My spare has a locking lug nut and I don't have the coressponding shaped removal tool. Is this a factory item. Nobody seems to know where to get the tool and at this point if I get a flat, I get the spare off.

Or the easiest was to cut it off

Find a cheap 12 point socket that is just slightly smaller then the lug nut (probably wont be metric one) and pound it on with a hammer. Should give you enough grip to get it off.

There is a company up in orchard park NY that supplied these to Isuzu.
Do not know if it was the same for Honda passports.

I got mine warrantied for free.
Only I had to pay to get one from them and then send my old one and then I got a refund.
Mine wheel lock key was stripped.
I sent them a pic.

I can get their name.... somewhere.

http://www.mcgard.com/

there it is.
try them