well I checked all the fuses in by the driver door dash box. They look good. I checked under my steering wheel and I see a giant fuse missing in the 30a bottom section. That is the only one missing.
I wonder if thats it. I think I will call the auto parts and try to buy one. there was a tiny green 30 fuse at the bottom there and two 15 tiny fuse at the top that are good still.