Swingers?

Hey. I was wondering about swingers. What goes on behind those closed doors? I was in vegas and I heard that there were some swinger clubs around town. I didnt go to one but I was interested. Is it just a house with a giant orgie inside? Lots of naked people walking around like a nudist camp? Are they full of old hippie couples that have sex with eachother? I dont know what goes on there and I would like to know. Thanks for any info you got on the matter.

Maybe next time I'm in vegas I will check it out and let you guys know what goes on there. But I dont want to go if it will be full of old people geting it on! :naughty:

meaningless sex, who wants that?

Me! :evillol:

meaningless sex, who wants that?

for my generation right now, the best kind.

new sexual interests, eh MR2? gay bars and swingers clubs: I don't know anything about either.

Eh... the thought of swingers clubs always struck a bad chord in me. It's something I could never do if i have a girlfriend, because I can't honestly see it any different than cheating. And that goes in hand with if I was single.. i couldn't do it with another guys girl (even if he's all about it) just cause it doesn't feel right. To each their own i suppose.

Hey. I was wondering about swingers. What goes on behind those closed doors? I was in vegas and I heard that there were some swinger clubs around town. I didnt go to one but I was interested. Is it just a house with a giant orgie inside? Lots of naked people walking around like a nudist camp? Are they full of old hippie couples that have sex with eachother? I dont know what goes on there and I would like to know. Thanks for any info you got on the matter.

Maybe next time I'm in vegas I will check it out and let you guys know what goes on there. But I dont want to go if it will be full of old people geting it on! :naughty:I don’t know if it’s quite like that. I saw a documentary on Swinging once and it was more like a party where people were standing around talking and mingling. It was later on in the night when couples sought each other out and went off in to rooms to do their thing. No singles were allowed, it had to purely be couples.

Apparently there are some high class swinging parties where it’s purely invitation only and only for the beautiful people.

I must say that swinging is not something that I understand at all. I just couldn’t be with someone else or watch my husband be with someone else. For me, that’s one of the reasons you get married. You want to be with that person and that person only. Each to his/her own though I guess.

'Hey. I was wondering about swingers. What goes on behind those closed doors? I was in
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Swinging is the highest form of disrespect for ones spouse/partner; it is a sexual perversion of what a marriage is supposed to entail : Sex in order to strengthen the marital bond thru complete disclosure in intimacy. When its shared with near perfect strangers...it is a cheap temporary thrill at the expense of human dignity and worth. It is a sexual addiction that always comes with a steep price : Emotional devastation once the addiction is broken and/or std's of which there are now over 30 out there., with some being permanent and causing sterility.

It is the most twisted form of sexual immorality because : Swingers lock their doors at night to keep strangers out of their house...yet, they will welcome strangers to use their spouses genitals . Utter reprobate minds -- doesnt come much worse than this . Yet, is a growing pastime in our nation which has become a Moral Sewer.

(and please....dont tell me "its ok so long as two people agree to it" ; thats a lame excuse which only a reprobate mind would think of saying and is the reason our nation is morally corrupt ).

'Hey. I was wondering about swingers. What goes on behind those closed doors? I was in
'

Swinging is the highest form of disrespect for ones spouse/partner; it is a sexual perversion of what a marriage is supposed to entail : Sex in order to strengthen the marital bond thru complete disclosure in intimacy. When its shared with near perfect strangers...it is a cheap temporary thrill at the expense of human dignity and worth. It is a sexual addiction that always comes with a steep price : Emotional devastation once the addiction is broken and/or std's of which there are now over 30 out there., with some being permanent and causing sterility.

It is the most twisted form of sexual immorality because : Swingers lock their doors at night to keep strangers out of their house...yet, they will welcome strangers to use their spouses genitals . Utter reprobate minds -- doesnt come much worse than this . Yet, is a growing pastime in our nation which has become a Moral Sewer.

(and please....dont tell me "its ok so long as two people agree to it" ; thats a lame excuse which only a reprobate mind would think of saying and is the reason our nation is morally corrupt ).

Your morality is making my head numb.

