angel eyes harness

i just got my angel eyes headlights for my 95 civic hatch. the lights came with a wiring harness too and i have no idea what exactly what to hook it up to, i can't really describe it but it has 2 female connectors and 1 male connector. the two females plug into the lights, but where do i hook the other male plug?? i you have any experiance with this stuff please help, thanks