Question about girls

Ok here is my question...why the girls(almost all) go out with older guys? its like a cool thing with em or smthing?......where i live it like out of control. I have like 6 girl"friend".....they all started like ok whent out some times and like 2 weeks later they say lets be just friend caz she has a boy and hes like older and sh*t .Why cant they say it before u go out with em..........They should have a warning sign on or something. For a guy here who want a girlfriend need to get a girl atleast 4 years younger....:eek7:
so if ya was 18 like i am...ud have to get a 14 year old :sly: thats like SICK:puke:

anyway what u have to say?:iceslolan

I think girls like older guys cause they are well older and more mature also alotta older guys have cars, and more freedoms then young cats like yourself have man...

Originally posted by TheNotoriousMogg
I think girls like older guys cause they are well older and more mature also alotta older guys have cars, and more freedoms then young cats like yourself have man...

ya that to but why cant they say something about that ...why whant to fuck up the boys life ...they make it look like they are OK with u and then stab u in the back....i had it yesterday we had been going out for 2 and a half week and where at a festival and at amm i think it was 2am where driving home and then she stabd me ...at first she dident know how to tell this to me but then i said it my self cas a tought so ......told i know the drill ...bla bla :bigthumb:

Something that I notice when I talk to youths today for sure- it is odd how girls go for older guys though- maybe they can provide more than one thier own age (skanks indeed) or they just are that mature (rare)

its cuz, GENERALLY girls mature faster then guys.

older guys have more life experience, an most of the time know more about how a girl feels. its all jus depending on the girl/guy set-up tho.

if u add to this the fact that girls want security in a relationship, most older guys have a better job, car an also u've got to remember that for the MOST part, 18 year olds are bigger then a 14 year old, so they'd feel safer w/ them.

plus...older guys usually have more game then the younger ones (jus comes from experience)

an them some are jus rebels who do it to be badass...don't ever try to figure out women, u'll ruin ur life doing it.

i saw this book at urban outfitters, it's title is "What Men Have Learned About Women"

the book is 100 blank white pages...

jus keep ur head up buddy, an gain some confidence in urself

Originally posted by KrNxRaCer00
its cuz, GENERALLY girls mature faster then guys.



i found that to be utter bullshit....now i would never even think of dating a girl more that 2 years younger than me....


and btw you know how you spot if a girl is mature.....if she does not try to act all mature.....

Originally posted by Neutrino



i found that to be utter bullshit....now i would never even think of dating a girl more that 2 years younger than me....


and btw you know how you spot if a girl is mature.....if she does not try to act all mature.....

very tru.

im not saying ALL, jus for the most part.

its simply one of the reason's i've "heard" why girls tend to go for older guys.

women are evil thats all i know :thefinger

i think it was mentioned, to paraphrase it. Women want men not "boys". At least we know what we want out of life and have set a direction we wish to achieve.

Other than stuff if I know.

Define mature and maturity.

Originally posted by Oz
Define mature and maturity.


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You asked for it. :loser: But really, I almost always end up dating guys that are a year or more older than me. It just happens. It's a lot easier for people to not worry so much about age once High School is over. You go to college and meet people in all the classes instead of just your own. Right now I'm dating a guy that's about 2.5 years older than me. I've dated guys 2.5 years YOUNGER than me (don't ask). I've dated guys that are MORE than 2.5 years older than me. I don't really gauge by chronological age. I know 16 y/olds who have been through more than many have in 30 years. I guess I'm just an odd one yet again. :p

ud have to get a 14 year old thats like SICK

You should check out www.kaci.org. She's only 14, but yeah it's still sick.

Originally posted by Oz
Define mature and maturity.
Mature (My definition):Acting in a way that conveys self-awareness of the impact of one's actions.
Mature (Dictionary definition): Having reached full natural growth or development.

I would offer that a person who posts a picture of boobs on their profile would fit under the "immature" category. However, I would also offer that maturity is not the substance found in an individual's skin-deep personality, rather that it lies deep within the depths of the mind.

just like many of the people have already said girls go for older guys cuz they are mature...there are exceptions and besides if a girl doesn't want to be with you than it was never meant to be and you would have saved yourselves a lot of heartbreak...

