOES matter, and she is too young. You need to get involved with an activity of sorts and explore the possiblities of people your age. If you feel you are inadequate, wake up and smell the roses: there are a lot of people out there who act as though they are the cream of the crop but feel just as lowly as you, they are simply better at lying about it. Just believe in yourself and do something telling yourself you know you can do it instead of you think you can do it. As I said, and many others did, you'll only be hurting yourself, regardless of the way she acts or your intentions.
I'm sorry if some of the others may have offended you, but the topic you presented with the content as it was could only be expected to have as much impact as it did. I myself would not expect anything less of myself or any of the others who said what they did simply because of the morals that I know many of them have.
I'm sorry if some of the others may have offended you, but the topic you presented with the content as it was could only be expected to have as much impact as it did. I myself would not expect anything less of myself or any of the others who said what they did simply because of the morals that I know many of them have.
Oz
03-19-2004, 11:40 AM
Sorry to go over your head, Jon. Moved to Stress Release and re-opened. If this was a non-issue it would not draw such heated comments back and forth. I feel it deserves to be discussed at length and the context of this forum is much more appropriate. PM me if theres any problems. :)
jon@af
03-19-2004, 11:42 AM
That's fine, no problems mang:icon16: I understand what you are saying.
spectreofsorrow
03-19-2004, 12:07 PM
well i,m sorry mr moderator if my comments justify being called a dickhead and treated like a "sackof shit" but i dont think its fair to be harsh tosomeone whohas tried to be as civil as possible without compromising my integrity.
well i must say the education world is a pile of abhorent turd if a straight A student like myself is so stuiped. no that was not a boast. i always knew my qualifications met jack, which is why i passed them with zeroeffort.
plus my question was on a moral standpoint.not on a legal one which has more holes then a semi-permuable membrane .
and i have pulled myself together. you should have seen me when i was 15-16.i DID go the gym for a year, i DO go out. i can create a front when i go out. if i was a LOSER i would have died long ago.my willpower has got me through. alas, i cant make myself look good because i was born an ugly bastard but hey, life isnt what u make it. its all luck of the draw.
is there anything sinful or disqusting in wanting to be happy?
well i must say the education world is a pile of abhorent turd if a straight A student like myself is so stuiped. no that was not a boast. i always knew my qualifications met jack, which is why i passed them with zeroeffort.
plus my question was on a moral standpoint.not on a legal one which has more holes then a semi-permuable membrane .
and i have pulled myself together. you should have seen me when i was 15-16.i DID go the gym for a year, i DO go out. i can create a front when i go out. if i was a LOSER i would have died long ago.my willpower has got me through. alas, i cant make myself look good because i was born an ugly bastard but hey, life isnt what u make it. its all luck of the draw.
is there anything sinful or disqusting in wanting to be happy?
jon@af
03-19-2004, 12:15 PM
actually, I believe life is what you make it; The day is as bad as you let it be and as good as you make it for yourself.
And, being ugly? I don't know how many beautiful women(at least in my area) I have seen with an ugly guy. If you've got a front for women, use it. On a moral platform, 13 is too young.
And, being ugly? I don't know how many beautiful women(at least in my area) I have seen with an ugly guy. If you've got a front for women, use it. On a moral platform, 13 is too young.
Steel
03-19-2004, 02:01 PM
well i,m sorry mr moderator if my comments justify being called a dickhead and treated like a "sackof shit" but i dont think its fair to be harsh tosomeone whohas tried to be as civil as possible without compromising my integrity.
is there anything sinful or disqusting in wanting to be happy?
Life is harsh. Deal with it.
No there isn't anything sinful about wanting to be happy, but soemtimes it just doesnt happen. Deal with that too.
Let me try a different spin on this: Think back to when you were 13. You were a stupid kid, and didn't know shit for shit. Admit it. I was a stupid kid then too. Hell i'm 19 now, and i look back at when I was 17 and i know i was a stupid kid. And few years from now i'll look back to where I am now and say to myself "damn, i was just a stupid kid, but i thought I knew it all."
The fact that she's "goth" as you say just proves she's immature. She's just falling into a clique to fit in with the other goths. How many "goths" do you see past the age of 20 that aren't complete lifeless dugged out losers? She'll grow out of it.
This is the last time i'm going to say it: Get it out of your head. Tough shit if you don't like that answer to your problems, but you're not always going to get what you want. If you do end up making the dumb decision here, I hope you like getting cornholed in prison, because labeled child molestors are frowned upon in prison. You'll get assraped, and the guards will look away while it happens. That's the truth. Don't like it? Then put some serious thought into this.
is there anything sinful or disqusting in wanting to be happy?
Life is harsh. Deal with it.
No there isn't anything sinful about wanting to be happy, but soemtimes it just doesnt happen. Deal with that too.
Let me try a different spin on this: Think back to when you were 13. You were a stupid kid, and didn't know shit for shit. Admit it. I was a stupid kid then too. Hell i'm 19 now, and i look back at when I was 17 and i know i was a stupid kid. And few years from now i'll look back to where I am now and say to myself "damn, i was just a stupid kid, but i thought I knew it all."
The fact that she's "goth" as you say just proves she's immature. She's just falling into a clique to fit in with the other goths. How many "goths" do you see past the age of 20 that aren't complete lifeless dugged out losers? She'll grow out of it.
This is the last time i'm going to say it: Get it out of your head. Tough shit if you don't like that answer to your problems, but you're not always going to get what you want. If you do end up making the dumb decision here, I hope you like getting cornholed in prison, because labeled child molestors are frowned upon in prison. You'll get assraped, and the guards will look away while it happens. That's the truth. Don't like it? Then put some serious thought into this.
publicenemy137
03-19-2004, 03:57 PM
^ haha another great post steel.
I got a question, would you say a just turned 18 year old is too young for a 24 year old?? My friend is around 24 and wants to get with an 18 year old
BTW if you're looking for love, look for more mature women. I don't think 13 year old goth girls who go around pubs drinkin and making out with random men are trying to settle down.
I got a question, would you say a just turned 18 year old is too young for a 24 year old?? My friend is around 24 and wants to get with an 18 year old
BTW if you're looking for love, look for more mature women. I don't think 13 year old goth girls who go around pubs drinkin and making out with random men are trying to settle down.
YogsVR4
03-19-2004, 04:15 PM
You can keep trying to justify your actions but you're going to get the same responses. GROW THE FUCK UP! Grow a pair and enter the world of an adult.
I don't give a rat fuck about your 'feelings' right now. You need to get away from that 13 year old and get some new friends. We all go through rough times with the opposite sex. Its not easy and we've all been crushed on multiple occasions. Its how you deal with it that shows your maturity level and right now you're acting like a whiney six year.
I don't give a rat fuck about your 'feelings' right now. You need to get away from that 13 year old and get some new friends. We all go through rough times with the opposite sex. Its not easy and we've all been crushed on multiple occasions. Its how you deal with it that shows your maturity level and right now you're acting like a whiney six year.
HogieGT-R
03-19-2004, 05:33 PM
ok man valiant effort but seriously what did i say about it man we're telling you the truth as a both a moral and a judicial standpoint....if you don't like what we're telling you than try asking Michael Jackson or R.Kelly about it......the law doesn't give a fuck about if it's moral or not....it's illegal if you want such an age difference, why don't you go after a single older woman O_o
hell stop cradle robbing would you? get some common sense and stop thinking that "if there's grass on the field, play ball" , cuz that's still messed up civil or not
hell stop cradle robbing would you? get some common sense and stop thinking that "if there's grass on the field, play ball" , cuz that's still messed up civil or not
Toksin
03-19-2004, 05:54 PM
Everyone's already said what I wanted to say, so I'll just reiterate.
Grow the fuck up. A 13 year old goth who goes to pubs is fucked up. Leave it alone. It's illegal. It's immoral. Get into the real world. Get women your age.
Sheesh.
Some people.
Grow the fuck up. A 13 year old goth who goes to pubs is fucked up. Leave it alone. It's illegal. It's immoral. Get into the real world. Get women your age.
Sheesh.
Some people.
kublah
03-19-2004, 06:53 PM
well thanks guys for giving me the same hurtful comments i always get.
Yet none of them seem to sink in I guess...
Call me old fashioned, but here's what I think.
-13 year old children do not belong in pubs, or in relationships with anyone outside of their immediate age group. That time in a person's life is for being a kid, going to school, and starting to figure out what kind of adult you want to be some day.
-The fact that this girl is already doing a lot of these things that are normally not reserved for people this age is really bad news for her and everyone who cares about her. Skipping all the kiddy stuff that she should be doing right now in deference to wearing lots of white makeup and black clothes is starting her down the road to a difficult adult life.
-Should you choose to do what you want and have some kind of romantic relationship with her, you are not helping her, you are making things worse. No matter what you may think about how mature she is, or how you wouldn't hurt her, doing this will doubtlessly hurt her more than you can even imagine right now.
-Having a relationship with this girl will not make you a happy person. It might make you feel a little better for a while, but you'll be doing nothing but continuing the same manner of self-destructive behavior that's gotten you where you are right now.
Not good. Stay the hell away...
Yet none of them seem to sink in I guess...
Call me old fashioned, but here's what I think.
-13 year old children do not belong in pubs, or in relationships with anyone outside of their immediate age group. That time in a person's life is for being a kid, going to school, and starting to figure out what kind of adult you want to be some day.
-The fact that this girl is already doing a lot of these things that are normally not reserved for people this age is really bad news for her and everyone who cares about her. Skipping all the kiddy stuff that she should be doing right now in deference to wearing lots of white makeup and black clothes is starting her down the road to a difficult adult life.
-Should you choose to do what you want and have some kind of romantic relationship with her, you are not helping her, you are making things worse. No matter what you may think about how mature she is, or how you wouldn't hurt her, doing this will doubtlessly hurt her more than you can even imagine right now.
-Having a relationship with this girl will not make you a happy person. It might make you feel a little better for a while, but you'll be doing nothing but continuing the same manner of self-destructive behavior that's gotten you where you are right now.
Not good. Stay the hell away...
TheNotoriousMogg
03-19-2004, 08:02 PM
Heh this is you bud
Now please stop tryin to be prude,
Cause' hey little girl I'm feelin you
The way you do the things you do
Remind me of Red Riding Hood
Thats why im all up in yo grill
Even though your way to lil'
You must be a first grade student
The way you got to do those dittos
So baby gimme that toot toot
And gimme that beep beep
Ridin' in Little TykesŪ cars
Swingin' on monkey bars
While im reported on the radio...
It's the remix to ignition
I rape little children
Mama rollin that stroller
got every man in here wishin
Sippin on milk and juice
Clingin' onto toy moose
It's the freakin weekend baby
I'm about to let this film loose
Bounce Bounce Bounce Bounce Bounce Bounce Bounce
Bounce Bounce Bounce Bounce Bounce Bounce Bounce
Now it's like rape yeah she wrote
Once I get you out them clothes
Privacy is on the door
Still they can hear my camera roar
I get this excited feelin
No more hopin and wishin
I'm bout to take my key
Stick it in your ignition
So baby gimme that toot toot
And gimme that beep beep
Ridin' in Little TykesŪ cars
Swingin' on monkey bars
While im reported on the radio...
It's the remix to ignition
I rape little children
Mama rollin that stroller
got every man in here wishin
Sippin on milk and juice
Clingin' onto toy moose
It's the freakin weekend baby
I'm about to let this film loose
Just pill poppin in the cop car till later
I got caught on the spot
as if i should be complainin
Now i've got killers to my left
And whores on my right
We bring em both together we get beaten all night
Then after my time its the (soup kitchen)
And after the soup kitchen is the (nursing home)
And after the home you gotta (find a kid)
Then head take it to the room and rape him
can i get a toot toot
can i get a beep beep
Ridin' in Little TykesŪ cars
Swingin' on monkey bars
While im reported on the radio...
It's the remix to ignition
I rape little children
Mama rollin that stroller
got every man in here wishin
Sippin on milk and juice
Clingin' onto toy moose
It's the freakin weekend baby
I'm about to let this film loose
It's the remix to ignition
I rape little children
Mama rollin that stroller
got every man in here wishin
Sippin on milk and juice
Clingin' onto toy moose
It's the freakin weekend baby
I'm about to let this film loose
Girl we off in this jeep
Foggin windows up
just so no one can see you
In the back of my truck
Bouncin up and down
playin with your toys
To the remix
As my reputations destroyed...
Now please stop tryin to be prude,
Cause' hey little girl I'm feelin you
The way you do the things you do
Remind me of Red Riding Hood
Thats why im all up in yo grill
Even though your way to lil'
You must be a first grade student
The way you got to do those dittos
So baby gimme that toot toot
And gimme that beep beep
Ridin' in Little TykesŪ cars
Swingin' on monkey bars
While im reported on the radio...
It's the remix to ignition
I rape little children
Mama rollin that stroller
got every man in here wishin
Sippin on milk and juice
Clingin' onto toy moose
It's the freakin weekend baby
I'm about to let this film loose
Bounce Bounce Bounce Bounce Bounce Bounce Bounce
Bounce Bounce Bounce Bounce Bounce Bounce Bounce
Now it's like rape yeah she wrote
Once I get you out them clothes
Privacy is on the door
Still they can hear my camera roar
I get this excited feelin
No more hopin and wishin
I'm bout to take my key
Stick it in your ignition
So baby gimme that toot toot
And gimme that beep beep
Ridin' in Little TykesŪ cars
Swingin' on monkey bars
While im reported on the radio...
It's the remix to ignition
I rape little children
Mama rollin that stroller
got every man in here wishin
Sippin on milk and juice
Clingin' onto toy moose
It's the freakin weekend baby
I'm about to let this film loose
Just pill poppin in the cop car till later
I got caught on the spot
as if i should be complainin
Now i've got killers to my left
And whores on my right
We bring em both together we get beaten all night
Then after my time its the (soup kitchen)
And after the soup kitchen is the (nursing home)
And after the home you gotta (find a kid)
Then head take it to the room and rape him
can i get a toot toot
can i get a beep beep
Ridin' in Little TykesŪ cars
Swingin' on monkey bars
While im reported on the radio...
