Lots of bad things going on..

As some of you have read in my other posts, I have been moving. Well I was suppose to have been moving from one house to another house with my BF of 7.5 years (9yrs total as friends)but unfortunately there was a major change in plans. Put it like this, I am back home with mom's. He has major, major issues. He is very controlling and loves to piss me off. This has been very hard to deal with. To make matters worse, RedmanJD was sending me a head, because my BF was building a B18 for me, and the block, manifolds, pistons and rods, etc got stolen from the shop. He got another block, pistons, rods, etc and my head has arrived (thanks RedmanJD) but now he's using it against me.

While together we invested in many, many cars, So the Prelude is one that was in his name solely, but I paid for the car. He tries to take that from me and will not sign over the title. All of this because he can't keep it real. All because he keeps messing up and he knows I put alot of time any money into that car. So he uses it to keep us together. Mind you now, I let him have all of the other cars because I am sick of fighting over it. He has the 280Z, F-150 on dubbs, VW Bug, BMW, my Motorcycle (in my name and I paid for it as a gift for him) and my dirtbike also. Only thing I asked him to do is give me the title to my lude and get my civic running.

He has people watching me, literally. He feels that I should sit at home and pay half of the bills while he cheats and does whatever. Since I layed down some rules before I was moving into the new house (they were reasonable), he decided that we needed time apart because I wasn't having the cheating, lies, and stuff more and he knew that I was serious about it. He wants the kind of time where we are still together, but not living together. It's crazy and I am just miserable and don't know what to do.

Sorry so long, but I really had to vent.:frown:

if theres no trust in a relationship then why even have one...ya know what im sayin

Thats exactly how I feel but HE won't let go of me.

Originally posted by T-Mo
Thats exactly how I feel but HE won't let go of me.

get him killed

no that sucks, i hope everything works out right and if i were you beat his ass and take all your shit back

sorry to hear about that sweetie, really sucks, hope everything works out for you

Originally posted by 96Hatch


get him killed

no that sucks, i hope everything works out right and if i were you beat his ass and take all your shit back


yeh, j.lo style, "enough".:biggrin2:

Originally posted by 96Hatch


get him killed

no that sucks, i hope everything works out right and if i were you beat his ass and take all your shit back

I agree .... hes being a bitch about this and has 4 cars and is trying to jack your lude .. that aint right.

i know this sucks and all, but if you give anyone something as a gift, its theirs regardless if you paid for it or not, soon as the judge asks you if you gave this to him at one point willingly and said it was his, its his.

she wasnt complaing about the motorcycle ... just the lude and the 4th gen.

JERRY JERRY JERRY!!!!!

Originally posted by VelocityCivic91
JERRY JERRY JERRY!!!!!
:headshake

Originally posted by VelocityCivic91
JERRY JERRY JERRY!!!!!


jerry is for hoes, hicks, and tranvesites

and this fine young lady aint any of those so she doesnt need to be on jerry

I would treaten to take his ass to court for Palimony support payments.

I don't know if it's the same where you live as here, but here if you live together for more than 6 months you are considered a couple, your partner has access to your benefits (if you have some like medical/dental) and could also be claimed as dependents (if need be) now as "common law" if you split up you Theoredicaly have the right to 50% of all items obtained while the relationship AND can get palimony payments (if he makes more money than you, this is to enure the life style you have become accustom to, however if you make more don't bring this up.)

Soo in theory, saying all 8 vehicules were obtained during the relationship, you would be able to take 3 cars and 1 bike, along with 50% of all items gathered during the relationship.

I would contact an atorney for more details.

Cus If he were faced with the option of losing 2 cars OR 3 cars and a bike... what do you think he would pick ?

check on you local laws on "common law mariages" i'm prety sure every states has it but the time is different.

K

Originally posted by Kunundrum
check on you local laws on "common law mariages" i'm prety sure every states has it but the time is different.

K

As of January 1, 1997 common law marriages are not considered a marriage in the state of georgia ... I think she might be SOL

http://www.fultoncourt.org/family/publications/clmarriage.html

yeah, i just broke up with my girl... i've been pretty drunk since...

