93 ford f 150 tranny conversion

we have a 93 ford f150 with 5.0 we have gone through several auto matic trannys so we decided to switch over to a manual....yes you can say a nightmare!! everything was going really good, almost everything bolts uo except 3 things 3 really important things ready for this.....the front, the rear drive lines and yes you guessed it the cross member it is all approxamatly 8 inches forward from where it was origanally.

got any ideas?