Not being very familiar with the position of the asd relay, try your local library or autoparts store for look at a manual. Also, check your fuse block for blown fuses. From what I understand, if the ignition/timing sensor in the distributor is not sending a signal, the asd relay will not supply power to ignition system or fuel pump. Have you tried the key/on/off/on/off/on to retrieve any trouble codes? Might point you in the right direction.