help!

every morning i go out to start my car it just turns over forever, and takes for ever to start, and half the time the lights all in the dash just light up like the batt. is dead but then i wait a min and it turns over and then starts........anybody know why the car is doing this and how i can fix it?

Sounds like your main relay to me but wait for someone else to reply to might have more input.

Start with the basics - check all the tune-up parts
Spark Plugs
Plug wires
Distrib., cap, rotor
Fuel Filter

When the car is not starting, do you smell fuel or hear the fuel pump? Main Relay could be going bad

if it is the main relay how much will that cost me to fix? i dunno hardly anything about cars i just kinda go fucked over in buying my car from a family member and now i have to change a whole bunch of stuff....

http://www.hondaautomotiveparts.com/

Main relays are simple to replace : http://www.binghamtonlife.com/manual/2gsm/images/91-11-111.jpg
http://www.binghamtonlife.com/manual/2gsm/images/91-11-112.jpg