ARE COMMON LAW MARRIAGES LEGAL IN GEORGIA?

If the common law marriage was established in Georgia before January 1, 1997 or was legally established in a state that still recognizes common law marriages then it is a legal marriage. (O.C.G.A. §19-3-1.1)

97 + 7.5 = 2004.5

relationship would have been established in 96 it would apply !

Originally posted by DarkImportGrey
yeah, i just broke up with my girl... i've been pretty drunk since...

way to be!

cheers :sunglasse

Originally posted by Melt


way to be!

cheers :sunglasse


it's all good melt...you don't have to front and pretend to be drinking when we all know the cap was still on....you don't have to lie to kick it :thefinger :evillol:

Originally posted by LadyNRedSi



it's all good melt...you don't have to front and pretend to be drinking when we all know the cap was still on....you don't have to lie to kick it :thefinger :evillol:

nah ami it was rootbeer

cap aint on

isnt root beer either ... ill go take a pic of the case and better pics of the beer bottle with beer still in it if necessary

Originally posted by Melt
cap aint on

isnt root beer either ... ill go take a pic of the case and better pics of the beer bottle with beer still in it if necessary

uh-oh...better drink it quick and then hide it at the bottom of the trash barrell outside before mom & dad get home. :greddy2:

Originally posted by LadyNRedSi
uh-oh...better drink it quick and then hide it at the bottom of the trash barrell outside before mom & dad get home. :greddy2:

usually what I do ... or put the bottle behind my computer ... heres the rest of the pics.

http://files.automotiveforums.com/uploads/245364DSC00001.JPG

http://files.automotiveforums.com/uploads/832237DSC00002.JPG

http://files.automotiveforums.com/uploads/722136DSC00003.JPG

http://files.automotiveforums.com/uploads/425373DSC00004.JPG

http://files.automotiveforums.com/uploads/848430DSC00005.JPG

now please ... stop starting shit with me at every oppurtunity and get over the past :bigthumb:

T-mo ... sorry about your thread getting a bit sidetracked

Originally posted by Melt


now please ... stop starting shit with me at every oppurtunity and get over the past :bigthumb:

T-mo ... sorry about your thread getting a bit sidetracked

what does you saying stupid stuff have to do with the past? bragging about under age drinking over the net...real bright :loser:

if you wouldn't have posted the gh3y pic of yourself...this wouldn't have been side tracked...now would it?

WAIT WAIT WAIT... you guys need SWITCHBLADES before you fight... makes it much more interesting...

[and no this is not post whoring, this is conflict moderation]

Originally posted by LadyNRedSi
what does you saying stupid stuff have to do with the past? bragging about under age drinking over the net...real bright :loser:

you win .. that was stupid ... but if im gonna get called out on something im gonna prove I aint lying.

Originally posted by soulkeeper
i know this sucks and all, but if you give anyone something as a gift, its theirs regardless if you paid for it or not, soon as the judge asks you if you gave this to him at one point willingly and said it was his, its his.

Same thing with my Lude. He only got it in his name because my credit wouldn't allow me to get anymore cars. At that time I had 2 cars and the motorcycle in my name. So I paid for the Lude and all the cars that were in my name are gone now.

Originally posted by Melt


As of January 1, 1997 common law marriages are not considered a marriage in the state of georgia ... I think she might be SOL

http://www.fultoncourt.org/family/publications/clmarriage.html

Thanks for that info, it says if it was established before 1997, then its still legal. We got together in '94. I am going to look into it.
I said 7.5 years because we spent a year and a half living as housemates and a baby that's supposedly his came about. But that is some other drama for the story. I gotta go to court on Wed. for the light bull$hit. I gotta work a double tomorrow. I gotta make 12 CD's tonight......I'LL BE BACK, I GOTTA GO TO THE LIQUOR STORE REAL QUICK.:swear: :disappoin :crying:

be sure to pick up some old e or steel reserve :bigthumb:

I don't drink beer, let alone cheap beer. I am about to get some Hennessey(sp.) and some Malibu & pineapple juice.

I am a bartender and I am not sure about the spelling:screwy:

I forgot about you bein a bartender .... they dont serve malt liquor at the bars do they? :icon16: