distributer problems

i need help in determining the order in which spark plug wire goes into the cap. i have a 99 honda civic 4 cylinder.

Did you replace the or something? You should leave the wires on the old cap until its time to switch or buy a repair manual - www.helminc.com (http://www.helminc.com)
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#1 piston - left side of engine - closest to timing cover
#4 right side - closest to transmission
#2-#3 should be common sense

If you facing the car from the front - 4 - 3 - 2 - 1