Guy Needing Girls Advice

hey girls a little advice needed!

Ok My name is jesse i am 15 im a male i have the looks i have the body i have the whole outfit thing going on but what im curious about is how do i go about tlakin to girls at the mall or at the movies or something like im really shy so i just pause and freeze what should i do or say?

No pick-up lines... Lines are lame. Just strike up a common convo. If you're waiting in line at a food place and the service is really slow, start making humorous commentary. See if she smiles or if she's annoyed. Having something common to comment on/bitch about is a really easy way to start a convo.

umm...i thought this was called "Automotive Forums"?? must be in the wrong place...:dunno: :banghead:

i guess you are!lol:biggrin2:

ok whatever you say....:spit:

Originally posted by B16_madwoman
umm...i thought this was called "Automotive Forums"?? must be in the wrong place...:dunno: :banghead:

No, this one is called "Guy needing girls advice" :icon16:

Seriously, I talk cars and bikes ALL DAY LONG. I think I can span my brain into other genres every now and again without worrying about breakdown. ;)

Sorry just one of the things that bugs me, and i said somethin... i wont say anything more though....didnt mean to make anybody mad..goodluck with the girls..:smile:

Originally posted by saturntangerine


No, this one is called "Guy needing girls advice" :icon16:

Seriously, I talk cars and bikes ALL DAY LONG. I think I can span my brain into other genres every now and again without worrying about breakdown. ;)


0wN3d!

Everyone knows that cars are better than chicks. That's why we get cars first and chicks second.

I'm gonna be bluntly honest with you, Jesse... you come off as arrogant.

Yeah...I was gonna say you seemed kind of arrogant. Guys with a good build and a nice face are a dime a dozen man. Live with your mother for a while and you'll know what to say. I'm not good looking at all, but I listen to what's really going on( I can't stress that enough). That's what gets the first date, even if you are a jealous/violent ass like myself.

If you look in the mirror you are only going to see yourself through your own perception. You don't see what other people see. Everyone from birth was entitled to their own view of what IS and what ISN'T.

In the future...stick with automotiveforums.com...it is sweet!!

P.S. I haven't been with a chick for almost a year now. I don't really feel any different.

dude check this out, if you like a gurl and you know some people that know her it would be better to hand out with them around her... then get her by her self and "show another side of yourself". keep her wanting more by being mysterious. make her laugh... and that isn't as easily done as said. you gotta fing out what kind off gurl she is to know how to make her laugh. exe, some gurls like a sacastic guy and some dont and some like a different mix at different times. if you are trying to "brake the ice" DO NOT ask her questions that she can answer yes or no. like..... do you want to go to a club, instead ask her if she likes to go to a club. do this not cause you dont want to not have something in common like if she didn't but instead cause you want her to answer and it could lead to other stuff. (by the way ,dont brake the ice with this line ,breaking the ice is too tricky to explain) . B-T-I is a gamble if you don't know them and vis-versa. if you know them then find out something they dig and handle it. change the subject( or really allow her to). dude remeber though to not ask yes/no questions when talking even the first time, you put her on the deffense.another technic is asumative questions like,(after you B-T-I) "you like the mall, you must like shopping" and (if you as good looking as you think you are) they have an option to say many different thing like "i do like the mall,i do like shopping, i like the mall and like shopping",and severel other things. this is goo cause you give her a choice what to say. a good way to B-T-I is like that gurl said, wait till you too just happen to be around and do it.find something to complain about. if you feel that you wont have a good oppertunity to do it again then go all out after you to start talkin. ask nonyes or no questions.if you do all this and get a number then wait to call her at least a couple of days but no more than a year. man im soory im tired of typing. i would give you more advise but the game is to be sold not to be told. you got some good ass hints to figure out the rest trial and error. but as soon as you get em interested remember to be mysterious and don't be scared of anything. gurl don't get mad or P-H on me and dude whatever they say, this works for me everytime. oh yeah, you dont need to be scared to do it. they like a smooth talker and you will only be smooth by PRACTICE. so go and dont holla at a gurl that just seen you halla at another one.not good. most of it is common sence. like don't seem desperate. peace. :pimp:

oh yeah, there is a different from confidence and arrogance, that gurl had no reason assuming stuff cause assumtions are a watse of time. BUT you know what you are so watch out about that. if you are arrogant just don't compliment yourself to gurls so they can't tell cause they all hate that (unless they have abousolute no self esteem them selves) i personally HATE it in a gurl.

Straight Jackin' will save you mad greens man!

