96 Grand Cherokee ECM Connector (Common Issue)

After months of dealing with engine shuts off while warming up, i found that one of the ECM connector is not good and is not locking right into the socket due that one of two plastic locks is missing.
This is a common issue with jeeps and since the cables and harness looks like new, i need to find the way to replace just the connector.
I called my local Jeep Dealer and seems like they don't sell the connector itself.
Any idea? ..... 1996 Jeep Grand Cherokee Laredo 4x2 / 4.0L / 140.000 miles
Thanks.

Try this. I think you need the 32pin listed on the right side.
http://starparts.chrysler.com/starlibrary/marketing/conkits/index.htm
It is not listed in the manual tha I could see.