'Hey. I was wondering about swingers. What goes on behind those closed doors? I was in
'

Swinging is the highest form of disrespect for ones spouse/partner; it is a sexual perversion of what a marriage is supposed to entail : Sex in order to strengthen the marital bond thru complete disclosure in intimacy. When its shared with near perfect strangers...it is a cheap temporary thrill at the expense of human dignity and worth. It is a sexual addiction that always comes with a steep price : Emotional devastation once the addiction is broken and/or std's of which there are now over 30 out there., with some being permanent and causing sterility.

It is the most twisted form of sexual immorality because : Swingers lock their doors at night to keep strangers out of their house...yet, they will welcome strangers to use their spouses genitals . Utter reprobate minds -- doesnt come much worse than this . Yet, is a growing pastime in our nation which has become a Moral Sewer.

(and please....dont tell me "its ok so long as two people agree to it" ; thats a lame excuse which only a reprobate mind would think of saying and is the reason our nation is morally corrupt ).
You must have never done stuff like this then OMG its cool. If sex is to strengthen bonds well then i'm just friendly to any hot ass stranger chicks.

Me i've done a bunch of 3ways *2 girls teh ace aint bout other guys not like theres anything wrong with that* with my ex she was so into it her idea and all. Nothing is more fun then watching your girl go down as well nuff said ya know?
I've never been to club or anything like that and i would find up and leaving my partner to another man or women would be weird but things like 3 ways orgys what not there good just some fun no harm.

Your morality is making my head numb.

RESPONSE:

Having morality in life, is a very important and wise thing ; its there for a reason. Stray from it and see how fast destruction will come to your life.

Buying into our cultures philosophies of getting as much fun as you can in your life, is blatant disregard for practicing restraint and responsibility -- no wonder people by in large dont want there to be a Creator ; its a fly in their lifestyle ointment. Its still doesnt change the fact that we all have a moral fiber and conscience to your being...only some choose to suppress it in favor of doing whatever they want. God offers a much better plan for you life which involves peace, fulfillment, and absolute moral laws to offer protection from harming yourself . He gives us the choice though...but, there will be alot of regrets, later, for those who took the immoral fun route to their short life.
Just some words of caution to you both.

Dave

Well thankyou for your words of caution but its not how I live my life. Sex can be like a good caring thing but not always this is just to kill few hours I good way and as far as it being a sin and all i'm quite aware well I guess this line sums it up for me.

I see the light at the end but every time I take a step it gets dim. Tell me this is hell we're living in if so heavens gotta be better but if were hell bound whatever lets go down.

Mad props to who knows this song.
In my views i'm not disregrading the creator at all. I live very stirctly to my religion no where does any of it ever talk about lust being a sin. So I'm doing whats OK in my views and your doing whats OK in yours thats all.

'Sex can be like a good caring thing but not always this is just to kill few hours I good way and as far as it being a sin and all i'm quite aware well I guess this line sums it up for me.
I see the light at the end but every time I take a step it gets dim. Tell me this is hell we're living in if so heavens gotta be better but if were hell bound whatever lets go down.
Mad props to who knows this song.
In my views i'm not disregrading the creator at all. I live very stirctly to my religion no
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RESPONSE:

Sex is designed by the Creator to be between a husband and wife, because its designed around making the marital bond stronger thru complete trust and intimacy ; sex outside of marriage always comes with a heavy price once the fun is over. Sex isnt just physical lovemaking...its a blending of the deepest part of our souls which is why its meant for a lifetime commitment in marriage. You answered your own quesiton as to if its wrong or not when you said ' i know its a sin,,etc..but i do it anyway' . Yu see, Sex is an addiction and its a subtle one. It feels good but its going to end up in consequences for you unless your married. ITs an absolute moral law not to have sex outside of marriage. And yes, lusting is a sin . Look it up in the Bible. ITs not a case of 'i have my religion and you have yours'....its a case of rejecting what God has given you by way of laws for your own protection ; one has to totally push God aside if he is going to continue in sexual immorality. And, the bible says : 'No sexually immoral person will EVER get to heaven'. Do u want forgiveness for this and your many sins which are against God himself ??? Do u want to go to heaven after this short earthly life ?? Then ask God to forgive you, trust Jesus Christ who paid the sin debt which you cannot pay to God, then ask God to give you his power to resist sexual temptation. Finding a good local Church that has a SIngles Ministry in it, will get you going on the right track and youll meet some nice people who gave up living wrongly too. Then you will have the peace and joy of one day going to Heaven. Please dont go and blow your chance by living how YOU want to...by making yourself 'god' of your life---allow the Creator to have his rightful place in your life by putting him first, then you wont have to spend forever in a place where God -Rejectors go where there is alot of sadness and regret from how they lived.
See the movie : THe PAssion of the Christ which is out now..that will show you how much GOd really loves you man.

