what gives a guy the right to hit a chick???

heres the story...

me and my friend jessamy went up to gainsville the night before last to see these two guys, kenneth and matt. (i met them through her) me and ken are sort of dating and matt and jessamy are just friends. so we're all hanging out, drinking a beer, basically just relaxing. me and kenneth are sitting on the couch talking then all of the sudden jessamy is pushed down on top of me. I was like :wtf: we all stand up and jess and matt starting screaming at each other. it turns out matt was pissed because jess didnt want to go into his bedroom with him. well he was about to slap her when i stepped in front of her. needless to say i took the hit and punched him right back in the face. then kenneth stepped in and told him to back the fuck off. i told matt if he ever laid another hand on jess i would beat the hell out of him. i gave kenneth a quick kiss and got jess the hell out of there.

so...

what give a guy the right to hit a chick for no damn reason??? i dont get it. explain it to me guys...

Ask Blindside. He's the resident Redneck Billy Bob No Shirt Wife Beater Bud Drinker round these parts.

so...

what give a guy the right to hit a chick for no damn reason??? i dont get it. explain it to me guys...


short answer...NONE!!!

i never hit a girl...not once in my life. women should be treated with respect and not hit. i admit though that i raised my voice because of a fight with my gf, but thats it...but never ever have i hit a girl.

There is no reason for it. Any man that raises his hand to a woman should have them cut off and be tortured until he is dead.

There should be no reason for it. But you also have to ask the other question. What gives a women the right to hit a man? I've heard too many stories of both and it makes me sick. But if i caught a gf in bed with another guy, I'd have the right mind to smack the shit out of her. I'm not saying I would b/c I think its plain wrong. But under that circumstance I think a man should be allowed to slap the bitch. Just like any other guy would want to as well. This guy is a jack ass. And if this happened once then she better get out of this relationship as fast as she can. B/c guys who hit once will hit again. Tell your friend to drop this jerk and find someone better.

it turns out matt was pissed because jess didnt want to go into his bedroom with him.

one more comment...

hit a girl because of that?!?! just because she did not want to go to the bedroom with him or did not want to sleep with him still gives a guy no right to hit a girl.

one more comment...

hit a girl because of that?!?! just because she did not want to go to the bedroom with him or did not want to sleep with him still gives a guy no right to hit a girl.
Agreed. In that case, they should perform castration as well. He doesnt deserve to reproduce. Yet another case of "she's a woman and I own her life" which is completely assinign(sp?). Women deserve the uttmost respect, especially from men for putting up with all our shit (as well as vice versa). That Matt guy? I seriously hope that if he comes trying to apologize that your friend sees right through it, because if he did it once, he can do it again.

And if this happened once then she better get out of this relationship as fast as she can. B/c guys who hit once will hit again. Tell your friend to drop this jerk and find someone better.

they're not dating...they're just friends. they've messed around in the past but that ended a while back. they never slept together. she isnt going to be around him again. he tried calling her on the way home and she didnt answer. she doesnt want anything to do with him. i told kenneth that from now on we cant go to his apt if matt was there. he agreed. he told matt to move out that night.

they're not dating...they're just friends. they've messed around in the past but that ended a while back. they never slept together. she isnt going to be around him again. he tried calling her on the way home and she didnt answer. she doesnt want anything to do with him. i told kenneth that from now on we cant go to his apt if matt was there. he agreed. he told matt to move out that night.
Good for her. And kudos to Kenneth(your bf im guessing?) for making another smart move. Maybe it will make this Matt guy realize he needs to have an attitude adjustment.

That matt guy is a fucking prick for doing that....I say shoot the fucker in the nuts....and good for you for taking the blow for your friend, and then putting it right back in his face (literally). I dont know many chicks that would do that for their friend.

Nothing gives a guy that right. unless your saftey is truly in danger or your life is in danger, there is no need for it

I'm waiting for the day I see a guy hit a chick then I can finally release all the repressed anger everyone says I have...

There is no reason for it. Any man that raises his hand to a woman should have them cut off and be tortured until he is dead.
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It's disgusting to me that this guy would do something like this. He may get a little frustrated or annoyed at being denied but not to the point where he can take that out on your friend for simply making a personal choice. Off with his balls! :iceslolan

I don't think there is no reason to hit a woman because I would too not hit a woman in my whole life.

i treat women with the same respect i have for men, everyone deserves to be equal and i do not think woman deserve special treatment just because they are women.
women don't hit men= men don't hit women
women hit men=men hit women

special as that, no special treatment for anyone, most girls know how to defend themselves themselves anyway.

Its pretty obvious that he shouldn't have been hitting anyone in that situation. Are their other circumstances, sure their could be, but that sure in the hell wasn't it.

One of my sisters used to be quite the bully. She used to pick fights all the time (at least through high school) and she'd do it with guys. I saw nothing wrong with the guys fighting back. If they didn't, and even if they did, they would get their asses handed to them. She finally settled down and grew out of it after graduation.













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Nah, you all have it all wrong. Some girl comes to my pad, and doesn't want to go to my room? Four words: Mike Tyson, Kobe Bryant. He should've swung harder.

Just kidding. Fuck dude for real. That's the type of faggot that actually does end up raping someone.

I do however think that there is justified reason. If you start a fight-acting like a man, then expect to get beat like a man. No shit. Hit me, you better fuckin shoot my ass. That shit's uncalled for. I'd never physically assault someone(first, anyways), so I don't expect to get swung on. I've seen cats get their asses whipped cuz of that "I won't hit a girl" shit. Simple, don't fucking hit people. If you do, expect a good fight. Holler,

Nobu

u can tell those kinna people end up being the wife beaters and shit

loser couldent get none so he hit her?

yogs is right though.....in other situations it might be ok....like in 5th grade when that big bald girl threw me on the ground and tried to swing a baseballl bat at me

then i had to regulate

Never have, don't ever intend to. However if a girl hit me I would defend myself. That being said, I feel pretty confident that I could restrain most women without having to hit them, sure I might take a few hits but I mean come on, if you can't chin a few shots from a woman(with the exception of some scary biker chick) then you need to toughen up.

Never have, don't ever intend to. However if a girl hit me I would defend myself. That being said, I feel pretty confident that I could restrain most women without having to hit them, sure I might take a few hits but I mean come on, if you can't chin a few shots from a woman(with the exception of some scary biker chick) then you need to toughen up. Let me elaborate one more time(this is a hard subject to type about without sounding weird), I'm sure there are alot of women on these boards that say "hey I hit pretty hard!", and while I'm sure you do I don't consider anything a hard hit unless it really rings your bell or if you can still feel it the next day. There, I'm done now.

now see if a woman was coming at me with a Machete or some sort of weapon then i could see a man being forced to at least hit her or run away or something....i have no problem with restraint......in this case though he gets no sympathy from me.....his game is weak...his mind is weak.....he is weak......i mean come on my little brother Michael who is only 11 has more common sense than he does.....hell if i saw somethin like that happen i'd probably break the guy's nose...it's cool to hear that you domed him pretty good, but he deserves a lot worse....

hell i think of it just as bad if a woman were to hit a man because it's just not right.....hell that's messed up

Never have, don't ever intend to. However if a girl hit me I would defend myself. That being said, I feel pretty confident that I could restrain most women without having to hit them, sure I might take a few hits but I mean come on, if you can't chin a few shots from a woman(with the exception of some scary biker chick) then you need to toughen up. Let me elaborate one more time(this is a hard subject to type about without sounding weird), I'm sure there are alot of women on these boards that say "hey I hit pretty hard!", and while I'm sure you do I don't consider anything a hard hit unless it really rings your bell or if you can still feel it the next day. There, I'm done now.

why didnt you just edit the original post?

Zebra and Toksin, you guys rock my world.

No guy has the right to hit a girl. Next time he falls asleep take a blow torch to his genitals.

Errr, Slave, mate, I'm not that kind of guy to go rocking other guys worlds :p

Must be an Air Force thing. :D

Actully, I've got a funny story about such matters....

*sticks finger up* Sick monkey!! lol

Oh man, I have a lot of those stories too....

Lol :d

Nothing. Ever.

If their chasing you with a gun or stalking you...or if it's during a riot and they try to stop you from looting a store.

Bitch shouldnt have mouthed off like that :nono: ....oh yeah, and bitch shoulda had my dinner ready at 6. NOT 6:15, NOT 6:30...I do man's work all day and expect to be fed on time....now get back in the goddamned kitchen, woman....

(I hope it goes without saying that this is a joke, but for all those oblivious individuals....) :rolleyes:

no one has the right to lay a hand on anyone else. When it becomes a man hitting a woman, it bothers me a lot more though. I don't believe in doing it, but I do believe in restraint.

I agree with quarter mile, everyone is equal. and no-one should be allowed to hit someone-else and not expect it back.

I agree with quarter mile, everyone is equal. and no-one should be allowed to hit someone-else and not expect it back.

Well...this is the most retarded thing I've heard in a long time. Even if a woman hits you, you fool, you don't hit her back. You walk away. ITS CALLED BEING A MAN...check it out sometime, jackass. If I ever saw a man hit a woman, I would drop him no questions asked- don't care what the circumstances. I was raised to know better...

Oh wait, everyone is equal. So when my 2 year old cousin smacked me in the apple bag I should have kicked him in HIS nuts.... :nutkick:

Alright alright, I get your point...I don't ever see myself hitting a woman, or anyone else for that matter. I just wanted to make a point that everyone should be considered equals, and maybe that would make some people think twice about what they do before they do it. Something like what I didn't do before I worded that post :repost:

Well...this is the most retarded thing I've heard in a long time. Even if a woman hits you, you fool, you don't hit her back. You walk away. ITS CALLED BEING A MAN...check it out sometime, jackass. If I ever saw a man hit a woman, I would drop him no questions asked- don't care what the circumstances. I was raised to know better...

Oh wait, everyone is equal. So when my 2 year old cousin smacked me in the apple bag I should have kicked him in HIS nuts.... :nutkick:
There is no point in calling names, that's how things turn sour, so lets not have any flaming. I do agree though, hitting a woman should NEVER happen.

I have to go with no hitting under an "normal" circumstances (not normal being attacked with a weapon or other object specificly designed to do you serious damage etc.). I personally have never hit a woman, Not that I've never been so pissed off that I haven't thought about it. However, when I later reflected on the situation I realized that hitting them would have just escalated their pain more. And thus would have escalated my pain more afterwards when I realized that I had just hit someone I loved and/or cared for. Generally I try my best to avoid all sorts of confrontation that would lead to such a physical outburst of anger and if one can't be avoided I find it best to walk away. peace -Justin

There is no point in calling names, that's how things turn sour, so lets not have any flaming. I do agree though, hitting a woman should NEVER happen.

If you can't criticize someone who thinks hitting a woman is logical, due to the fact that we are all basically "equal", who can you flame? I have a hard time feeling guilty about my comments. Under many circumstances, if the topic was trivial, I would implement a different approach...but honestly, that is just DISGUSTING. Apologies for any offense, but I was offended by that tripe, as anyone with a conscience and a sense of moral decency should be.

If you can't criticize someone who thinks hitting a woman is logical, due to the fact that we are all basically "equal", who can you flame?

Disagreeing or criticising is fine but as John mentioned, the minute you start name calling you're reducing the level of the argument to that of a school yard.
Let's not do that.

Yes, it is OK to hit a woman or anyone else. It's call risk assessment.
Could the person do real damage? A ten year old?? No real threat there. A ten year old with a knife or 9mm?? I wouldn't be turning my back. But a simple slap ?? No.
There are many women that can be a real danger. My wife is 5' 10" and spent 10 years in special forces. World Wide Mobil Security Surveillance. No less than two combat medals. Get into it with her and turn your back and you'll wake up face down in the hospital wondering where the broomstick came from. :lol2:

That said, the mature thing is to avoid those situations all together. Walk away before things get elevated to those levels.

I would say if she hits him that is reason enough. I don't care who you are, if you hit me I'm going to hit you back. I don't feel that anyone has the right to hit anyone else for no reason.

There's no reason to hit a woman period (Well maybe if she was going to kill a loved one, but that's about it).

I would say if she hits him that is reason enough. I don't care who you are, if you hit me I'm going to hit you back. I don't feel that anyone has the right to hit anyone else for no reason.

Wow, that's pretty much what I've been saying all along. But now I'm known as the resident wife-beater. :uhoh:

I would say if she hits him that is reason enough. I don't care who you are, if you hit me I'm going to hit you back. I don't feel that anyone has the right to hit anyone else for no reason.

Think this through, friend (me showing restraint :biggrin:) If a woman hits you you'll hit back...if a child hits you...a teen, maybe 13 hits you. What if the family dog nudges you the wrong way?

One of my proudest memories of my father was the time he took me to see Venice Beach very early one morning on a trip to CA. A woman ran out of a house crying pursued by a man who tackled her into the sand and smacked her across the face. Without a word, my father (an extremely nonviolent individual) walked over and damn near knocked the man's head off. It didnt matter what the circumstances were...

There is no reason to... I have ZERO TOLERANCE for that bullshit.

Thats like all the pedophiles, rapists, sex offenders, all them they
want to satisfy their sexual desires by using women as a tool.

I dont give a rat's ass what reason you had to make you do that.
If i beat your ass to a pulp right now does that make it right to do so??
F*ck no, same shit here.

Some people are just F*CKED up in the head I tell you.

Nothing does. Ever.

- from someone who watched it happen for 10 years and was too small to do anything about it.

Think this through, friend (me showing restraint :biggrin:) If a woman hits you you'll hit back...if a child hits you...a teen, maybe 13 hits you. What if the family dog nudges you the wrong way?





i think its obvious we're talking about girls among our ages and not 10 years younger then you. No adult or teen should hit a child. no man should hit a girl, no girl should hit a man.

What gives a chick the right to hit a guy???


Fucking feminists. And no I wouldn't hit a chick who hit me, thats sinking to her level, I'm more than capable of doing some mint damage, but rade A Pacifist.

:rolleyes: he needs to control his temper:sly: he'll risk losing her:screwy:

Think this through, friend (me showing restraint :biggrin:) If a woman hits you you'll hit back...if a child hits you...a teen, maybe 13 hits you. What if the family dog nudges you the wrong way?

One of my proudest memories of my father was the time he took me to see Venice Beach very early one morning on a trip to CA. A woman ran out of a house crying pursued by a man who tackled her into the sand and smacked her across the face. Without a word, my father (an extremely nonviolent individual) walked over and damn near knocked the man's head off. It didnt matter what the circumstances were...

Don't play stupid. I'm talking about serious hits that cause damage. Just because a small child hits me I'm not going to hit it back. I would explain to them that you shouldn't hit people. An adult should know better. As for the dog comment, grow up. You're the one that should think this through. Let's say I am minding my own business when a woman confronts me. Let's say this woman attacks me. By your logic I should just sit there and let it happen. I don't think so. If that were to happen, like I said, I don't care what sex, race, religion, or creed you are I will put you down if I have to defend myself. I've never hit a woman in my life because things like that just don't happen often. So don't you jump on me and make an assumption on my character.

Also, like Moss said, what gives a woman the right to hit a man? What gives anyone the right to hit anyone for that matter? This brings me to another point. People are looking for equality, but they have these little stipulations like this that keep it segregated. If women want equality then deal with it. I for one don't feel that is possible because we aren't the same and men and women aren't equal. However, if women are going to strive for it then I'll treat you just like anybody else. I'm sorry, I don't give anybody special treatment. I don't dice people up into little groups like that; I just see people as people and don't feel that anyone should be given special treatment because of who they are or where they come from.

This just a sheer example of men having less right then women. You have the right to get your ass kicked and not be able to do anything about it. Your mentality just makes me sick.