STR8 JACKIN?!? wtf you mean dude... idunno but you a sic individual.

mast@#$% will save you cash. Is what I mean.

ooooooooooooooo...k.. i guess some can go that route or go the most popular one (which you don't like). Mabey you should look in to the other, don't pay spend on them but have them pay you. That is the one way I can live with.don't even have to jack or mast or whatever else comes with the money saving types. :pimp:

If you know any chicks that pay for a lot of stuff. Send them my way...lol.

ohh man. all chicks are paid, and they seem cheap to dudes like you, to (i guess) just spend it on dudes like me.it's just like lays; get your own bag. .... gurls i mess with not only pay for themselves but they cover me and STILL give me money. btw, just cause this happens and i voice it out dosent mean i'm bragging or i'm stuck up. i just know that most of the dudes out there get pimped and waste there money (unless they hittin the head, beating the chicken, slapping solamies,or what ever you wanna call it) . if you get a girl by spending money or ever do it after you meet them of coarse they gonna expect it. love at first site is true. it could be for you, you then your money,your money then you, or just your money. I make em love me and never break em off a dime even if they are a dime.

I usually have to fight tooth and claw to get to pay for things. I usually win on some smaller things, at least. Like I'll be allowed to leave tip at dinner, or I will pay for rental movies or something like that. I earn a lil bit of money, so why should he spend all his money on me?

uh ohh norsk... there a good one right there. even though she isn't exactly what im talking about, alot of guy would kill for a gurl who isn't a lazy mooch and will get off her arse and make a little money for herself. and breaking bread too? good. let me tell you a little story what kinda gurls i mess with and why. when i was in 6th grade, i got my heart broke by my first love :frown: , she f-ed like 4 of my close freinds and 2 other i knew, and only god know who else. it totally mess up my self confidence for a long time and i never trusted a gurl untill recently (7 years later) and even now i ccan't trust them in a relationship so i avoid them (avoid relationships not gurls) so all through middle school and high i just had relationships and cheated (bad idea cause after you play like 10 gurls or so word gets around in school and they won't even think of messing with you).n-e-way after i got out of DJJ (i was 17) i str8 up told all the gurls i met that i didn't want a relationship/just wanted to be freinds/just want to hang out. so incase you don't know there are no such things as guy and gurl JUST being freinds. we either drift apart or get REALLY close... well, basically that leaves them room to go meet other guys who buy em thing and give em money and they turn around and buy me things or give me str8 cash. im loving it.i moved from s.c. to d.c. (for the summer) and some of them insist on sending me $. see, it works the same for use and them, if you first talk to them or hang out with them and can get 5-10 dollors then they stuck with doing that to keep you. and they most of them know about each other and they cool with it just as long as i spread the love. n-e-way, don't take the easy way out and pay for shit, they will start expecting it more and more. and you don't have to stay in you parents house every night shaking it practically down to the ground. just get comfotable talking to complete strangers (gurls), just try striking normal conversation, dont ask 21 questions,and dont ask them yes/no questions. dont ask them out untill you know you got the hang of it. tip: when you ask them out, don't get all pumped up and go talk to them cheesing;keep a str8 face. man why do i feel like im on love line? :biggrin:

CRAP! Why worry about pickin up girls when you should be worrying about havin fun! I mean jsut be urself! ITs that easy! If she doesnt like ya who cares! SOmeone else will! Ders no point in being someone you are not just to have someone like ya! O ya one more thing! Try being a friend before anythin else! I mean it gives you time to see if shes ur type!

that how i was in 6-7 grade but it got old. everyone else had a whole bunch or gurlfreinds and i was missing out cause i never showed em any attention. But, you are right, you got to be yourself... but him being shy and working to change that isnt change his true self, its just maturing him faster. making him a man. young buck, big dog, ready for the hunnys type cat? :biggrin: i think being shy is a waste of life.

Its good u see that! Now go out there and have fun! NO rush to find a girl! U can have plenty of friends that are girls and have fun with them! Anyway u look at it, you just wanna have fun!

no no no...this thread isn't about me. I was just stating that you will save a lot more money without a woman...It's not my personal feeling on the matter. It's just a proven fact.

ok, i see. but what im sying is that you can still pull gurls and not waste money if you know how that is.

First of all, this iz an autoforum. If you want to ask personal questions go look at teeny bopper websites.

secondofall... if you dont like nonautothreads then read the thread title before... im mean whatever beeeeeeeeeeeeeotch. :thefinger: