i'm sorry I'm picky.

I want a sporty luxury coupe or sedan.
i don't want to be either extremely sporty or extremely luxury.
but i want both a little bit.

I like driving with manual shift, but i also can live without it.
I want great handling, especially on conering!!
Is there some great car with handsome look like these?
I'm looking for $30,000 car.

in my mind,

2002 Audi A4
2002 Acura CL-S with Navigation
2002 Maxima SE manual
2002 Benz C-class Sport Coupe or C240

or do you have any suggestion?

Get an M3. You have a little of both in that.

Could you pull off say a 2001 Audi S4? They don't call it the "Silken Rocket" for nothing. Otherwise the M3 would be awesome.

acura 3.2 tl or cl type s
audi is a good choice
or just kick it with an m3

Um, the M3 is a smidgen over 30K.

The CL now has a 6-speed, but is front wheel drive. If you can live with that, its probably the best deal of the bunch. A 3-series would be nice, but similarily equipped, it is 38K, compared to 30K for the CL Type S. But check the 3 series out.
Audi's are good too, but the S4 could be pricey.

The Maxima is pretty good itself, and shouldn't be overlooked, but I dont think it could compare to a CL Type S.

The baby Benz isn't to good, IMO. I see it as being very expensive once you get some options in it. And kinda under-powered for the cheap (sic) models, and not too great on handling, unless its AMG-ified, but then its mega-bucks.

Also look at the IS300. You might need different tires for the snow or luxury, but otherwise its great too.

The Cadillac CTS is also a great choice, kinda low on power, but great almost everywhere else (some interior stuff is a bit low-rent, like the turn-signal stalks)

And don't overlook the Chrysler LHS, its ok too.

acura 3.2 tl type s
or cl type s, you know you want one man ..