It's the remix to ignition
I rape little children
Mama rollin that stroller
got every man in here wishin
Sippin on milk and juice
Clingin' onto toy moose
It's the freakin weekend baby
I'm about to let this film loose
It's the remix to ignition
I rape little children
Mama rollin that stroller
got every man in here wishin
Sippin on milk and juice
Clingin' onto toy moose
It's the freakin weekend baby
I'm about to let this film loose
Girl we off in this jeep
Foggin windows up
just so no one can see you
In the back of my truck
Bouncin up and down
playin with your toys
To the remix
As my reputations destroyed...
TheNotoriousMogg
03-19-2004, 08:03 PM
here is another for you
Now I know I shouldn't do this but I'm a go and break off a little piece for the convicts
Now I'm not tryin to be rude
But hey girl how old are you
You must be in Elementary school
Because your tricycle's cool
But now I'm all up in jail
Cause I took you to my hotel
Put my camera up on the post
Shot till I ran out of film
Hook
If you're over 2 (2)
And under 18
Then come up to my floor
Leave your name at the door
I'll come and get you when I'm ready yo
Chorus
It's my last song before prison
Tryin' to avoid my conviction
If I don't I'll be in a sequal to The Shawshank Redemtion
I said are you 21
She said I don't know I'm drunk
I'm not checkin ID's if you're young then you are the one
Bounce...
It's gonna be muder she wrote
Once the jury sees my "show"
I'll just tell them I didn't know
Thought she was old just didn't grow
So now I'm wheelin' and I'm dealin'
Trying to hide the cameras in the ceiling
Maybe the judge won't know
I was lookin for some sexual healing
Hook
Chorus
Kool-aid poppin' they call me educator
Show them so many things
Call me a "mastur de bater"
I got cameras on my left
Cookies on my right
To enter in my room you must be under this height
Cause after this ho is the girl scout party
And after the party is the High School lobby
And if she's under 4 I gotta "tell her mommy"
Then take her to my room and I'll be her Barney
Hook
Chorus
We on BET
Bouncin to Bow Wow cuts
And I got B2K
In the back of by truck
Goin bouncy-bounce
Makin sounds and sounds
I'm a convict
But I'm payin them out
Jacko, give me some advice
Now I know I shouldn't do this but I'm a go and break off a little piece for the convicts
Now I'm not tryin to be rude
But hey girl how old are you
You must be in Elementary school
Because your tricycle's cool
But now I'm all up in jail
Cause I took you to my hotel
Put my camera up on the post
Shot till I ran out of film
Hook
If you're over 2 (2)
And under 18
Then come up to my floor
Leave your name at the door
I'll come and get you when I'm ready yo
Chorus
It's my last song before prison
Tryin' to avoid my conviction
If I don't I'll be in a sequal to The Shawshank Redemtion
I said are you 21
She said I don't know I'm drunk
I'm not checkin ID's if you're young then you are the one
Bounce...
It's gonna be muder she wrote
Once the jury sees my "show"
I'll just tell them I didn't know
Thought she was old just didn't grow
So now I'm wheelin' and I'm dealin'
Trying to hide the cameras in the ceiling
Maybe the judge won't know
I was lookin for some sexual healing
Hook
Chorus
Kool-aid poppin' they call me educator
Show them so many things
Call me a "mastur de bater"
I got cameras on my left
Cookies on my right
To enter in my room you must be under this height
Cause after this ho is the girl scout party
And after the party is the High School lobby
And if she's under 4 I gotta "tell her mommy"
Then take her to my room and I'll be her Barney
Hook
Chorus
We on BET
Bouncin to Bow Wow cuts
And I got B2K
In the back of by truck
Goin bouncy-bounce
Makin sounds and sounds
I'm a convict
But I'm payin them out
Jacko, give me some advice
Mediocrity
03-19-2004, 10:03 PM
All I have to say is:
You're too fucking old.
You're too fucking old.
Blaker14
03-19-2004, 10:21 PM
Mogg: did ya think of those songs yourself or got it from the internet VERY FUNNY LOL
Anyway I think that she is way too young for you. Stay away from those middle school girls. The one thing i dont understand why high school girls like guys who have 4+ years older than them and in college. I, personally don't get with anyone younger than a sophomore and i am a high school senior.