Regards,

Will you please stop it with the Creator crap?! Dave, we all know you're very religious, so stop it! Please.

Anyway, there was an episode of Nip/Tuck where one of the main guys and his gf went into a swingers club. That was some weird shit, but in a good way.

Will you please stop it with the Creator crap?! Dave, we all know you're very religious, so stop it! Please.

Anyway, there was an episode of Nip/Tuck where one of the main guys and his gf went into a swingers club. That was some weird shit, but in a good way.
RESPONSE:

I regret that you think 'im religious' ! Im not...i just have a personal relationship with THe Creator which is what the main purpose of us being here , is : TO get to know him and honor him. He gives us that choice. Now....i do believe that i am posting in the Philosophical/Views DG of Automotive Forum, am i not ?! Therefore, please dont ask me to stop it friend ; im allowed to do so, plus, asking me to stop talking about my greatest love is like me asking you to please stop breathing in this DG (im sure you dont want to do that , right !?).
We have become totally desensitized to the plethera of sexual perversion in this country due to whats on tv, the radio, ,magazines, and the word on the street. Swinging is absolutely and always Wrong --- please stop and think about what it means when a married couple that promised to respect and honor one another, share their bodys with near perfect strangers for entertainment . You see freind,... if you have a moral foundation on which to live by, you wont get duped when tv shows promote sexual immorality. ITs important to think in reality terms..instead of tv glamoritization hollywood style.
The current generation , seems to be totally clueless why morality in society is important -- can i ask you if you know why its important in society ?? Please tell me if you are aware.

Dave

Dave, you frustrate me greatly.

RESPONSE:

I regret that you think 'im religious' ! Im not...i just have a personal relationship with THe Creator which is what the main purpose of us being here , is : TO get to know him and honor him. He gives us that choice. Now....i do believe that i am posting in the Philosophical/Views DG of Automotive Forum, am i not ?! Therefore, please dont ask me to stop it friend ; im allowed to do so, plus, asking me to stop talking about my greatest love is like me asking you to please stop breathing in this DG (im sure you dont want to do that , right !?).
We have become totally desensitized to the plethera of sexual perversion in this country due to whats on tv, the radio, ,magazines, and the word on the street. Swinging is absolutely and always Wrong --- please stop and think about what it means when a married couple that promised to respect and honor one another, share their bodys with near perfect strangers for entertainment . You see freind,... if you have a moral foundation on which to live by, you wont get duped when tv shows promote sexual immorality. ITs important to think in reality terms..instead of tv glamoritization hollywood style.
The current generation , seems to be totally clueless why morality in society is important -- can i ask you if you know why its important in society ?? Please tell me if you are aware.

Dave

And how is that not religious? :screwy:

Dave, you frustrate me greatly.


How is it that i frustrate you greatly ??? Because i call something wrong and am not tolerant to something which is wrong for people and society ??
Many things in life look like fun and offer a thrill, but, have great consequences.

Being 'religious' carrys with it the connotation of just doing a bunch of religious things in order to please God , or yourself ; having a personal relationship with the living Creator isnt based on what 'i can do'...but , on what he has done . Thus, its having a personal relationship; its a fulfillment of ones purpose in being here on earth . What could be higher .

Dave

You don't frustrate me; you do, however, make my head numb.

Please limit your response to under 1000 words this time in order to reduce futher Head Numb.

You don't frustrate me; you do, however, make my head numb.

Please limit your response to under 1000 words this time in order to reduce futher Head Numb.



OKAY...hows that ?!

Dave...you are arrogant,conceited and boring as hell. Even the true Christians on this board are starting to get pissed off with your constant tub-thumping.You can't possibly live to the standards that you expect the rest of us to adhere to.Please,just stop posting theological replies to this kind of thread.We've seen your thoughts on Christianity,and dismissed them as codswallop.

OKAY...hows that ?!

Still numb.

Shorter.

Dave...you are arrogant,conceited and boring as hell. Even the true Christians on this board are starting to get pissed off with your constant tub-thumping.You can't possibly live to the standards that you expect the rest of us to adhere to.Please,just stop posting theological replies to this kind of thread.We've seen your thoughts on Christianity,and dismissed them as codswallop.


I regret that you feel that way. Isnt that intolerant ??? I enjoy sharing my beliefs and challenging the destructive philosophies of our decadent culture -- and this is the right venue for it since im in the correct DG forum for such things. If you would like to share your 'religion' (and we all have one....)...id be willing to listen and entertain what you have to say. I afford you that right and priveldge , and others whom you disagree with, have that right also.

Thanks, Dave

Still numb.

Shorter.

:lol2: Harsh.

I regret that you feel that way. Isnt that intolerant ??? I enjoy sharing my beliefs and challenging the destructive philosophies of our decadent culture -- and this is the right venue for it since im in the correct DG forum for such things. If you would like to share your 'religion' (and we all have one....)...id be willing to listen and entertain what you have to say. I afford you that right and priveldge , and others whom you disagree with, have that right also.

Thanks, Dave

You don't challenge distructive philosophies, you blatantly dismiss them as wrong and claim their conseguenses. And all you do is repeat your opinion about our crumbling society. Here's my opinion, and you cannot disprove it, all of your ideas about how wrong what people do is based on an outdated book that has diminished meaning in our modern world.

Ok Dave.. I've waited long enough... You can dismiss the atheists good job... I don't care. Like Mr. T said... you're pissing off the Christians on the board... I'm beyond Christian son I'm a God Damn Roman Catholic and you're really itching me. It's to the point where you sound like a fuckin Mormon comin to my doorstep at 4 A.M. asking me "Have you found Jesus??" I FOUND JESUS A LONG TIME AGO AND I SOLD HIM A DIME BAG ALL RIGHT? Fuckin Christ boy you need a slap in the face, and let me list the reasons why:

1.) No one here gives a fuck about your opinions... we come in, we post, we laugh or cry, then it's gone. Your preachings on this board aren't gonna do shit for the morality of the world, so just fuckin give up before you get banned.

2.) The whole IDEA behind open debate is that you are willing to accept that you might be wrong. You, my friend, blatently disregard anything and everything that is said again your "ideas". In otherwords, you suck.

3.) If all you're going to do is bitch and complain about how the world needs change, dear God do something about it. No one wants to hear about your ideas of how the world is wrong when you're not doing a fuckin thing about it.

4.) I'm happy for you. I truly am. It's good you have a "connection with your creator". Just remember that your "creator" isn't EVERYONE ELSE'S. Part of living in this world is that everyone is RIGHT. So guess what? To me, you're WRONG. You're so fucking WRONG that I can't begin to explain. Deal. You believe that you're right, good for you... I believe that I'm right too, but I'm not sittin here preaching to the world about my religion on how the Underpant Gnomes are running wild around the earth, changing our underwear in our sleep, forever changing out outlook on the world or some shit like that.

5.) You want to complain about how "this generation is going to hell in a handbasket"? WHO THE FUCK RAISED "THIS GENERATION"??? THE GENERATION FROM BEFORE. This "generation" learned EVERYTHING from their parents and/or friends who learned it from their parents. Don't blame this generation, blame this generation's parents.

6.) Most importantly--fuck you.. Don't respond to this because I swear to God I'll tear whatever you say apart. I'm being reserved right now.

Have a nice day.

:banghead:

Ok I was a little harsh in previous thread. Dave, you're new... I don't want to make you feel unwelcome, because you are welcome at this site. All I ask of you to prevent any future things like this to happen is DO NOT try to force your religion on others. Thank you.

-Andrew

Based on Heep's new rules, shouldn't we just drop this before we'all get kicked in the nuts?

The swingers thread is all warm and fuzzy. What happened to this one?



Ow :killbarne

And here I was thinking I was a thread killer. Guess not because it’s come back to life in a big way! :p

Isn't it time to get back on topic?

