I lucked out this time Kat, i was kicked off of mIRC, it kept telling me it had detected subseven on my computer. Apparently this guy kept trying to upload it to others.
Other symptoms of spyware would be, mouse moving on its own, mysterious deleting or appareing files, a sudden high rate of virii on your computer (if the spyware is user controllled, they can upload you even MORE virii, how joyful

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