Anyway I think that she is way too young for you. Stay away from those middle school girls. The one thing i dont understand why high school girls like guys who have 4+ years older than them and in college. I, personally don't get with anyone younger than a sophomore and i am a high school senior.
spectreofsorrow
03-20-2004, 09:11 AM
i,ll take the comments on board. now i,m not trying to continue this hatred against me, i do enough 2 myself but hey...
of COURSE LIFE SUCKS, and is not fair and i AM dealing with it. i have no illusions there. but sometimes the truth of this void gets me down, normally when i,m drunk and i retreat 2 my obseesive 16 year old net 24/7 days.
yes, i was a stuiped kid when i was 13. and 16, and now. but except in knowledge i havent changed since i was 16. hell i love pokemon, i,m an anime otaku. give me video games to any outside activity anyday.
i missed out on the innocent dating of my early youth by being a nerd.
the notion that any goth older then 20 is a loser and proves her imaturity is so steortyped and invalidiates your other comments if your mind is so closed.
i have no wish of entering the world of unsumontable shit...the"adult world" or "real world". i,ll be staying in higher education and staying a teen for as long as i can. ultimately i will have 2 become one of the 9 to 5 sheep. but not yet.
you havent explained the logic of how going out with her would fuck her up. i would get more fucked up, because inevitablly she would dump me.
the poems are quite vulgar and lack any merit. trying copying keats, a REAL poet.
michael jackson has not yet been proven guilty.
i wouldnt go out with any one younger then 13. then they r not a teenager. p.s as all anime otakus should know, 13 is the age of consent in japan.
that shit about prison is bullshit and so is the law. it cant tell the difference between what would be an innocent romance (aka what i would have) and a guy who rapes children. my romance would not need sex, and if it did they would be consenting. remember we have sometjing called free will... and unless someone wants 2 argue a topic on fate and how free will is an illusion, my point will stand.
yes i,m whining, but the net is the only place i whin, because everyone is a stranger and in the end it dont matter.
"whatever happens...happens" spike, cowboy bebop anime
"in this world there is nothing to believe in" vicious ,cowboy bebop anime
of COURSE LIFE SUCKS, and is not fair and i AM dealing with it. i have no illusions there. but sometimes the truth of this void gets me down, normally when i,m drunk and i retreat 2 my obseesive 16 year old net 24/7 days.
yes, i was a stuiped kid when i was 13. and 16, and now. but except in knowledge i havent changed since i was 16. hell i love pokemon, i,m an anime otaku. give me video games to any outside activity anyday.
i missed out on the innocent dating of my early youth by being a nerd.
the notion that any goth older then 20 is a loser and proves her imaturity is so steortyped and invalidiates your other comments if your mind is so closed.
i have no wish of entering the world of unsumontable shit...the"adult world" or "real world". i,ll be staying in higher education and staying a teen for as long as i can. ultimately i will have 2 become one of the 9 to 5 sheep. but not yet.
you havent explained the logic of how going out with her would fuck her up. i would get more fucked up, because inevitablly she would dump me.
the poems are quite vulgar and lack any merit. trying copying keats, a REAL poet.
michael jackson has not yet been proven guilty.
i wouldnt go out with any one younger then 13. then they r not a teenager. p.s as all anime otakus should know, 13 is the age of consent in japan.
that shit about prison is bullshit and so is the law. it cant tell the difference between what would be an innocent romance (aka what i would have) and a guy who rapes children. my romance would not need sex, and if it did they would be consenting. remember we have sometjing called free will... and unless someone wants 2 argue a topic on fate and how free will is an illusion, my point will stand.
yes i,m whining, but the net is the only place i whin, because everyone is a stranger and in the end it dont matter.
"whatever happens...happens" spike, cowboy bebop anime
"in this world there is nothing to believe in" vicious ,cowboy bebop anime
raysoh8
03-20-2004, 09:26 AM
how old are you 2 again?
Mediocrity
03-20-2004, 10:12 AM
She's 13.
This is not Japan.
You're too fucking old.
Give it up.
This is not Japan.
You're too fucking old.
Give it up.
spectreofsorrow
03-20-2004, 10:39 AM
i,m 19 and as i said, i,m not after a 13 year old. she has made it clear she should doesnt like me. i,m saying, what if the nxt girl i,m lucky enough 2 meet who likes me is 13? how can i say no?
eversio11
03-20-2004, 11:22 AM
Hey spectre, I'd like to help you out. Gimme your full name and address so I can, uhm, write you a letter.
