im always unlucky

hello everyone, i have a little problem, and it involves steels last thread here, in a bad way.

the people i used to like, i found out were not my type, and i mean reeally not my type. and some other people that i liked turned out to be like monsters after i got to know them. but after looking at some of my friends with girlfriends, i think i dont want to be attracted to anyone. they all have girl problems until they want to die, and most of their problems are really petty and could be solved with a little understanding. then i come across this girl in my class, that is only a friend, but im closer to her than all my other classmates because we share alot in common, we seem to forget the same homework, do the same wrong thing, and all this things.. and it is always a coincidence, we end up like we think the same things. shes not like the other people i met, she does not frown when people do something wrong, even people accidentaly slap her or fall down on her also she smiles and laugh. she got a really good attitude, which is hard to find in all these bitchy people im surrounded by. but something is wrong, you know why? because she is my friends ex girlfriend. and hes not just a friend, he is older than me, and is like my big brother. he teaches me lots of tricks when we skate, when i get into trouble he will always pull me out of trouble and he is the one who encourages me when other people, even my best friend, scolds me or shouts at me. im scared of mentioning this to him because if he still likes her then hel get upset and i dont know what to do

you should ask him what he thenks about her and if he says that he dos not like he go for it.
just because your Friend dated her dos not mean that you could not i mean if you git along with her that good he should under stand and there should be no problem

Oh poor guy. Don't worry what you thinking. Okay, I have to tell you one thing. Even though your best friend wanna get along with the girl who you love,LOVE is COMPETITION. while flower don't give enough honey to butterfly, the butterfly can fly far away. At least if the girl were worthy to fall in love with you........
So, just show your confidence on her without any "doubt".

Damn man that sux. I would still say don't date her. But maybe at least talk to your friend about it. Since he seems to stick up for you and just sounds like a really good friend I wouldn't date her, so you don't mess your relationship up. It also depends on how long he dated her and how much he actually cared/loved her. If its the latter, tell him you really like her, but you don't want to mess your friendship up. He'll at least respect you for your honesty and youll show how much of a friend you really are.

this exact situation just happend to me... my 2 best friends just went through this... One of my best friends hooked up with this one girl, and then he had to go away to college... my other best friend hookled up with her, and they are happy but the friendship has been damaged. If you care about your friend, don't do it, even if it says it ok. There are plenty of women out there, but if you were to hook up with this girl, even when he said it was ok... think about what you would be feeling if you were him, you wouldn't be ok. that's my :2cents: hope it helped

Oh and by the way Raysoh, you're not the only unlucky one. I'm also cursed with being unlucky with relationship situations. I always end up making a stupid decsion that I think is good at the time and end up regretting it later on.

Sorry to hear raysoh8, tough situation. If you are serious about persuing something with this girl then I would ask your friend how he feels about you doing so. If you hang out with him enough I think you'll know if it will have a negative effect on him through his reaction. He might try to let it by like he wouldn't care, but I think that you'd be able to tell if he really did or not. Girls are a dime a dozen, but true friends aren't so common.... just keep that in mind.

ok he gave her a rose today so that means he still likes her so il be ok being just a friend..

ok he gave her a rose today so that means he still likes her so il be ok being just a friend..

But WILL you be O.K?

awww... puppy love, how cute. How old are you again... 14?

haha just looked at your birthday... turns out your just 13!!! hahaha you are 3 years away from being able to drive wtf are you doing on a automotive website dissin on people that actually can drive and know wtf they're talking about!!!!

haha just looked at your birthday... turns out your just 13!!! hahaha you are 3 years away from being able to drive wtf are you doing on a automotive website dissin on people that actually can drive and know wtf they're talking about!!!!

A: What in the fuck does having to drive have anything to do with this topic-love?
B: Who cares if they cant fucking drive. Half the people on this board probably cant anyways
C: STFU n00bie=perfect example of that thread someone made saying something about how n00bies come in acting like they own the place
D: Actually you can start driving at the age of 15.