I know that I saw somewhere in one of these threads a list of honda specific websites. Does anyone have that list or know where the thread is?

Not sure about the thread but what kind of sites are you looking for specifically? I have a huge folder of bookmarks for honda info and whatnot. Let me know.

I'm looking for parts (specifically motor mounts, engines).

For OEM stuff try here (http://www.hondaautomotiveparts.com/auto/jsp/mws/PartsSearch.jsp).