IntegraBoy2003
03-20-2004, 11:26 AM
ok im nott in a good mood this morning, so spectreofsarrow, if you ever came to america i hope that ur frail ass gets thrown in jail and you get assfucked by bubba (gay inmate), find a girl your own age, like everyone said get a fucking life..
if you get offended idc becaue u offended me, by wanting to fuck a 13 year old
if you get offended idc becaue u offended me, by wanting to fuck a 13 year old
BP2K2Max
03-20-2004, 01:07 PM
i,m 19 and as i said, i,m not after a 13 year old. she has made it clear she should doesnt like me. i,m saying, what if the nxt girl i,m lucky enough 2 meet who likes me is 13? how can i say no?
you place your tongue against the roof of your mouth then vibrate your vocal chords and say "No"
you place your tongue against the roof of your mouth then vibrate your vocal chords and say "No"
Chavez408
03-20-2004, 02:31 PM
dude (and i harly said "dude") just get it over with! shes only a kid man. let her do her own life and not like yours that you fucked up by playing video games and shit.
and i think that this thread we should just let go and let it die because from all our post and all this time, it stills seems that you dont give a fuck and your still going to go after 13 year old girls.. this thread doesn't sound good to me at all. i hope none of lil girls in your area get hurt by you. because to me you sound desprede, because you cant get a girl around your age. and thats just plain sad that you need to go after girls that basicly know nothing about true LOVE and whats good or bad...
and i think that this thread we should just let go and let it die because from all our post and all this time, it stills seems that you dont give a fuck and your still going to go after 13 year old girls.. this thread doesn't sound good to me at all. i hope none of lil girls in your area get hurt by you. because to me you sound desprede, because you cant get a girl around your age. and thats just plain sad that you need to go after girls that basicly know nothing about true LOVE and whats good or bad...
Steel
03-20-2004, 02:48 PM
i,ll take the comments on board. now i,m not trying to continue this hatred against me, i do enough 2 myself but hey...
It's not hatred, its a slap in the face, which is what you need.
of COURSE LIFE SUCKS, and is not fair and i AM dealing with it. i have no illusions there. but sometimes the truth of this void gets me down, normally when i,m drunk and i retreat 2 my obseesive 16 year old net 24/7 days.
I drink sometimes when i get down too. Just as long as its not an obsessive dort of thing. Good boy.
yes, i was a stuiped kid when i was 13. and 16, and now. but except in knowledge i havent changed since i was 16. hell i love pokemon, i,m an anime otaku. give me video games to any outside activity anyday.
Then grow up already.
i missed out on the innocent dating of my early youth by being a nerd.
So did I. Get over it.
the notion that any goth older then 20 is a loser and proves her imaturity is so steortyped and invalidiates your other comments if your mind is so closed.
It's not a stereotype if it's true. Would you classify yourself as "goth"? Cause if so, i'm just going to give up. There's no hope for those losers, sit around in dark rooms all day, trying to think of the best way to describe how utterly horrible their lives are and wishing they could just die.
i have no wish of entering the world of unsumontable shit...the"adult world" or "real world". i,ll be staying in higher education and staying a teen for as long as i can. ultimately i will have 2 become one of the 9 to 5 sheep. but not yet.
Grow up and become and adult you pansy. It's really not that bad, but it does take "responsibility". 'boo hoo I don't want to grow up, i want to stay a kid forever! it's not fair and life sucks that i can't stay a kid forever!' Hey, that's life. Everyone grows up eventually. some ust fight it a lot harder than others.
you havent explained the logic of how going out with her would fuck her up. i would get more fucked up, because inevitablly she would dump me.
It happens. Get over it. It hurts but there's always a way to pull through.
michael jackson has not yet been proven guilty.
Oh jesus christ!! :disappoin
i wouldnt go out with any one younger then 13. then they r not a teenager. p.s as all anime otakus should know, 13 is the age of consent in japan.
No offense to anyone here, but Japan is fucking weird. And this isn't Japan anyway.
that shit about prison is bullshit and so is the law. it cant tell the difference between what would be an innocent romance (aka what i would have) and a guy who rapes children. my romance would not need sex, and if it did they would be consenting. remember we have sometjing called free will... and unless someone wants 2 argue a topic on fate and how free will is an illusion, my point will stand.
No, it's NOT bullshit. You don't have to have sex with her to get charged. Simple truth, like it or not.
It's not hatred, its a slap in the face, which is what you need.
of COURSE LIFE SUCKS, and is not fair and i AM dealing with it. i have no illusions there. but sometimes the truth of this void gets me down, normally when i,m drunk and i retreat 2 my obseesive 16 year old net 24/7 days.
I drink sometimes when i get down too. Just as long as its not an obsessive dort of thing. Good boy.
yes, i was a stuiped kid when i was 13. and 16, and now. but except in knowledge i havent changed since i was 16. hell i love pokemon, i,m an anime otaku. give me video games to any outside activity anyday.
Then grow up already.
i missed out on the innocent dating of my early youth by being a nerd.
So did I. Get over it.
the notion that any goth older then 20 is a loser and proves her imaturity is so steortyped and invalidiates your other comments if your mind is so closed.
It's not a stereotype if it's true. Would you classify yourself as "goth"? Cause if so, i'm just going to give up. There's no hope for those losers, sit around in dark rooms all day, trying to think of the best way to describe how utterly horrible their lives are and wishing they could just die.
i have no wish of entering the world of unsumontable shit...the"adult world" or "real world". i,ll be staying in higher education and staying a teen for as long as i can. ultimately i will have 2 become one of the 9 to 5 sheep. but not yet.
