I want to lower my car and echoman_pdx gave some advice to someone else on this thread (post #5):
http://www.automotiveforums.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=443857

I have a 2000 Civic EX. He said the koni sport shocks with ground control sleeves. Did he actually mean ground control coilovers? This is one I found:
http://www.prostreetonline.com/buy/ground_control_coilovers/

The yellow koni sport shocks are easy to find. I just want to easily lower my stock setup about 1.5 - 2 inches for the better look. I want a stiffer ride so i dont easily bottom out on dips (like i do now). This is a daily driver and i dont do anything really crazy with my car (except turn corners too fast).

I found the shocks for $492 and the coilovers for $303. My car looks like a monster truck now with the stock setup. Have a look at it here:
http://www.cardomain.com/ride/813664

So are those the only 2 things i need to lower my car?

yup, and we call coilovers like the GC and Skunk2s sleeves cause that's all they are, they are a coilover sleeve not full coilovers.