You don't challenge distructive philosophies, you blatantly dismiss them as wrong and claim their conseguenses. And all you do is repeat your opinion about our crumbling society. Here's my opinion, and you cannot disprove it, all of your ideas about how wrong what people do is based on an outdated book that has diminished meaning in our modern world.

I have listed very precise consequences to the Swinging Lifestyle in this thread and they are true. If you want to discount them, then that is up to you. As for the 'outdated book' --- its only 'outdated' to those who dont want any moral foundation and ethics to live by so they can do whatever they want in life. And its had a diminished meaning to this culture because this culture puts oneself on the throne instead of Gods rightful place. ANd that is your choice as well, but it to, comes with consequences. You are all young people...as you go thru life and break absolute moral laws , try to take note of the ramifications to your actions ; youll see that they bring hurt, destruction, and regret . God gave us absolute moral laws to obey so we could avoid the consequences. Thank you. Thats all . I wont be contributing to this thread anymore. , as ive said all i can.
Dave

I tend to agree with Dave on some points. Swinging is a distructive lifestyle. The people who do indulge in this lifestyle do it for a reason. I'm sure there are many reasons they can think of doing it.

A)They might say they are bored with sex with just one partner or the same partner all the time. Which is saying they are bored with or unhappy with their spouse.

B) They might say they just want to get a little more excitement back in their bedroom. Which is saying they are bored with or unhappy with their spouse.

These are just a couple reasons but I'm sure there are others. In the end they are saying they are unhappy with who they are married to and want to try something different. There is something very wrong in a marriage if you are that unhappy and want to try someone different. Swinging isn't going to make your marriage better.

As for those who are not in that swinging lifestyle because you aren't married and you think that sex is simply about pleasure or having something to do with whoever then I guarentee you are going to have a serious problem when or if you ever decide to get married. It may not show up immediately but it will show up.

This is just my opinion but sex should never be considered as just a casual act. It should only be between 2 people who are commited to each other for life. Then it becomes much more than just a way to get off or pass time. That's a guarantee. I speak from experience.

I guess you guys didn't notice my post!

Your are off topic get back on topic or I will close this thread!

Well I guess if getting back on topic you mean what goes on behind closed doors of a swingers party then I'm pretty sure that has been played out so close away.

I know 'swingers' are the wrong. I back dave 110%. :sunglasse

I know 'swingers' are the wrong. I back dave 110%. :sunglasse

ME: Thank you for your support...and.....long live the AirForce !

xviciousx
hey dude dont be puttin the mormons down. they dont come knocking on your door at 4am and you know it. they dont even leave the house until 8 am. i do agree with dave about saying swinging is a sin.but i am told to hate the sin and love the sinner. but i am also getting sick of him preaching to everyone. we all know what you stand for dave, you do not have to beat it into us relentlessly.

lol if you want to learn about swingers, watch the Documentary "American Pimp"

THough i'm not religious at all, I pretty much agree with what Dave is saying. It's moral degridation. Heck, I like sex as much as the next guy, but i'm not aobut to do it with someone i just met 2 hours ago, whose history i don't know at all. That's just asking for trouble. I think sex should be between 2 people that are together. Not neccisarily married, but christ, this world just seems to be turning into a giant orgy.

THough i'm not religious at all, I pretty much agree with what Dave is saying. It's moral degridation. Heck, I like sex as much as the next guy, but i'm not aobut to do it with someone i just met 2 hours ago, whose history i don't know at all. That's just asking for trouble. I think sex should be between 2 people that are together. Not neccisarily married, but christ, this world just seems to be turning into a giant orgy.

ME: What makes 'being together' okay to have sex ?? Can u think of any reasons why it might be wrong to do even though youre together with someone ? And, if its wrong to have sex with someone you met 2 hours ago...when IS IT right to have sex with someone ?? (8 hours, 5 days, 6 months, or a year ???)

[QUOTE=SwaveDave]ME: And, if its wrong to have sex with someone you met 2 hours ago...QUOTE]

It all depends, Its up to the Persons, I mean No one can impose when a grown individual should have sex, In some cultures it is very common to have sex with someone after you just met them