yes the solenoid is on the firewall, after lookin things over I did have it set up wrong I had the neg that should have went to the block hooked up to the solenoid.. big oops...
so after fixing that mistake, i went and bought a brand new battery.. put it in the car and she fired right up...
so i did some much needed errands and came back home. I was home for about 4 hrs went to the gas station, filled up my tank and guess what..
CLICK CLICK CLICK the car wouldnt start again! after making sure the battery terminals were hooked up and tight.. still clicking.. so i got in, turned the key on, got out, put the screw driver to the solenoid and she fired up again... drove home, turned the car off, and then back on and click click click again...
why would it be doing this... the solenoid i bought was new.. in fact i have put two on this week alone both new. would there be something that causes them to go out so fast, and is it out if it starts with the screw driver? just wondering what else i can do...before i go crazy
do you think maybe its the ignition switch?

Much thanks for the replies that I have gotten.