I like the wing. I think the headlights are reminiscent of a Celica, but then they're reminiscent of a Fioravanti or a Ford Focus in some ways too.
I can hear you about the spoiler, but I've seen pics with different setups that didn't look so obtrusive. But, I don't think it looks bad or even out of place. With aggressive styling of the rest of the car, an aggressive spoiler fits (the opposite applies with Combat wings on a Civic
).