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What the heck is going on out there?? I just got on tonight to skim the boards and now see FTOGirl is leaving us? FTO, if you're lurking I hope you still stay around. Maybe the moderators need to put people in check a little more often if they see things getting out of hand....and moderators should be told by us when something is bugging us.

I don't wanna see you go http://forums.off-topic.net/images/smilies/tear.gif

Did I miss something somewhere? FTO, you can hide in here with PrimeraLady! :D

Unless you really want to leave us all alone.... :( In which case, we'll miss you!

Check your PM's FTO...

I've been speaking with FTO for a minute now. I am working on her getting back on here and continuing her contributions to the site. So hopefully she'll come back and respond.

On a side note, and Tangie please don't take offense to this. But girls in AF, if something is getting out of hand or you don't like where something is going, you need to notify a moderator. Tangie can handle situations in here on the Girlie Forum. But if it's outside, I would like to know if something is bothering you or getting out of control. So please, don't let things escalate to the point that it makes you want to leave. An ignorant few should not be the reason to make you quit and go elsewhere. I was and still am one of the biggest proponents to having more female members on here. It would be against my desire to have a good amount of female members here if you decide to leave.

Hopefully FTO will see what I am saying and come back to us. I really liked her personality and really liked joking with her. I would hate to see her stop coming here. Thank you for your time ladies!

DVS
AF Moderator

Thanks DVS.

I can't be everywhere at once, and none of you should be afraid to contact any of the other moderators. I'll always respond to your messages, but if I am not online, I can't help. There are tons of other moderators that I'm sure you have met and all are ready and willing to handle situations that are or can get out of hand.

I certainly hope that none of you ever let any situation get so far out of control that you feel the need to leave. I, for one, am proud of the progress we've made on AF with all of you joining, and I hope that by keeping an extra eye out for one another we can keep this trend going.

~tangie

FTO, if you read this, stay here, even if it's just this forum. This forum, and the others, will have a hole in them if your not around :(

Thanks guys. Don’t worry, I’ll still hang around. I’ve met some really great people on AF and I’d miss you all too much to stay away for too long! Things had just been building for a few days and just one comment yesterday was the straw the broke the camel’s back so to speak, hence my post. Thanks to you all for your PMs and comments they mean a lot.

Don't worry, I’ll be back! :D