Grow up and become and adult you pansy. It's really not that bad, but it does take "responsibility". 'boo hoo I don't want to grow up, i want to stay a kid forever! it's not fair and life sucks that i can't stay a kid forever!' Hey, that's life. Everyone grows up eventually. some ust fight it a lot harder than others.
you havent explained the logic of how going out with her would fuck her up. i would get more fucked up, because inevitablly she would dump me.
It happens. Get over it. It hurts but there's always a way to pull through.
michael jackson has not yet been proven guilty.
Oh jesus christ!! :disappoin
i wouldnt go out with any one younger then 13. then they r not a teenager. p.s as all anime otakus should know, 13 is the age of consent in japan.
No offense to anyone here, but Japan is fucking weird. And this isn't Japan anyway.
that shit about prison is bullshit and so is the law. it cant tell the difference between what would be an innocent romance (aka what i would have) and a guy who rapes children. my romance would not need sex, and if it did they would be consenting. remember we have sometjing called free will... and unless someone wants 2 argue a topic on fate and how free will is an illusion, my point will stand.
No, it's NOT bullshit. You don't have to have sex with her to get charged. Simple truth, like it or not.
Colov99
03-20-2004, 03:27 PM
I just want to throw in my 2 cents. First, if your under 20 dont date a girl more then 2 years younger your just not mature enough. when your 30 its ok to date a 25 y/o because you should be around the same maturity level but not that young, you dont realy mature till your in your 20s or so. Second is about the goth thingy. Nowadays most goths are just posers using the whole suicide thing as a way to get attention. You get his "oh im depressed i have no freinds im going to kill myself" statment one night and the next morning when your wondering if their dead you get this message "i was saved last night by a freind who actualy cared for me". only to have this entire thing happen again.
There are some people who dress goth that are over 20 but alot of them are proly wiccan and dress like that because its the relgion they belive in. and some peole find dressing in black suits them. i dress almost in all black most of the time but thats because my eyes are sensitve to light and i dont like bright colors. (yes i know ill proly get flamed for the one). But i agree with whoever said goth is a fad, it used to be diffent now everyone is like im going goth and going to wrtie poetry and dress in black and spook people out. give me a break, start acting like a real person, thats not you thats a fake selft start acting like your own self.
sorry for this really long post i hope i said something that was worth while. but dude dont date her your too young shes too young and you are not matrue enough in anyway, youve demostrated this to us in your posts.
There are some people who dress goth that are over 20 but alot of them are proly wiccan and dress like that because its the relgion they belive in. and some peole find dressing in black suits them. i dress almost in all black most of the time but thats because my eyes are sensitve to light and i dont like bright colors. (yes i know ill proly get flamed for the one). But i agree with whoever said goth is a fad, it used to be diffent now everyone is like im going goth and going to wrtie poetry and dress in black and spook people out. give me a break, start acting like a real person, thats not you thats a fake selft start acting like your own self.
sorry for this really long post i hope i said something that was worth while. but dude dont date her your too young shes too young and you are not matrue enough in anyway, youve demostrated this to us in your posts.
spectreofsorrow
03-21-2004, 01:09 PM
may i ask a question. i know i,m imature, and yes u dont grow up till you reach your twentys. but i,m more mature then most my age, NOT that i,m mature, just relatively. yes my posts denote my level of imaturity. but surely that means i,m not mature enough for a mature relationship and go for an innocent relationship with an innocent romance.
ok i,ll just give up now. but meh what the hell. you only live once. if i,m lucky enough to meet a girl one day her age wont matter.
ok i,ll just give up now. but meh what the hell. you only live once. if i,m lucky enough to meet a girl one day her age wont matter.
pind
03-21-2004, 04:03 PM
and 15 will get you 20 in the real world. enjoy
Hyatus
03-21-2004, 08:47 PM
Your from the UK right? so the legal age is 16 like ours in the states is 18, so if you love/like her truly just be a close friend/mentor to her untill shes 16 then move forward. :smile:
IntegraBoy2003
03-22-2004, 10:25 AM
I hope u get ass fucked in jail spectreofsarrow, i mean there are too many young girls getting taken advantage of by people like you
YogsVR4
03-22-2004, 11:21 AM
may i ask a question. i know i,m imature, and yes u dont grow up till you reach your twentys. but i,m more mature then most my age, NOT that i,m mature, just relatively. yes my posts denote my level of imaturity. but surely that means i,m not mature enough for a mature relationship and go for an innocent relationship with an innocent romance.
ok i,ll just give up now. but meh what the hell. you only live once. if i,m lucky enough to meet a girl one day her age wont matter.
