What she doesn't know will kill you

I read this article and wow is the only thing that came out of my mouth...I think it is one of the best written of its kind...Give it a read, tell me what you think....

What she doesn't know will kill you! (http://www.dailycollegian.com/vnews/display.v/ART/2003/11/21/3fbd76353e7dd)

See hun the only problem with this is that most of the guys in this situation are alot like myself. Hopeless romantics that will not only every single detail of the first date, but the full names of the first set of twins we'd have together. All of this before I would even say hello. The reason we don't ask is because of something we call UMS. Ugly male syndrome.

You see we know exactly what would be said. No matter what happens we'll be friends right? The strangest thing about females is that you'll lead us on without knowing it because we'll tell ourselves that what you do isn't a sign of affection or love but we then we really think it is. It's complicated but every guy here that's gone through the high school/college crush crap knows it.

Then the big day comes. We've got our minds made up that you do indeed have strong feelings for us as we have for you. We're gonna tell you what we have to say and what we feel but then.... we do and you'll blush and be considerate but it's too late. We're crushed and now know for a fact that you said no because we have UMS and females generally hate that. So we walk away and try never to be seen again.

All this before we can say hello.

-Andrew

I've never been in that situation. I've never had a guy friend come to me to tell me that he liked me so I guess i cant really speak from experience but i can say that I would hope that if I was the girl, I would have the same feelings or at least somehow try not to hurt the guy...if that makes any sense, i havent been making sense today.

I would hope that if I was the girl, I would have the same feelings or at least somehow try not to hurt the guy

Exactly what I'm talking about... The careful easy let down.

Eh she knows but is happy just being friends ;) Girls are not that oblivious...

Eh she knows but is happy just being friends ;) Girls are not that oblivious...

You'd be surprised. lol.

naw i find if a girl really wants you she will let you know, if anything it is the guys that are clueless

btw this is asterox, trying to figerure out if i got banned

^ pretty much

at the same time though girls like bad boys, my older sis says girls like guys they can't have. Or ones that treat em like crap, and they like the challenge to change him. The ones that are sweet and treat the girl like a princess, girls don't like b/c it's too easy and boring. <---- Is this true??? This is what I heard from my older sis, I hope not

how come i feel like i know that guy's younger brother? could be that they just have the same last name:eek7:....

but anyways...what he said is totally 100% true.....a lot of women really don't know about it nor do they understand of it......and they just want things as the way that they are....that's why alot of relationships like that just fail kind of.......the male and the female are on just two different levels that cannot meet...it's happened to me alot when i was younger...and boy am i glad that i found my girlfriend....keeps me out of this awkward situation that would tear my heart out if i were in it

It was clear from sentence three the writer was a brain-dead newt.



Screw this thread, what ever happened to Wank????

BAH JIM! If anyone knows, it's me. UMS, no, and why? I'm far from it. I get it a lot and here's my twist on the ordeal. I have alot of girls that like me, have crushes etc., I just always have my own. The thing is, I am so popular amongst people, girls especially in lower grades and same level too, but it's I'm seen as the guy they'll never get and they do nothing about or the brother. I've been the brother forever, still cool, smart, evrything ya know, but either they never do anything, mention something about me or if I ever make a move, which hardly I do, I'm chicken schiz, I fall into that guys writing. The friend, the one that the frienship is too valuable.

Now, time to through the truth. i just got out of a relationship in which what the article was about, I was in. We were best friend sand got together. Lasted 7 months, but maybe it wasn't meant to be anyhow. I was the one that broke up with her, but none the less. I'm a firm believer in that best friends can be the most compatble and sometimes they shouldn't try for the sake of their friendship.

I don't know, overall, anyone has any of a chance. Kind of like a soul mate thing. I believe in them, I just think it means that'll be your wife/husband, but perhaps your best friend. What you know 'bout her isn't so much the fact it's more than she's gorgeous, it's that you do care for her. You can care for her forever and you love her, you want the best for her and you want the best for yourself, but that doens't make ya'll the couple. I know this 'cause it's what I'm feeling now. I was shaky for awhile on my ex, I thought I was still in love but in all reality i just love her. I care for her and I want the best.

This feeling isn't something that can be descirbed, not by words of what you feel but more by what you've seen and know. Actions that have occured, such as though listed in our writer's editorial. It was a great piece of work that's based like any other, the obvious that no one wants to admit.

It was clear from sentence three the writer was a brain-dead newt.



Screw this thread, what ever happened to Wank????

Wanker and I are just friends...We tried to be more than that but it didnt work. And it even actually relates to this thread....We were friends, I made the move towards him, it worked we both wanted to try to be together, but after a few months, we decided that it just wasnt working. I guess I'm still unclear on why it wasnt working but whatever. We're good friends now.

GTF out.