Mature? hmmm and i am Elvis:biggrin:
Maybe yes ....could be it.
But ya NSX-R-SSJ20K they are evil:biggrin:
But anyway 2 days work on my projects and ill have the ideas of killing some people out of my head:bigthumb:.....but ya still its a wierd world we live in:screwy:
and like adding 1kg of makeup is very mature:silly:

Originally posted by Neutrino
i found that to be utter bullshitYou don't happen to have the number to the honor code office do you?:thefinger

for all the other guys... it's a vicious cycle, because the girls that we want are with a guy that's a year older, we have to be with the year younger... and so on

c'mon people!!! seriously, why even bother trying to figure this one out. if there was a formula for dating we wouldn't all fail so much. besides, part of the question is "why do girls..." and being guys, we'll never know.

oh well... just my :2cents:

Originally posted by snowboarder
You don't happen to have the number to the honor code office do you?:thefinger


why you want to turn yourself in?:slap:




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Lol, I've been doing the opposite hey. Most of the girls I enjoy hanging with are all older than me, I'm the one chasing maturity, and the bad thing about saying that is I can see Oz laughing his butt off at that, he he... And uh, CrxyAndRiced, is Gem older than me too?? :confused:

older chicks... after a certain age is bad, but for now some are good, same with younger chicks, but some guy don't want to date a younger chick, they are still younger, they act like they are that age. I have hard enough trouble hanging out with guys that are a year younger, cause they act that way. (agreeing with some people) I don't see why girls don't look for guys their age first that are mature. I'd say a lot of the guys older are just desperate.

i'm only with older women (mid 20s) cause thats the age of college chicks i'm much happier with them then with girls my age. but yea after a point it be nasty.

Originally posted by slave
Lol, I've been doing the opposite hey. Most of the girls I enjoy hanging with are all older than me, I'm the one chasing maturity, and the bad thing about saying that is I can see Oz laughing his butt off at that, he he... And uh, CrxyAndRiced, is Gem older than me too?? :confused:

:lol2::lol2::lol2::lol2::lol2:
Yeah. Well, I guess you take what you can get Gav.

Whats wrong with 14 year olds? :tongue:

I know its slightly off topic, but here is my advice.

Forget about women. Set some life goals instead, and work towards them. You will find the right girl when you least expect it.

Yes... girls = devil

Originally posted by NSX-R-SSJ20K
women are evil thats all i know :thefinger

yes yes we are all evil!!! :devil: hehe

To be honest with everyone, I couldn't even tell you why chicks go for older guys but I do tend to think that its got something to do with the fact that older guys have got the car, got money, got some sort of stability in their lives and have grown out of (well some anyway) "Im man, therefore I God" attitude :tongue:

But just to set the record straight, I am an exception... my baby is 20 and I am 22... and yes I have already heard the craddle-snatcher jokes so save them... :biggrin:

From where I sit though, age shouldn't be analysed and concerned with half as much as it is... if two people love each other, are happy together and it feels right for them, why should age matter?? I do agree that some age differences can be a dodgy but its really all a matter of personal choice and satisfaction.

Its too much about trends and old ways these days, like people feel they have to conform to what is believed to be "right and wrong"... whats right is being happy in a relationship.. whats wrong is looking at the material things about a person and choosing them based on that alone...

Slave, Gem is younger than me and I am younger than you so you can do the maths on that one :biggrin2: hehe

WTF... 2 years isnt cradle robbing.

And girls go for older guys, because girls mature faster then guys.

An 18 year old male is only as mature as a 14 year old girl...

Originally posted by sparq
WTF... 2 years isnt cradle robbing.

And girls go for older guys, because girls mature faster then guys.

An 18 year old male is only as mature as a 14 year old girl...

I'd have to say, that is only true in most cases, there are plenty of exceptions though.

Lol, cool. I guess its just my choices that have been bad b4. ie- my ex = immature freak. Gem just seems really well put together you know. Mind you Im used to "younger" being like trudi etc, and thats not an age thing.

But back to the thread, 14 yr olds are fine, as long as you have two, that way they add up and make one 28 yr old!!!:icon16:

one thing I have noticed, depending on the age of the female that is in question, most females are looking for one main thing.... stability. No women wants to be with a guy, who is young, impulsive, childish, immature, and irresponsible. An older guy, most of the time, has already gotten the fun and games out of there systems for the most part, and have settled into some sort of life pattern. They typically have a steady job, a well paying one at that, might own, or be close to owning their own car. This shows some degree of stability, hard work, and responsibility. but.... this is just my observations, and 2 cents

:twak:

good call
one to cook
one to clean:tongue:

Originally posted by slave
Lol, cool. I guess its just my choices that have been bad b4. ie- my ex = immature freak. Gem just seems really well put together you know. Mind you Im used to "younger" being like trudi etc, and thats not an age thing.

But back to the thread, 14 yr olds are fine, as long as you have two, that way they add up and make one 28 yr old!!!:icon16:

What about 2 17 year olds? Olsen Twins, lol

i got a week and a half and there still legal they better call me back lol

Originally posted by SniperX13
one thing I have noticed, depending on the age of the female that is in question, most females are looking for one main thing.... stability. No women wants to be with a guy, who is young, impulsive, childish, immature, and irresponsible. An older guy, most of the time, has already gotten the fun and games out of there systems for the most part, and have settled into some sort of life pattern. They typically have a steady job, a well paying one at that, might own, or be close to owning their own car. This shows some degree of stability, hard work, and responsibility. but.... this is just my observations, and 2 cents

:twak:

Hearing you on that. I've had a conversation about this stuff with a 36 yr old back home once. She tried hitting on me at first, then we just got talking, she said she thought I was cute but mainly it was the fact I was air force and had more pride in my job than my car or my looks etc, and that I was "mature" so it wasnt an age thing, but a maturity/stability thing.

Mind you, I'd just come back from op's with work, of course I was gonna talk about that more than anything else, lol.

girls like older guys cause i got lots a money and becuase they're more mature their parents probably won't mind them goin on a date. Or you could do what i do. i'm only 15 but i have a job and parents like a kid that works so do the girls. The best thing to do is get a v6 stang the insurance is affordable and girls like em. Only prob is the shit you get from guys who get pissed cause their girls like u. :biggrin: :biggrin:

Originally posted by fordmustang23
girls like older guys cause i got lots a money and becuase they're more mature their parents probably won't mind them goin on a date. Or you could do what i do. i'm only 15 but i have a job and parents like a kid that works so do the girls. The best thing to do is get a v6 stang the insurance is affordable and girls like em. Only prob is the shit you get from guys who get pissed cause their girls like u. :biggrin: :biggrin:

:rolleyes: From what you've written, you'd most likely disagree with my "Car Sluts" post. Can you get any more objective?

Originally posted by fordmustang23
girls like older guys cause i got lots a money and becuase they're more mature their parents probably won't mind them goin on a date. Or you could do what i do. i'm only 15 but i have a job and parents like a kid that works so do the girls. The best thing to do is get a v6 stang the insurance is affordable and girls like em. Only prob is the shit you get from guys who get pissed cause their girls like u. :biggrin: :biggrin:

If I were a chick- a V6 Mustang would make me wet my pants laughing I'm afraid- hence any chick attracted to one is a car-slut

I don't understand women so won't even attempt to try and answer that one.


Let me know when ya find out the answer

Originally posted by fordmustang23
girls like older guys cause i got lots a money and becuase they're more mature their parents probably won't mind them goin on a date. Or you could do what i do. i'm only 15 but i have a job and parents like a kid that works so do the girls. The best thing to do is get a v6 stang the insurance is affordable and girls like em. Only prob is the shit you get from guys who get pissed cause their girls like u. :biggrin: :biggrin:
I'm willing to bet that girls are also attracted to guys who can spell. And it might help if you didn't offer that quote on your profile about ricers to a girl you're interested in.

Originally posted by Neutrino
why you want to turn yourself in?:slap:

:icon16: Dam.....errr Darn you!

Originally posted by Haibane


What about 2 17 year olds? Olsen Twins, lol

colective maturity age of about 12

Forget about women. Set some life goals instead, and work towards them. You will find the right girl when you least expect it. YES!

:iagree: so many people (including myself) f-up and never go to college or go late. it i could go back to when i was your age i woulg work part time and stack up money till i graduated and went str8 to college. doing drugs, driving fast and lilling people i would avoid and would have staded in my car in the beggining of my senior year and bought a crb and went str8 to college.why i say this? well while other people are fucking up during the school year you will be stacking. dont do ?!? well if you do stupid stuff like above mentioned it always has a negative affect on the majority. and why a bike (cbr). chicks dig em... any way, go work at a public place like the biggest food store were they can see you after school. when they see you in you senior year in your new car they will be like "i remember seeing him" and "he was actually SAVING all that money he made?" and they will respect you. dont try to be freinds with all them gurls, make them try to be freinds with you. IF you take this advise it will all pay off when you graduate. but look who's talkin, a 21 year old G.E.D. loser with a 2 year old buy and all i got to show for is a civic and a huge wardrobe.

and NO college i might add. trust me kid, its a hard life when you get to f-ed up on substances (rather it be drugs OR gurls)

i f-ed up

i didn't get enough points to go to college (not university) in england so i had to take my GCSE's again (waste of one year) then i did 2 years in the US and i am now taking another year to do a foundation year because my US high school diploma accounts for shit all.