Jesus Christ! Listen for once in your life. You sound like your ninety and life is terrible. Boo fucking hoo. :rolleyes: Guess what - you're not the only one who's gone through this and you're not going to be the last. Buck up and figure out that you're entering adulthood and need to start acting that way.
It looks to me that you're sitting around hoping for something good to happen. Guess what - its not coming on its own. You need to do something constructive and soon.
ok i,ll just give up now. but meh what the hell. you only live once. if i,m lucky enough to meet a girl one day her age wont matter.
Jesus Christ! Listen for once in your life. You sound like your ninety and life is terrible. Boo fucking hoo. :rolleyes: Guess what - you're not the only one who's gone through this and you're not going to be the last. Buck up and figure out that you're entering adulthood and need to start acting that way.
It looks to me that you're sitting around hoping for something good to happen. Guess what - its not coming on its own. You need to do something constructive and soon.
goat_launcher
03-22-2004, 12:39 PM
well I'm sorry, mr moderator if my comments justify being called a dickhead and treated like a "sack of shit" but I don't think it's fair to be harsh to someone who has tried to be as civil as possible without compromising my integrity.
I would have to agree with the rest of the gentlemen here. Sure, I get thoughts (especially when I was in high school) about humping a 14 or 15 year old now and then, but the difference was, I didn't act on those thoughts. It's just a wrong thing to do in the first place. There are plenty of girls your age you can hang out with and have relationships with.
On a good note, I must commend you for your ability to stay polite under all this duress. If I had your patience, maybe I wouldn't have gotten banned like a douchebag that I am. :screwy:
That is all.
I would have to agree with the rest of the gentlemen here. Sure, I get thoughts (especially when I was in high school) about humping a 14 or 15 year old now and then, but the difference was, I didn't act on those thoughts. It's just a wrong thing to do in the first place. There are plenty of girls your age you can hang out with and have relationships with.
On a good note, I must commend you for your ability to stay polite under all this duress. If I had your patience, maybe I wouldn't have gotten banned like a douchebag that I am. :screwy:
That is all.
spectreofsorrow
03-24-2004, 02:28 PM
thank you goat launcher for your compliment concerning my discourse and the way you brought across your opinion. i respect your opinion, in that you dont agree with my own, but you you respect mine and dont kill me for it like the majority here.
yogs, i may sound like that cause my life is terrible. yes everyone else has a shit life, but how does that invalidate my shit life or my opinion. i wish you and many others besides, would stop spouting the ephitets, phrases and philosophys you have had ramned and indoctrinated into you by society, and ascend 2 a new level of thinking. its quite vexing how everyone sounds the same.
integraboy- dont know why i should grace your inane, unimagnative, devoid of wit and disconcerting post with a comment, but hey i,m very immature. these comments really do debase u to a level devoid of substance and sterotype u as the sterotypical masculine asshole. i would refrain from such comments in future.
if anyone wants 2 again insult the imaturity and bigtory of this post feel free.
yogs, i may sound like that cause my life is terrible. yes everyone else has a shit life, but how does that invalidate my shit life or my opinion. i wish you and many others besides, would stop spouting the ephitets, phrases and philosophys you have had ramned and indoctrinated into you by society, and ascend 2 a new level of thinking. its quite vexing how everyone sounds the same.
integraboy- dont know why i should grace your inane, unimagnative, devoid of wit and disconcerting post with a comment, but hey i,m very immature. these comments really do debase u to a level devoid of substance and sterotype u as the sterotypical masculine asshole. i would refrain from such comments in future.
if anyone wants 2 again insult the imaturity and bigtory of this post feel free.
IntegraBoy2003
03-24-2004, 03:50 PM
integraboy- dont know why i should grace your inane, unimagnative, devoid of wit and disconcerting post with a comment, but hey i,m very immature. these comments really do debase u to a level devoid of substance and sterotype u as the sterotypical masculine asshole. i would refrain from such comments in future.
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Hey man, U wanted to engage in sex with a young girl, I mean come on, get help and do not single me out, Am i an asshole? Good only to people like you, who want to take advange of young girls you know man I am going to be a lawyer in the near future and i hope I get to prosecute sick fucks like you, if anyone has a problem with this PM me, and please stop using your words of philosopical intellegence towards me, you are only making your self SOUND LIKE THE ASSHOLE
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Hey man, U wanted to engage in sex with a young girl, I mean come on, get help and do not single me out, Am i an asshole? Good only to people like you, who want to take advange of young girls you know man I am going to be a lawyer in the near future and i hope I get to prosecute sick fucks like you, if anyone has a problem with this PM me, and please stop using your words of philosopical intellegence towards me, you are only making your self SOUND LIKE THE ASSHOLE
stealthj
03-28-2004, 11:04 PM
dont do it man
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