So im looking to buy a nice 69 muscle
i not only want to own this and drive it but also work on it and build it up as much as possible
on problem though
i wouldnt know where to start
please give me some lists of things i could start with and also there purpose

Well, look at what other people have done that you like and do research about what you can afford to do.

IMO the best way is to hit the car shows and speak to the owners about their mods, for the best advice. Car magazines etc are way too interested in getting you to BUY stuff, their advice is not always very accurate or useful.

ya but im not worried about money cause money will come eventually its just that i wouldn't know the first thing to do when im looking for things such as power

it would help if you knew what kind of car you wanted, and where you live.

choose a car first and go from there.

location is important because cars will be cheaper/ easier to locate in usable condition in the southwest for example.

Sounds like to me you need to do a lot of research and a personal inventory. By personal inventory I mean, how much you can spend ($$ and time), skill levels and personality. Then research, research, research.

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