2 years but thats not anything lengthy or special.

man did i f-up. i got my G.E.D a year before my class graduated (class of 2000) and my SAT's were 1250 i could have went to any college in s.c. BUT, instead i decided to take a year off which turned into two (partying and all that shit)and when i was 19 i enrolled in a tech. got real good grades but faid 2 outa five classes (the t-th classes) with a 0.0 cause i missed too many days. then i go and waste another two years (after my son was born) selling everything from a to z. after the cops got so hot on me and my team and arested 4 of us for one measly Q-P (when one of us delt to this snitch ass crackhead who was trying to get off one of his charges)and charged us all with distributing or conspiracy to distribute weed. i stoped going out my house (mainly i think from the psycological affects of the 4 rolls i ate, that i was gonna do with my hunny that night).i kept doing the same shit outta my peeps house and my dad eventually kicked me out cause all the people coming and leaving.got a apartment, had a nervous breakdown cause i was so hot and finally moved up here to my aunt and uncle. they've been a big help cause my uncle is a Pastor and he has like 2 phd's and 4 masters in psycology. ive been a HEAVY,EVERYday weed smoker sence i was 17 (which was good cause i never got to bad on anything else) and he helped me break my habit. now im just waiting for my hair to clean up cause i got a job @ bmw manufactury waiting on me. ill move back to s.c. and work full time and go to school partime.

Originally posted by TheNotoriousMogg
I think girls like older guys cause they are well older and more mature also alotta older guys have cars, and more freedoms then young cats like yourself have man... werd.

Originally posted by Deadboy
Ok here is my question...why the girls(almost all) go out with older guys? its like a cool thing with em or smthing?......where i live it like out of control. I have like 6 girl"friend".....they all started like ok whent out some times and like 2 weeks later they say lets be just friend caz she has a boy and hes like older and sh*t .Why cant they say it before u go out with em..........They should have a warning sign on or something. For a guy here who want a girlfriend need to get a girl atleast 4 years younger....:eek7:
so if ya was 18 like i am...ud have to get a 14 year old :sly: thats like SICK:puke:

anyway what u have to say?:iceslolan

Well, I didn't bother to read the 4 pages of replies, so maybe someone also covered this, but the most effortless solution to this problem is to simply grow older... :bigthumb:

But not too old...

Originally posted by tazdev
I don't understand women so won't even attempt to try and answer that one.


Let me know when ya find out the answer :werd: Taz is a wise man!!:sunglasse :sunglasse

GIRLS like $$$$$$$!!! END OF STORY! THE MORE U GOT THE MORE GIRLS YA GOT! SO WIN THOSE RACES AND GET LOST OF $$$$$ AND THEN U GET LOTS OF GIRLS!!!! THEY GO FOR OLDER GUYS BECAUSE THEY TEND TO HAVE BETTER CARS THAT WIN MORE RACES THAT GETS MORE MONEY!!!! OR THATS WAT I THINK! :biggrin2:

its like that equation :iceslolan

lol:iagree: :iagree:

Originally posted by NSX-R-SSJ20K
its like that equation :iceslolan
:repost: :dupe:

thats why i said its like that equation :loser: its a reference not a new fresh piece of evidence

That's a nice equation you have working there. :iceslolan

Originally posted by Chlatboy
GIRLS like $$$$$$$!!! END OF STORY! THE MORE U GOT THE MORE GIRLS YA GOT! SO WIN THOSE RACES AND GET LOST OF $$$$$ AND THEN U GET LOTS OF GIRLS!!!! THEY GO FOR OLDER GUYS BECAUSE THEY TEND TO HAVE BETTER CARS THAT WIN MORE RACES THAT GETS MORE MONEY!!!! OR THATS WAT I THINK! :biggrin2:

In an effort to keep this nice, I think you're a wanker. I can disprove you, but thats my business. You should already know you're talking through your arse. :rolleyes:

:iagree: girls like money yea. but that don't mean fall for them and spend it on em. come on man, you are worthless if you get your gurls by spending money. and i know you are going to try to say that 'i didnt say you had to spend it on em' but we all know what kinda dude you are. I think that yea mabey you can draw them in with expensive stuff which you had bought YOURSELF but tell em str8 up that they dont get nada. i like to think of MY money and MY gurls like that little cartoon of the boy sitting on the back of a turtle. he has a stick with a sting tied to one end and on the other end of the string he has a carrot tied to it. the turtle carries him trying to get the carrot he will never get. can i get an amen?

AMEN BROTHA!!!