Need help with my crap car....

Ok well I have a '94 Tracer, and we have a new problem with this hunk of crap every week. Well this week we're having a problem with the gear shifter. Its an automatic, and it won't come out of park. Theres suppose to be 2 causes of this problem, the pin in the shifter, and the automatic relay from the brake. Ok, what I need to know is where is this relay at? The stupid book says nothing, and appearently I'm the only person thats ever had this problem, because no one knows, and the mechanic at the Ford dealership couldn't tell us. Can anyone help? I'd be muchly obligided... :biggrin:
-Jackie