Hoping this is an axle but, my luck no, k i have a wicked vibration on my R front side, happened when i was on the highway goin straight jus started vibrating bad an if i ive it gas it gets worse...i checked for lose tire, axle, bent rim, rotated the right tire to the rear to see if i had a bad tire still did it...dosent really happen tll i hit 3rd gear, when i shift into 4th an 5th still does it 1st and 2nd i dont notice it, im hopin it aint the trans any ideas?

It is possible that it is an inner CV joint, the carrier bearing for the intermediate shaft or something in your suspention is comeing apart. It should be fairly obvious if you get it off the ground and start poking around under there and see what has some play in it.

nothing is loose, checked everything, has new swaybar linkages, struts are fine, R axle is new...still cant get rid of this damn vibration, but it seems that its gets real bad every once in a while then calms down a bit but is still always there...

motor mount?

dont think so, also i have a noise that sounds like a bad strut but they are new and its only from the left side...mounts dont feel bad, but cant really check cause its hasent stopped pouring rain here yet do i can have a min to take a look