I forgot to mention the following:
IAC motor, tps sensor, and throttle body where changed. I was lucky to have another 1998 Tahoe to interchange and test some parts. The good starter kept on starting good after the parts of the bad starter (IAC motor, TPS sensor....) where mounted. The bad starter still started bad .....
So now I know the TPS is acting as expected (slightly high voltage with throttle closed as described earlier..) WOT voltage is also in the range (about 4.75 V), the IAC motor, the passage in the throttle body is clean and working correct......
Ok that's all for now....what can I do????