Heartbreak?

How do you get over it? How do you get passed the feeling of just wanting to kill youself? All that you can think of is the one that you truely love, but they want nothing to do with you.

Time heals all wounds my friend. Only the passage of time.

get out and have some fun

it takes time for that empty feeling in your chest to disappear. remember that there's 1000000's of other ppl out there.

its in these times that you get to know yourself a little better.



but yeah, go do some drinkin and party! have a good time. you are the most important person in your life..

Time heals all wounds my friend. Only the passage of time.


And alcohol.



























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Just do other stuff to keep yourself distracted dude, you'll forget it all in no time.

sounds like time to call up your buds and hang out with them for a while...friends always get the ex off your mind imo

you'll be better man....you could start to post whore again on AF:p

Ugh. Sorry man. I know how you feel. Don't get too careless with the alcamahol, and they're right, it just takes time. I wish you the best of luck. You can always PM me if you wanna talk aboot it.

Well from a very recent exp. the best way to get over it is to start nailing her friends. That made me feel quite a bit better about the whole situation.

If thats not an option then only time is on your side, and stay away from alcholol. It tends to keep you out of the social mainstream when your setting around drinking yourself stupid all the time.

Well from a very recent exp. the best way to get over it is to start nailing her friends. That made me feel quite a bit better about the whole situation.




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John, that was awesome. thanks.

Kicker - try to focus on hobbies, friends, entertainment...all you've gotta do is get your mind off of it. and start "fishing" again ASAP. nothing fixes heart-break like having it fixed again by a new girl, i know from experience. there's always a small "mourning period" where you feel like a sack of shit and want to die, but just let that natural period pass, don't do anything stupid, and get on living your life.

Know that several other billion people have gone through it and all reply with, it just takes time. There is no easy fix.

everybody here is right. it will take time to heal the pain that you are experiencing. Just spend time with your friends because they will be the ones that get you through this.

Good luck with everything kicker, i know that it isnt any fun.

Kicker - try to focus on hobbies, friends, entertainment...all you've gotta do is get your mind off of it. and start "fishing" again ASAP.
Wish I could, I work 10 hours a day, 5 days a week, makes for a very tired kicker which means that he's always grumpy and not in the mood to see people lol

Wish I could, I work 10 hours a day, 5 days a week, makes for a very tired kicker which means that he's always grumpy and not in the mood to see people lol

you could always try to sleep it off and play lots of videogames in down time if you don't want to be near anybody...stay away from shooting games...you'll end up naming all of the bots after your ex and you'll go on a shooting rampage making you angry and everything..i know about that thing......any good driving/sport/rpg/puzzle game should do

I don't know about you guys, but after getting out of a long term relationship, i feel relieved. I forgot how much fun it was to just hang out with the boys. Get back into the hobbies you used to do when you had free time. Spend time with your family. Just enjoy yourself and don't worry about finding the right girl. She'll come along sooner or later.

nismo4banger is right on

don't fret over women. they are so complicated. you'll spend time trying to figure it out. and you can't. :banghead:

nismo4banger is right on

don't fret over women. they are so complicated. you'll spend time trying to figure it out. and you can't. :banghead:

...and never will. Life is short; live it to the fullest. It's so easy to get down and depressed especially with the approaching holidays. I can say this with experience. I am just so greatful I have my family and friends during this time, and I know eventually that right girl will come along for me. ;)

like oyu bluesO2TA, and i hope have a girlfriend ;o)

I went through that and took the easy way out by smoking pot, you won't be able to think about it very long. I don't recommend this as it leads to heavy eating, loss of memory and it really just puts off the whole getting over it thing. Find a new girl to be infatuated with.

meh, hits from the bong every now and then can be quite beneficial. Those nights that you're driving yourself nuts because of the girl, HIT DA BONG! If you're thinking about calling her and saying something dumb, HIT DA BONG!

nismo4banger is right on

don't fret over women. they are so complicated. you'll spend time trying to figure it out. and you can't. :banghead:


as a woman i do agree you will never understand women as we will never understand men

i know this thread is a month old but im going through the same thing right now and its tough, this has happened before and it took me a good year to get over it, now someone else has broken my lil heart and im stuck i wish someone would just sweep me off my feet because what if it takes another year to get over this person?

and worst of all i was miserable on christmas,my favorite holiday

dude i know what your feeling, and it sucks... But you gotta find other chicks, that's the only way, and the chick is right, men and women will never understand each other.. btw.. your not alone, my christmas sucked ass too. :disappoin

women suck....we are confusing as hell but so are you men at times...

heartbreak happens way too much imo...i just recently got my heart broken again...it sucks. i like being single and all but sometimes all i feel is alone. but i disagree with most people on here...time doesnt heal anything...it is just an excuse to make people feel better...just consider it the wind from one door closing opening another (cheesy...but true)

How's about your wife breaking your heart?

