Hi there my fellow Dutchman
I drive the same car and I my advise would be (if the cash is there) to go all motor. I would never use nitrous on my precious B16, just build it up to have beautiful power, all the time
And there IS a Honda scene in Holland, you just have to look in the right places. You do know about TCC and Hyperformancetuning right?
But you are right about the VW's though, too many of them around here...