Sorry I can't help you 'cos I have the same problems
I was really grateful to come acros this thread. I know there are probaly hundreds of similar Qs and As out there but it put a thought in my head -
thanks to your excellent photos of the problem and the 2 good pieces of advice already received, if you were to make a kind of progress thread of your save it might make a very good illustrated "how to" or something that could go into tutorials/scalewiki to help people in the future.
What do you think? I don't mean to presumptuous or anything, just thought I'd raise the suggestion