racing clutch and flywheel

I want to get a new racing clutch anf possibly ligtened flywheel, I was looking at clutchmasters? are they good for both? if not what brand? I want something that can eventually handle some more power but it is my first upgrade so should i go stage 2? maybe 3? I want it to be a clutch that is suitable for daily driving not all out racing, but can handle the racig as well, i also don'y want to spend more than say 700-800 altogether and another thing i'll be installing it myself so i want something that can just bolt right up.

by the way it seems like eveyone has lightened flywheels but i read in a magazine that a lighter flywheel on something like a honda or acura isn't good becauase it will make your rpm drop out of the power range to quickly when you shift ,is this true? cuz if it is maybe i should just get the clutch and forget the flywheel?

sorry about all the questions and the long post but i've ben trying to decide for awhile and couldn't find anything in a search so i hope you guys can help.

I heard clutchmasters is good so is XTSS I think thats what the brand is...

XTSS is a stage 3 clutch from ACT, ask koreanxracer about it, hes got one.