That hurts like a bastard. The person that was supposed to have dedicated her life to you, and then she goes and wants nothing to do with you.

I've seen the "sad and depressed" phase, I've seen the "suicidal" phase, and currently I'm fighting through the "mad as hell" phase. All that keeps me sane right now is the support of my family, and an unwavering look into a positive future.

Good luck, all. God knows it hurts, but we're all still alive, and thus, have life to live.

I don't even know what stage I'm at anymore, but I'm definetly not over it yet. And since i quit smoking teh whacky tabacky, I can't use it as a crutch. "They" say it takes half the time of the relationship to get over the breakup. Well, I'm there and it's not working :(

"They" are full of shit. The good news is, the pain will lessen. The bad news is that it will always be there.

ive said it on another thread...il say it again on this one...

"women, cant live with them...cant live without them"

time may be your only friend for now. like atomis27 said, pain will be lessened but it wont be gone.

percocet. lots and lots of percocet.

Oh time works too. It just takes longer.

Remember, fucking IS democracy in action!

No pun intended.

I went through this in the summer. My solutions was hanging out with friends, a couple 'rebounds', and then getting involved in things that my ex never cared for. It made me feel good to get on with my life, even if there are still the odd tugs at the heart strings.

meh, hits from the bong every now and then can be quite beneficial. Those nights that you're driving yourself nuts because of the girl, HIT DA BONG! If you're thinking about calling her and saying something dumb, HIT DA BONG!
put the blunt down just for a second, dont get me wrong its not a new method

inhale, exahle, just got an ounce in the mail.....

no but seirously....call up ur exes for some fun....

or do what all my friends do, get with some other girl for like a month, and she will be outta yo mind fa sho

hobbies, not necessarily becu u cant concentrate on the hobbies....hobbies with POEPLE, never do anythign ALONE....friends no matter guys or girls, remember that

or do what all my friends do, get with some other girl for like a month, and she will be outta yo mind fa sho

oohh... much easier said than done, my friend. It'll get easier once i get my mechanics uniform. Two grrrls have already told me that those are "adorable".

Hey whatever, I aim to please :D

Yeah, the rebounds are crucial. My recovery pattern:

1)Get heart broken :crying:
2) Find hot girl who's into me :sly:
3) Use hot girl for hot sex :boink:
4) Drop hot girl like a bag of dirt (like ex dropped me) :thefinger
5)Feel like a total douchebag for using hot girl :puke:
6)Treat next girl like gold to attone for it :smooch:
7) Rub a couple out to the girl who dumped me when new girlfriend not around.... :bigthumb:

If you fail to feel better, repeat step 7 as needed...

Yeah.. I just can't do the rebound thing... use a girl and drop her. If i do, i'm no better than all the rest of the college minded fools who are out just for a fuck, or money, not taking into account that, yes, other people have feelings too. If that dooms me to be forced to stay in agony until the next angel graces my presence, so be it. But i'm certainly not going to sink to the level of the ex who tore my heart up so badly.

Yeah.. I just can't do the rebound thing... use a girl and drop her. If i do, i'm no better than all the rest of the college minded fools who are out just for a fuck, or money, not taking into account that, yes, other people have feelings too. If that dooms me to be forced to stay in agony until the next angel graces my presence, so be it. But i'm certainly not going to sink to the level of the ex who tore my heart up so badly.

A-fuckin'-men.

My own divorce may be coming through soon, and I don't know if I'm even going to bother with women for awhile. Shady creatures, they are.

Take consolation in the fact that not all women are treacherous....some are dead.

I don't know bout you all but Ain't nothing like some good New P*SSY!

That always works for me. Go get ya mojo back partner :bananasmi